Given the Opportunity

Given the Opportunity

As a woman, if you had told me a year and a half ago my SO would be wearing sexy satin and lacey bras, panties, and accessories, I would have said you were nuts. Meeting my SO changed all of that.  I knew going into this relationship he enjoyed wearing lace and satin and I was fine with exploring what that would be like.  In the back of my mind, I did question if this attire would be a simple phase or if it was something that would be ongoing … for both of us.  

I wondered if I was ok with it because I really liked him and wanted it to work - would that acceptance and enjoyment fizzle after a short time of being together?  Would his ‘exploration’, which was fairly new, last?  Or would he realize this wasn’t for him but was in fact a phase?  I had no clue how this would go as it was all so new for me. I did, however, hope that it would work the same for both of us!

Just over a year into our relationship, I couldn’t imagine enjoying the look and feel of the satin and lace on his body any more than I do.  

A few weeks ago I was in the kitchen making a rhubarb crisp – his favorite summer dessert – when he disappeared.  I assumed he was off to work in his home office or read a book.  Only minutes later, he reappeared wearing my favorite lingerie - his blue glossy and lace panties with matching bra, garter, stockings, and lipstick and I love the confidence it brings out in him.  Depending on what he chooses to wear, I see different energy in him.  This was incredibly sexy … and he joined me in completing the crisp!

It’s actually a little strange to see him in briefs when he does wear them!  Perhaps when he does it’s a little hint that we need to go shopping. ; )

I absolutely love going shopping with my SO – either online at XDress or in person at the malls.  I do wish XDress had an outlet where we live so we could go in and experience the shopping in person.  I think we both love the personal attention we receive when the salesperson realizes it’s my SO we’re shopping for and not me!  We had an amazing experience with one saleslady who was so supportive and assisted us in finding what we were looking for.  She let us know we are not the only people shopping for lingerie ‘for him’ (though that doesn’t matter to us AT ALL!)  We love the merchandise from XD because everything fits well.

The most recent purchase added to the collection is matching satin nighties.  I like the idea of matching and wearing lingerie for him to enjoy as well.  It feels good to have this kind of connection with my SO.  I’m grateful he discussed this with me prior to us dating – it gave me time to process the idea and a better understanding of why he does it, and the opportunity to grow with him.  It’s really fantastic to go through new experiences with him.  We continue to grow and explore in this area and I love every bit of it!

Lots of Satiny Hugs!


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Hi Stevie – I love bras too. They must match my panties. I feel so much more feminine when I’m wearing both and I’m wearing both much more everyday now. I’ve discovered the xdress silicone enhancers to be wonderful too. They add a touch more shape without being inappropriately overstated.


On bras I love wearing them because i like matching panties and the masculine body with the lingerie intrigues me. I wear them all the time ! If you are worried about show thru wear a dark tank and looser shirt or sweater If there’s going to be a lot of hugging (shouldn’t be with covid) wear a sports bra Wear something pretty today I am Stevie


So many great people and stories here! Thanks so much TA for sharing. My GF and I have a very similar story as you and your SO do. It’s so much fun to share with each other. My GF uses some of my makeup and I’ll “borrow” her pantyhose when I wear heels to work. And it’s so much fun to go shopping together for jeans, shoes, and of course lingerie. As Ally said, it’s hard to beat brick and mortar shops because sometimes it’s necessary to try things on. And I’ve had nothing but positive experiences shopping, whether with Tiffany or alone. Salespeople are very supportive and helpful which makes the experience all the more enjoyable. I’m amazed at what it’s done for my confidence and she’s noticed it too. I always felt confident in most situations, but this opened up a whole new level of confidence for me, just being unashamed of who I am and what I enjoy. In fact Tiff says she thinks it makes me seem even more masculine than before because I seem so liberated and self-assured. Anyway sorry for rambling but TA’s blog really inspired me to write! Stay safe and enjoy shopping, gurlz! XXOO Kyrstin


I am doing my best to continue to ease my wife into this cd realm of my life. She’s bought me panties for a few years now, we often match! She’s taken me to TJ Maxx dress shopping twice, and shoe shopping 2x also. Last night, the shoe store closed at 7, at 6:20 I dashed into the store, with her in the car finishing up a conversation. I found some purple shoes that made my pants shift in front. I’ve been wearing a bra outside the house on 2 occasions, once was last night. I approached a hot little sales girl and asked what size I would wear in women’s shoes, I mustered up the courage. She told me and I started to shop. My wife joined me after a few minutes and shopped too. The sales girl, Taylor was polite and professional, not affected by my question. Side note, no one seemed to notice or care at costco friday when I had a bra on under my shirt. One couple did notice, they looked like they knew the scoop and maybe he dresses too. Anyway, I cannot wait to slide into my xdress nylons and garter, my purple bra and panties, and my dress tonight. My fantasy is to go out all dressed up. Guess I need a wig and some make up tips first!!! Love my new life. Thanks Xd for having all the gurly stuff a guy would need! Loves, Michael aka Michelle


So many great comments Yes we love lingerie sometimes on us, it is so relaxing; it takes us out our male role and allows us some freedom. For the customers who feel its too expensive maybe just an indulgence on your b day or for Christmas would be in order. I shop every where and the prices are reasonable maybe a tad high. But the quality and fit are worth it too me after years of squeezing into lingerie cut fir women I love that for those of us not transitioning or experiencing gender dysphoria there’s a place for us . And for those that are experiencing GD or transitioning You have accepted us into your world ( at least on this website) The reasons we wear lingerie is so different for each of us, the ability to share here is priceless Edwin Stephan Jim and others great to meet you Wear something pretty today I am Stevie


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