Good day, dear readers, and thank you for your following of my blogs! You are the best! I got to thinking about the whole issue of fetish, and decided to look it up. It is defined as, “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.” Beyond that, there are fetishes that are ascribed magical powers.
Frankly, that is a beyond me. Getting back to the original definition (I’m not going into the voodoo definition) did you start crossdressing because of sexual arousal? Did you find wearing panties a bit thrilling? Do you still find it so, or has wearing panties become just the usual thing for you? How about bras? I find both panties and bras so thrilling to wear. Honestly, matching bras and panties from Xdress, along with their matching camisoles are just about the best in the world!
Anyway, getting back to the topic, do you find dressing in beautiful lingerie an arousing experience, or is it just a normal part of your day? Xdress has a number of things that may appeal to a fetish dresser, such as dresses, petticoats & tutus (I love the Dance the Polka Petticoat by the way), and skirts (check out the ballet skirt – way too cute!) The dresses especially suggest some form of role playing, and are definitely suited to fetish fun. Of course, there are some folks that go beyond this level to a frontier way beyond – the adult baby fetish. These are the folks that enjoy dressing as a baby, complete with diaper, bonnet, and teething ring or baby rattle, and wet their diapers. What do you think about that?
Getting back to the title of this blog, “Where do you draw the line?”, are you into fetish, or is dressing in lovely lingerie just a normal part of your life? What type of fetish goes from a “Hell, Yass!” to a “Hell, No!” for you? I’d love to hear your comments.
Fondest regards,
Angie (Guest Blogger)
35 comments
Love your blog and all the people sharing their fetishes!
I came across Body Aware and Xdress about 10 years ago and never looked back. I was hunting for some sexier underwear than what the department stores sell and hit the jackpot! Thongs, satin, lace, bras, so much to choose from. So hard to pick a favourite. It feels badass walking the office all day wearing a pink satin thong or black lacey panties under my clothes!
My wife is on board too and every Christmas and birthday comes with more items from BA or XD. Even trips to the mall are sexy now. When we walk by Victoria Secret she suggests I pick out something for her and she will find something for me.
Recently I opened up to her about my fetishes of being dominated and she embraced it. I wish I would have brought it up to her years ago! She puts on her tall black boots and a black corset and dresses me appropriately, stockings, bra, panties, and of course a collar with handcuffs. There is nothing more erotic than being being spanked, dragged around the living room and called names, among other things that are probably not appropriate to post here haha!
Thank you all for your wonderful replies on this blog. What a diverse group we are! If anything, I think your posts confirm to all of us that we are not alone with our love of beautiful lingerie. Dave, I especially appreciated your very thoughtful post, and especially your statement, “For me there’s both the thrill of the taboo as well as the sensation of tension and fabrics that serve to contrast my own masculinity and awaken my inner gender dialogue.” Your comment about the “inner gender dialogue” so well captures what the whole crossdressing experience is about for me. Thank you for your insightful comments.
Fond regards,
Angie
I simply live wearing panties. I wear them 3 or 4 days a week, however, my wife is not very supportive. I kind of have to do it on the sly. So I guess it is a fetish however if I could wear them every day I would. I would also wear dresses, skirts, lingerie, jerks, and oh how I love wearing as cute one piece swimsuit
I wear panties every day! The feel of them is so much more comfortable than male underwear. It’s like the secret women keep from men, and sissies like me when it comes to getting pedicures…you have to wear panties and get a pedi to know life’s best!
I have worn panties for years when I get home from work or out on weekends. My wife in the past few years has become accepting and helps me shop for women’s clothing or on the Xdress website. I have quite a few pairs of heels, flats, and Lularoe dresses, leggings and shirts. I wouldn’t classify it as a fetish for me but more of a relaxation from everyday stresses. I love pretty things! Oh and she has also let me experiment with make up as well!! 😍