The Wonderful World of Panties!

Greetings Dear Readers!

I hope you are well and wearing something pretty. First, a shout out to Nathan, who suggested a blog topic about lingerie. Thanks, Nathan. What a fun topic! Because the word “lingerie” covers such a large array of clothing, I’m going to limit this blog to the topic of panties – a topic I know you are all totally into, as am I.


The great majority of us got our start in cross-dressing with panties. A good number of us started by exploring mom’s or sister’s panty drawer and then progressed to buying our own. Some folks, once they are adults, limit themselves to underdressing under their everyday male clothing, while others of us progressed on to bras, hosiery, and finally outer clothing. 


I was a late starter, having begun with underdressing in middle age. Do you remember the thrill of that first time you slipped into a pair of panties? I was so amazed by the choices. With men’s underwear, you have a choice of tighty whities or boxers. Of course, you could expand that to uh, tighty whities or boxers. Of course, you can also find male thongs, usually in, of all places, swimwear. With panties, you’ve got this amazing variety of styles, colors, and fabrics. Xdress/Body Aware has a huge selection, ranging from pretty grannies to bikinis, thongs, G-strings, tap pants, tangas – ah the list goes on! And the fabrics! Lace, satin, cotton, polyester. I’m all about comfort, and men’s underwear does not begin to measure up to the comfortable styles and fabrics of panties.


It’s interesting to me that, although I’ve been underdressing for many years now (I have one pair of men’s underwear that I wear for my annual physical with my very conservative doctor) that it is still a treat every morning to pick out the day’s panties. When I wore men’s underwear, I didn’t give a thought to the selection of underwear, as they all looked the same. Not so with panties. Every day it is fun to decide on what panties to wear. Is it like that for you?


Online panty shopping is the safest way to go, and Xdress/Body Aware panties are designed with the male physique in mind, in terms of the width of the gusset, which gives a very comfortable fit. It is also fun to go to the “other side of the store” and explore the panty section. I am very fortunate to have a very supportive wife, and we go panty shopping together. I find that shopping in stores appeals to my feminine side, plus it is just a bit risky, making it all the more fun. Part of the fun for me is wearing a very sexy pair of panties under my women’s jeans and nobody has a clue how hot I look under it all. Speaking of jeans, if you try on a pair of women’s skinny jeans, you’ll never go back to men’s jeans. I know, that’s off topic, but I just had to throw that in there. 


Okay, so there are my thoughts on the topic. How about you? Are you a full-time panty wearer or limit it to weekends or special occasions? How old were you when you started underdressing? What are your favorite styles/fabrics? What is your preferred style of shopping – online or brick and mortar? Warm up those keyboards guys/gurls. You know I love hearing your stories.


Fond regards,

Angie

57 comments

I have been a panty wearer for a few years, I couldn’t deny myself any longer and put on a pair of my wifes and asked her how she liked them on me? When the shock wore off, it evolved into her taking me panty shopping. Having a mask on these days is a nuisance, but takes some of the recognizable issues out of shopping at the neighborhood store. Mind you, I don’t care, but I have a public job and need to be mondful.

I’ve bought 3 bras, my wife suggested forms. I bought some beautiful ones, she surprised me with some smaller ones, of which she approves. Baby steps. My wardrobe is growing, I have 7 dresses, a skirt, a drawer full of beautiful panties-mostly bikini, some brief. I have some xdress nylons with garter, and a few pairs of shoes. I cant wait to go out, I need a wig and learn make up tips. I’d go today if I were ready. Lastly, it’s fun when she “catches me” dressing up, I ended up getting my bottom paddled real good. I’m wearing matching bra and panties now with a dress. I hope she catches me again this morning!

Michael September 19, 2020

I am writing to say how wonderful my fiesta lace panty looks and feels. Subtly revealing behind the gorgeous grey lace trimmed in red. So delightful and so soft on my skin. Tantalising and gorgeous.

