Good day, dear readers, and thank you for your following of my blogs! You are the best! I got to thinking about the whole issue of fetish, and decided to look it up. It is defined as, “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.” Beyond that, there are fetishes that are ascribed magical powers.
Frankly, that is a beyond me. Getting back to the original definition (I’m not going into the voodoo definition) did you start crossdressing because of sexual arousal? Did you find wearing panties a bit thrilling? Do you still find it so, or has wearing panties become just the usual thing for you? How about bras? I find both panties and bras so thrilling to wear. Honestly, matching bras and panties from Xdress, along with their matching camisoles are just about the best in the world!
Anyway, getting back to the topic, do you find dressing in beautiful lingerie an arousing experience, or is it just a normal part of your day? Xdress has a number of things that may appeal to a fetish dresser, such as dresses, petticoats & tutus (I love the Dance the Polka Petticoat by the way), and skirts (check out the ballet skirt – way too cute!) The dresses especially suggest some form of role playing, and are definitely suited to fetish fun. Of course, there are some folks that go beyond this level to a frontier way beyond – the adult baby fetish. These are the folks that enjoy dressing as a baby, complete with diaper, bonnet, and teething ring or baby rattle, and wet their diapers. What do you think about that?
Getting back to the title of this blog, “Where do you draw the line?”, are you into fetish, or is dressing in lovely lingerie just a normal part of your life? What type of fetish goes from a “Hell, Yass!” to a “Hell, No!” for you? I’d love to hear your comments.
Fondest regards,
Angie (Guest Blogger)
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I have found that it a mix of fetish and norm in my life. I am so greatful to have a supporting/adventurous wife. I absolutely love wearing panties, bras, and other lingerie. I am slowly working up to other clothing. We look at panties and lingerie almost everywhere. What started as a my desire for better quality fabric has quickly turned into a way of life. I happen to stumble on XD one night in a very random search of the internet and have been a so impressed with the options and styles. For a long time I kept these thoughts to myself. It wasn’t until I was telling my wife how bored I was with men boxer/boxer briefs and her telling me to buy a pair of panties to try on. From then the flood gates have been opened and I am happy beyond words. I read these blog post and I am comforted by the post and the comments. Thank you all for being exactly who/what I needed.
Stevie, Dave, and Aaron,
Thank you so much for your replies. Aaron, I so hear you about the rush that it is to wear panties under your power suit at work. Add a bra from Xdress, and it will make your day! So glad to hear that your wife is onboard with you. My wife being onboard has so enriched my life and our marriage. I can’t imagine a day without panties and matching bra! Stevie, you know what I’m talking about, as you are on the same page and Aaron and me. So cool to be in a meeting and think, “If you only knew.” Do you find it calming to dress en femme under all the macho stuff you have to deal with? I sure have.
Dave, I am so glad you have found an accepting community here at Xdress. I have met truly wonderful people here, as I know you will as well. We are all sisters under the skin, and it is so freeing to express who we are without societal condemnation. Dear sister, we are who we are, and you are so welcome to this sorority! (That and the beautiful lingerie.)
Fondly,
Angie
Angie, Stevie, thank you for your appreciation. I type from the heart and am honored to be a part of such a wonderfully embracing community – even if only thru comments and anonymously shared interests/behaviors. Looking forward to another wonderful blog post so I can stretch my mental boundaries. Fetishes, the concept of “gender”, expected social behaviors… Who would have thought I could find wonderful clothes, kind people, and mentally enlightening conversation all in the same place.
I too love the feeling of knowing i m wearing something sexy under my clothes
It makes my day go better
Aaron
So cool
Xdress also helped me expand my sexy undie wardrobe
The bra pantie sets are my fave
Its so cool your wife is on board
I too love knowing i have on my thingz and no one inthe office knows
We can be sexy too