The Wonderful World of Panties!

The Wonderful World of Panties!

Greetings Dear Readers!

I hope you are well and wearing something pretty. First, a shout out to Nathan, who suggested a blog topic about lingerie. Thanks, Nathan. What a fun topic! Because the word “lingerie” covers such a large array of clothing, I’m going to limit this blog to the topic of panties – a topic I know you are all totally into, as am I.

The great majority of us got our start in cross-dressing with panties. A good number of us started by exploring mom’s or sister’s panty drawer and then progressed to buying our own. Some folks, once they are adults, limit themselves to underdressing under their everyday male clothing, while others of us progressed on to bras, hosiery, and finally outer clothing. 

I was a late starter, having begun with underdressing in middle age. Do you remember the thrill of that first time you slipped into a pair of panties? I was so amazed by the choices. With men’s underwear, you have a choice of tighty whities or boxers. Of course, you could expand that to uh, tighty whities or boxers. Of course, you can also find male thongs, usually in, of all places, swimwear. With panties, you’ve got this amazing variety of styles, colors, and fabrics. Xdress/Body Aware has a huge selection, ranging from pretty grannies to bikinis, thongs, G-strings, tap pants, tangas – ah the list goes on! And the fabrics! Lace, satin, cotton, polyester. I’m all about comfort, and men’s underwear does not begin to measure up to the comfortable styles and fabrics of panties.

It’s interesting to me that, although I’ve been underdressing for many years now (I have one pair of men’s underwear that I wear for my annual physical with my very conservative doctor) that it is still a treat every morning to pick out the day’s panties. When I wore men’s underwear, I didn’t give a thought to the selection of underwear, as they all looked the same. Not so with panties. Every day it is fun to decide on what panties to wear. Is it like that for you?

Online panty shopping is the safest way to go, and Xdress/Body Aware panties are designed with the male physique in mind, in terms of the width of the gusset, which gives a very comfortable fit. It is also fun to go to the “other side of the store” and explore the panty section. I am very fortunate to have a very supportive wife, and we go panty shopping together. I find that shopping in stores appeals to my feminine side, plus it is just a bit risky, making it all the more fun. Part of the fun for me is wearing a very sexy pair of panties under my women’s jeans and nobody has a clue how hot I look under it all. Speaking of jeans, if you try on a pair of women’s skinny jeans, you’ll never go back to men’s jeans. I know, that’s off topic, but I just had to throw that in there. 

Okay, so there are my thoughts on the topic. How about you? Are you a full-time panty wearer or limit it to weekends or special occasions? How old were you when you started underdressing? What are your favorite styles/fabrics? What is your preferred style of shopping – online or brick and mortar? Warm up those keyboards guys/gurls. You know I love hearing your stories.

Fond regards,


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I started wearing sister’s panties at an early age. Her underwear always felt better than mine. i continued slipping them out of the hamper and even wore them to school a few times. After I got married, I stopped wearing panties at all but still had the yearning to wear them. After I got divorced, I ended up buying a few and wearing them sporadically. After a while, I decided to throw away all my underwear and just wear panties. I now wear them 24/7 for the last 6 years. I have over 40 pair and even wear to doctor. I am much happier and they just make me feel and look better every day. i even wear nighties to bed now, So happy that I made the change.


I’ve been wearing panties every day for about 30 years. (70 now). Shortly after starting to wear I added camisoles every day. When my kids went off to college I expanded my feminine wardrobe to include a variety of women’s sleepwear and robes, pettipants, shapewear. tops, slips (short minidress, half and full; thigh highs and more. Finally, I started wearing a bra everyday which gave me great pleasure (so feminine). I love the feel of straps and band all day. Lately I have been wearing a bra with thin inserts, panty with liner, pettipants, camisole or short slip and women’s fragrance everyday. I am addicted with two dressers and a closet of women’s things.


I love wearing satin and lace panties and I love saying out loud that I WEAR PANTIES EVERY DAY. I wore a nice pink pair the last time I saw my dermatologist. My toenails were painted red along with two fingernails on my left hand. I also had a fresh shave under my arms the morning of my visit. My new dermatologist asked me to strip to my underwear, leaving me alone to do so. When he and his female nurse returned and opened my gown, I was impressed that they didn’t say anything out loud. He had to lower the panties, of course, but he didn’t treat the panties like they’d bite him, and he didn’t react to my pubic hair trim that leaves a skinny vertical strip of short hair from my belly button leading to a thin horizontal strip of very short hair atop my working parts, kind of like a mustache for the open minded. When he finished looking me over, taking his time to be thorough, he gave me a long, warm handshake while looking directly into my eyes. It wasn’t sensual or weird, it was as if he was supporting my celebrating my nonbinary self. I can’t describe how validated he made me feel. I felt kind of a glowing sensation of pride and acceptance from being acknowledged by someone I’d just met for the first time. Showing my true self comforts me and makes me feel pretty. I’ve decided never to wear ugly, uncomfortable boy boxers just to go to the doctor ever again. Wearing panties and painting my nails puts me exactly where I belong on the male/female spectrum, somewhere in the middle. Mixing boy and girl clothes shows who I am. No mixing genders when I go to bed, though. A pretty pink nightie covers everything for me then. No boy clothes at all in bed. Spaghetti straps rule between the sheets.


My life has completely changed in the last year since trying on my first pair of my girlfriends knickers. Unlocked a passion and confidence and embraced my feminine side. I tend to only wear knickers at the weekend as I work on a building site and my work trousers are low slung and always reveal underwear. Its a very toxic masculinity culture and I can’t imagine the grief I would get it I got seen in lace panties. Not quite ready to be the one breaking gender stereotypes on a building site!


I’m a panty wearer & have been steady for 16 years now.
I bought my first pair when I was 9 from 5 & dime store. Fell in Love the first time i put them on.
My panty collection now may make some women jealous. Over 200 pairs. LOVE them. Pink is my favorite color, polyester is my favorite fabric. I also wear bra’s, stockings, tights & Dresses. I LOVE my FEMININE side. Glad to know there are other men that Love them too.
I really Love picking out the pair for the day.
My GREATEST experience was the first time I wore a matching Bra & Panty set. I FELT PRETTY & that FEELING lasted all day. LOVED it.
Keep being free Y’LL


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