Michael August 27, 2020

I prefer the term manties but tomato/tomato.
Why should women have all the fun?
I was a wearer of panties for many years because I was unaware of Body Aware and XDress. I used to shop at VS, Walmart (yes, Walmart) and Sona as they all have a variety of styles and fabrics. My favorites are the hipsters and the cheeky or boy shorts. When I found Body Aware, I was very pleased with the selection but sometimes disappointed by the inventory (STILL WAITING FOR THE GLOSSY SATIN TANGA) and I posted a comment on their blog and Dave directed me to this site. Inventory is good and they offer a few more styles, including the hipster! So glad to have found this site! My new manties are coming tomorrow along with my first bra!

Scott August 11, 2020

I love wearing seductive panties, thongs and g-strings. Especially in lace which give that tantalising appearance irrespective of their colour.
For me personally, when you wear sexy underwear you have to be smooth shaven. It looks amazing and feels amazing too.

Michael May 19, 2020

Hi I am a 68 year old man served in the usmc and I love to wear nice pretty panties. It is do much fun and very exciting every mourning when it is time to pick out today’s panties. Of course it al depends on what I am go to do that day. Staying at home any pair works, but if I am planning on going some where I like to make sure that I wear a nice red red pair or one of my other many nice panties in all colors. Because I like to make sure that people see my panties. I lower my jeans, and I like to wear briefs because of the high waist band makes it easier for me to show them off. I have some short shirts that I wear also. As I am shopping or walking I like to make sure my panties are visible. I like it when a women has a facial reaction when she realizes I am wearing panties. I go to my doctor whom is a women and I make sure that I wear a special pair so that when I have that gown on with know back I juse leave it wide open so she has a grest look at my panties. I wear panties all the time now for the last 5 years. I really like women seeing my panties.
Let’s hear what you think about what I have said here tonight. My family doesn’t know but my ex does. I hsve told a number of people I would actually like every one to know I wear panties but not sure it is the right time now.

Terry April 29, 2020

Olá
adorei o seu post no blog. O interesse por cuequinhas começou na minha adolescencia e a pedido do meu namorado. Ele pediu-me para usar cuequinha e na altura fomoa a gaveta da mae e escolhi uma cuequinha azul bebe que ainda hoje guardo na memoria. Desde ai nunca mais deixei de usar cuequinhas no meu dia a dia. sao super confortaveis, sensuais e nao me vejo a usar outra coisa a nao ser em ocasioes especiais como ir ao medico por exemplo. Tenho varios modelos e varias cores e adoro escolher todos os dias uma de acordo com o meu estado de espirito. Normalmente uso fio dental ou cueca brasileira e comprei uns shorts para experimentar. Foi uma boa surpresa ter descoberto a Xdress e nao vejo a hora de poder experimentar a vossa lingerie

Hello
I loved your blog post. The interest in underwear started in my adolescence and at the request of my boyfriend. He asked me to wear a pair of pants and at the time he promoted the mother’s drawer and I chose a baby blue suit that I still remember today. Since then I never stopped wearing underwear in my day to day. they are super comfortable, sexy and I don’t see myself using anything else except on special occasions like going to the doctor for example. I have several models and colors and I love to choose one every day according to my mood. I usually use thong or Brazilian underwear and bought some shorts to try on. It was a good surprise to have discovered Xdress and I can’t wait to try your lingerie.

Nuno January 23, 2020

Love this blog ………I also like to wear sexy panties in sheer , mesh and lace fabrics. For the most alluring look I prefer the G-string and C-string. I also try from XD next time.

Elena January 02, 2020

I wish to be anonymous, but I would like to try to tell you my story. I’m a 54 year old guy I come from a very large family of 8 girls and 1 boy. I’m the youngest, and the only boy lol. So I got handmedown underwear. I never had to wear my sister’s clothes or anything like that just the panteis. I have never worn any men’s underwear in my life. My mom, and dad ran a very large farm, and didn’t have much money to buy us lots of clothes. With that being said mom would shop for the girls, and I would always get new panteis jeans, and some shirts for school. She bought panteis for all of us because they were comfortable, and cheaper than boys underwear. Mom loved the silky fabrics so she always bought me the softest silliest panteis she could find same for the girls. I never had to wear cotton panteis only the girls had cotton panteis for when it was their time. Personally I love panties wear them all the time because they are so comfortable, and they have so many different styles colors, and fabrics to choose from that I don’t want to wear men’s underwear. I love my mom, and dad rest your souls, and I am very grateful for the way that I was raised. I’m proud to wear women’s panteis, and I am not afraid of what people may say about my panteis. My wife of 23 years is very supportive, and understands very well why I wear panteis. She has no problem with it. She has only been blessed to know my mother for a very short time and she always tells me that my mother was a great person. My sister’s friends, and everyone else that I know in my life have always been very supportive of my family, and for that I am truly grateful. Mom dad I love you so much, and I am very proud to be your son.

