Given the Opportunity

Given the Opportunity

As a woman, if you had told me a year and a half ago my SO would be wearing sexy satin and lacey bras, panties, and accessories, I would have said you were nuts. Meeting my SO changed all of that.  I knew going into this relationship he enjoyed wearing lace and satin and I was fine with exploring what that would be like.  In the back of my mind, I did question if this attire would be a simple phase or if it was something that would be ongoing … for both of us.  

I wondered if I was ok with it because I really liked him and wanted it to work - would that acceptance and enjoyment fizzle after a short time of being together?  Would his ‘exploration’, which was fairly new, last?  Or would he realize this wasn’t for him but was in fact a phase?  I had no clue how this would go as it was all so new for me. I did, however, hope that it would work the same for both of us!

Just over a year into our relationship, I couldn’t imagine enjoying the look and feel of the satin and lace on his body any more than I do.  

A few weeks ago I was in the kitchen making a rhubarb crisp – his favorite summer dessert – when he disappeared.  I assumed he was off to work in his home office or read a book.  Only minutes later, he reappeared wearing my favorite lingerie - his blue glossy and lace panties with matching bra, garter, stockings, and lipstick and I love the confidence it brings out in him.  Depending on what he chooses to wear, I see different energy in him.  This was incredibly sexy … and he joined me in completing the crisp!

It’s actually a little strange to see him in briefs when he does wear them!  Perhaps when he does it’s a little hint that we need to go shopping. ; )

I absolutely love going shopping with my SO – either online at XDress or in person at the malls.  I do wish XDress had an outlet where we live so we could go in and experience the shopping in person.  I think we both love the personal attention we receive when the salesperson realizes it’s my SO we’re shopping for and not me!  We had an amazing experience with one saleslady who was so supportive and assisted us in finding what we were looking for.  She let us know we are not the only people shopping for lingerie ‘for him’ (though that doesn’t matter to us AT ALL!)  We love the merchandise from XD because everything fits well.

The most recent purchase added to the collection is matching satin nighties.  I like the idea of matching and wearing lingerie for him to enjoy as well.  It feels good to have this kind of connection with my SO.  I’m grateful he discussed this with me prior to us dating – it gave me time to process the idea and a better understanding of why he does it, and the opportunity to grow with him.  It’s really fantastic to go through new experiences with him.  We continue to grow and explore in this area and I love every bit of it!

Lots of Satiny Hugs!


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Patrick we feel u ! Tread lightly here. If you can’t ask her outright if shes ok with it then try to feel her out on it. Look inside yourself to see why u want to wear stockings and bra because she will. Its better if you have a well thought of answer. I love bra panty sets and skinny jeans and heels and light make up and body hugging dresses Anyway we re here to support you In some of the old posts you can find helpful ways to approach this topic with SO Wear something pretty today I am Stevie


I’ve been wearing panties since I was 14 and I’m 43 now it’s difficult to explain to you partner why you wear them. I have thought about wearing stockings and suspenders and bras but I’m not sure yet I’m married and have a wife who is ok with me wearing panties but it’s taking that best step to wearing bras and suspenders. I admire each and every one of you and ur partners


Thanks for all the comments and feedback! I am grateful we found this community and can be open here – it truly inspires knowing that other people are doing the same or similar things. ❤️ Lots of Satiny Hugs!


Omg I finally built up the nerves to go out fully dressed wife helped me get all dressed up and make up high heels and a dress I cannot believe how much fun I had can’t wait to do it again


Quel plaisir de porter des articles en dentelle soit disant gay pour certains.
Ce n est pas mon cas pour l instant j en met en cachette.. Ce serait mal vu de mon entourage et ma copine n apprécie pas.un simple body en dentelle et elle a été choquée. Dommage j aurais pu vous faire partager une photo de mon plaisir.


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