Good day, dear readers, and thank you for your following of my blogs! You are the best! I got to thinking about the whole issue of fetish, and decided to look it up. It is defined as, “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.” Beyond that, there are fetishes that are ascribed magical powers.
Frankly, that is a beyond me. Getting back to the original definition (I’m not going into the voodoo definition) did you start crossdressing because of sexual arousal? Did you find wearing panties a bit thrilling? Do you still find it so, or has wearing panties become just the usual thing for you? How about bras? I find both panties and bras so thrilling to wear. Honestly, matching bras and panties from Xdress, along with their matching camisoles are just about the best in the world!
Anyway, getting back to the topic, do you find dressing in beautiful lingerie an arousing experience, or is it just a normal part of your day? Xdress has a number of things that may appeal to a fetish dresser, such as dresses, petticoats & tutus (I love the Dance the Polka Petticoat by the way), and skirts (check out the ballet skirt – way too cute!) The dresses especially suggest some form of role playing, and are definitely suited to fetish fun. Of course, there are some folks that go beyond this level to a frontier way beyond – the adult baby fetish. These are the folks that enjoy dressing as a baby, complete with diaper, bonnet, and teething ring or baby rattle, and wet their diapers. What do you think about that?
Getting back to the title of this blog, “Where do you draw the line?”, are you into fetish, or is dressing in lovely lingerie just a normal part of your life? What type of fetish goes from a “Hell, Yass!” to a “Hell, No!” for you? I’d love to hear your comments.
Fondest regards,
Angie (Guest Blogger)
35 comments
Dave
I loved your post
It hit home
What a great blog this is to discuss various issues about the way we dress
There is definitely something to be said about a “kink” personality and sexual blueprint – as long as you have the courage and support to explore it fully. Whether it is a power thing (domination or just reverse normal), clothing-based, or any other combination of emotional or physical kink, being able to tune in to what turns your sexuality or identity on is a powerful journey to undertake.
Many people fall into the trap of shame and guilt when it comes to a fetish. The up side is you get a wonderfully powerful trigger to excite and enliven you; the down side is that, especially if it is not understood by others, it can lead to being closeted in shame. Personally, I’ve enjoyed the stages of unwrapping my fetish with my wife – that of wearing panties – but it is still an ongoing process. The more I uncover and reveal to her, the more I realize I have also hidden from myself. What started out as quickly trying a pair on, turned into openly sleeping in – and walking around the house in – first my wife’s panties, then my own. For me there’s both the thrill of the taboo as well as the sensation of tension and fabrics that serve to contrast my own masculinity and awaken my inner gender dialogue.
Discovering and divulging my fetish/kink has been a wonderfully freeing journey that has transformed me from someone hiding my passions behind shame, to someone who shares my Xdress wishlist with my wife and openly talks about what to put on after a shower. It began as a fetish, and turned in to a comfortable part of my identity. Luckily, there’s always another layer down the fetish rabbit hole to explore…
I’ve cross-dressed for many years but only found and enjoyed XDRESS recently. The term fetish definitely applies to me and it’s also reality. It is validation to be pretty on the outside for what I feel on the inside. In the last few years I’ve enhanced my breasts by taking hormones so that my bra has more to hold in the lace and satin. It’s very rewarding to feel feminine in lingerie and show off to my loving and supportive wife!
Thanks for all the cool clothes that you make available
Both
I definitely have a foot fetish and shoe fetish and live to crossdress for fun
However
Now that ive accepted myself i wear what i want when i want
Panties bras stockings nail polish on my toes
Femme jeans and tops
So much fun and look so much better
Love my murse too (wink)
since I met my partner She requires me to wear panties and a bra all of my waking hours. At home I wear women’s clothes and heels. I have women’s wedge heeled tennis shoes that I wear out. Our relationship is the same as two women with her the dominate and yes it is sexually stimulating for both of us. i defiantly have a shoe fetish especially wedge heeled sandals and pumps. Thank you for the Blog.