Me December 05, 2019

Please dont have all models shaven, some of us are not , we re just men who like lingerie, we dont want to be shaven we wont to be sexy men in lingerie. Some want clean shaven but not all
Stevie

Stevie November 01, 2019

Welcome to our community Bodhi. A good way to organize and show your market strength would be to contribute regularly to this blog and also to support Xdress who have been working for 3 decades to normalize the concept that it is OK for men to wear lingerie!

David October 30, 2019

Angie, I totally agree with you! I’m a 45 year old man that has worn panties pretty much all my adult life. I enjoy the rebellion of it, the free expression I feel. And I love the fabrics, the lace, the sheer material, the different cuts. There is plenty of sexy underwear made for men, but it still can’t replace the feel of a sexy pair of panties. I wish there were more ways for us panty wearing men to organize so we could show our market strength.

Bodhi October 30, 2019

please have all your models be totally clean shaven. Some of your models it looks like they are not completely shaven

holly October 26, 2019

I enjoy wearing panties all weekend love the feel of lace on my body is great .enjoy with nice bra. Enjoy a nice dress with a nice pair of heels

sidney October 26, 2019

Hello all, I’ve been reading the comments and I got very inspired by everything you were saying.
I will never forget the feeling when I got in a shop to buy my first knickers… it was so liberating. After that (around 3 years ago) I started researching online and found out about xdress. Since the beginning I shared about this experience with my girlfriend and at first she got confused. She asked, but you also want to be a woman? She became very supportive about that and today we choose what will be the next knickers together.
I wear them when I am in the mood. Sometimes just to sleep sometimes to spend the day, go out, etc. As long as I don’t feel super self conscious about showing off my thong by accident I am fine. It makes me feel super sexy and comfortable.
But there is one reason I still having boring ‘male’ underwear. Is that you need to be able to afford a collection of good panties… and the true is that it is expensive. I am not talking about the quality that is amazing. But would be fantastic to see this kind of underwear becoming more popular and accessible for everyone!
Lots of love, from Glasgow.
xx

Oyster October 18, 2019

The wonderful world of panties … oh and how wonderful it is. From buying, to wearing, to showing, to colors, to styles, to fabrics … it is truly a wonderful world.

Pauley October 16, 2019

Dear John
You are so right. For guys raised to be masculine yet desperate to release their feminine side, feminization trainers or support is definitely the way to go. You can however take small steps yourself by practicing your own deportment a little every day; the way you sit with your legs together or lift your posture a little more when you walk for example. Sit up straight. Swing your arms a little less when you walk. Relax your face and open your eyes a little more. All these things are gentler ways of moving through the world and showing respect for yourself and others. Far easier by far if you’re wearing beautiful xdress panties and a bralette too. Shed that aggressive masculine mask and be gentler with the world.
Ally x

Ally October 13, 2019

John,

You are absolutely right, having someone there to support you is absolutely essential. It can be a significant other, friend, family member, counselor… anyone that will support you. Sharing your feelings about this side of yourself with someone who won’t judge you completely changes your mindset about it. You will no longer feel ashamed but instead feel encouraged to be yourself, which we all deserve to be.

Nathan October 12, 2019

Nathan: good advice. I am currently building up a panty and bra collection so that I can put away my male underwear and try to wear only panties. I’ll see how long I can do it without reverting back to male underwear. You are absolutely right about comfort and I think that’s one of the many reasons I abandon panties frequently; it’s so hard to find a comfortable fit. Xdress is really helping here but it’s good to have variety, there are so many sexy choices for women. I think what the world needs is feminization trainers (you know, like the gym fitness trainers?). These would be people who would coach you, support your choices and guide you in the right direction until you have permanently removed the toxic programming and are completely comfortable with expressing femininity.

John October 10, 2019

Hi guys gurlz and all in between
What a great discussion! Obviously PANTIES are a HUGE factor in our expression our eroticism our sexuality our feminism or feminine expression.

I love panties on me and women too for that matter
I love even more the matching sets . Its so cool for me to wear male lingerie, so now am I really crossdressing? Well that doesn’t matter because I love pushing the envelope between male and female. Hey i love the styles the clothes the gender mixing
So i push forward
Wear something pretty today
I an!
Stevie

Stevie October 10, 2019

Right on Ally! Yeah, if guys wore pretty underwear they would be more in touch with their feminine side and that would cure the “toxic masculinity” endemic. I certainly feel happier, gentler and generally a nicer person when I am aware I am wearing nice panties. I remember hearing about a jail where the inmates were made to wear pink underwear, I wonder how that worked out.

Jase October 10, 2019

Such pantyness out there!
It’s so refreshing to read about the feminine things we love to wear in a world that seems to be bursting at the seams with toxic masculinity.
In the same way that there was a ‘burn your bra’ movement in the sixties, perhaps we could start a ‘wear your bra’ movement for guys promoting a gentler and prettier way of living. That would be so liberating!
I’m in blue lace today for the occasion.
Ally x

Ally October 10, 2019

Hi gurls,

So great to read all your comments, advice and suggestions! It’s encouraging to all, especially those who are somewhat new to the community. Like Nathan, panties are my default choice most days and I reserve bralettes for special occasions. It’s a liberating thing to express oneself by expressing one’s inner femme and to be able to share the experiences, including the trial and error parts, is just so refreshing and encouraging. Kudos to everyone for sharing your stories and being open about your femininity!!

Kyrstin October 09, 2019

I agree with Nathan, Lets keep this blog going and have everyone contribute their thoughts.
For me, I like panties for many reasons, but mainly if I compare the standard men’s clunky boxer briefs inevitable in thick cotton with a pair of delicate panties, in lightweight fabrics and laces in pretty colors and feminine trims and bows, the choice is easy. In fact I don’t understand how any guy, given the choice would want to wear heavy weight constricting boxer briefs, even if they are now available in a few colors and prints. Maybe we who enjoy panties are more aware of our bodies and how we look, compared to the average guy who thinks of underwear as purely functional. I like Xdress panties as they do fit me perfectly, with room up front, as although VS make some nice things, they do cut across my balls (ouch!). In any case the XD selection is great and probably bigger than VS and other women’s brands, and I think its important to support these folks who are pushing the envelope and helping to get it acceptable for men to wear lingerie. So keep it up XD!!

Jase October 09, 2019

Hello all! This a great conversation and I want to keep it going by offering my thoughts on some of your latest responses.

To G: I hope your dinner outing was enjoyable and that your anxiety wasn’t too bad. I certainly understand how nerve-wracking it can be your first few times wearing a bra publicly. However, you will soon realize that your nervousness is silly, as not many people out there scrutinize your clothing enough to notice you are wearing a bra (unless it has cups or straps are showing, of course).

To John: By simply just making panties your default choice for underwear will remove that toxic mindset that it’s wrong, allowing your inner-femininity to flourish. However, it’s all about comfort. Don’t ever force yourself to wear panties if you know you will not be comfortable. Bras are more occasion based, as most of us want to make sure they aren’t noticeable. As Keri mentioned, bralettes are typically the most ideal for this as they typically have less excess fabric that can poke through outerwear.

To Keri: Bralettes are amazing! I prefer them over bras for the same reasons you mentioned. Their lack of a cup allows the fit to typically be perfect, and there are so many styles! Not to mention they are typically less expensive than bras, which is also a great benefit.

As a side note: today I chose merlot pantyhose, black dress, black heels, and dark red lipstick. It goes together beautifully! Remember to be true to yourselves, and wear something gorgeous!

Nathan October 09, 2019

Thank you Keri for all the tips and tricks. Now I just have to work up the gumption to go into the women’s section in Kohls. I’m definitely going through a feeling out period right now and appreciate all the support and advice. Hope all is well with all of you.

G

G October 07, 2019

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