The Games People Play


Have you ever stepped out of the box in your gender fluid experience? I know, I know, you are already out of the box – but I mean... just a litter further? Have you ever gone bra shopping with your wife and when checking out at the register, have her hold the bra up to you and say, “Honey, this is going to look so cute on you!” Or the same with a cute pair of panties, or a skirt? Of course, it doesn’t have to be husband and wife….it could be, well, a guy with his guy. When my wife and I go shopping, I’m pretty sure the clerk is wise, as my wife is a tiny woman, and I’m either size XL or 1X, depending on the manufacturer. I’m pretty sure the clerk is wise enough to know the differences in sizes.


Or how about this one – have you ever had a makeup party with your significant other? My wife and I have had a lot of fun with this one. She’s introduced me to subtle fingernail polishes that give my nails a pearlescent glow, and I regularly wear frost pink on my toenails. My nail tech is totally okay with that, and even has complemented me on the color. (By the way, a trip to the nail salon with my wife is a heavenly girlfriend experience.) Next, my wife introduced me to foundation makeup and eye shadow. Have you ever had some fun that way? It can be amazing how the foundation can soften your complexion. How about lipstick? I found one that I can wear in public without being outed, but it’s a lot of fun knowing I have it on. To get the hang of makeup, you definitely want a GG as an advisor. As any woman will tell you, “Less is more.” Get some advice from a GG (genetic girl) so you don’t go out of the house looking like a drag queen (all due respect to drag queens, but most of us don’t want to get read).

Or, even a bit more boldly, how about dress up parties with you wearing a maid’s uniform and being submissive to your special person – wife, girlfriend, boyfriend? Xdress has some wonderful cosplay outfits if you are willing to take a little walk on the wild side. As long as we are on the topic, have you ever experimented with forced feminization/domination? I realize that probably isn’t for everyone, but it can be very fulfilling when you are feeling in your totally feminine self.


Those of you who regularly read my blogs (and thank you so much, dear readers) probably realize this blog is a bit out of my usual wheel-house, but hey, half the fun of crossdressing is playing those wonderful games with the person most dear to us. My wife and I have found that my crossdressing has enriched our relationship like nothing else could. What a unique experience it is to find the person that accepts you as you are, and the woman within you. I have online friends who have found not just wives and girlfriends that accept them, but also some wonderful friends who have found a male who treasures them. What lucky people we are!

So dear readers, tell me your thoughts, experiences and even desires you might have regarding this fun topic. I’d love to hear your thoughts.

Fond regards,



I shop at VS and they are very helpful! Their selection is great and super sexy. It fits okay but XDress does have a better fit but not the selection. Ying to the yang I supposed but the places we can shop are opening up more and more. I wish XDress had a brick and mortar as it would be a great shop to go to! I fantasize about how these items look and feel on the website. It would be better to see them in person. I never can forget the look on the strippers face when we went to the champagne room and she saw my panties. She was so turned on! And so was I!

Scott September 23, 2020

Bonjour , je suis ravis de trouver un autres site Blog d’Hommes en lingeries Féminines ou fines . Je me suis déjà inscrits sur le site ( Culotte ) et sur le site ( ) , et je vien de trouver le votre XDRESS . Malheureusement ils n’y a pas grand-mondes qui répond , j’espère que sur votre site les gens repondent . Moi je portes de la lingeries féminines tous les jours , j’ai 60 ans , ca fait 50 ans que je portes de la lingeries tous les jours , ils n’y a pas beaucoups de personnes qui sont aux courants , ma femme et qu’elles ques amies is , sons au courants , mes auqu’uns de mes amis hommes ne porte de lingeries féminines , je suis un peux déçus . Pourtant je leurs montres , je leurs expliques , le bonheurs et le plaisirs que de portez de la lingeries feminines . J’achetes ma lingeries tout seul , personnes ne me donnent des conseilles ou des explications , je me débrouilles tout seul . Amicalement , tontonyvon .

Hello, I am delighted to find another site Blog of Men in women’s lingerie. I have already registered on the site (Culotte) and on the site (, and I just found your XDRESS. Unfortunately they are not big-audiences that answer, I hope that on your site people answer. I wear women’s lingerie every day, I’m 60 years old, it’s been 50 years that I wear lingerie every day, there are not many people who are aware, my wife and her friends, they are aware, my friends do not wear feminine lingeries, I am a little disappointed. Yet I watch them, explain to them the joys and pleasures of wearing women’s lingerie. I buy my lingerie alone, people do not give me advice or explanations, I’m doing it alone. Regards, tontonyvon.

Yvon August 30, 2019

Me and my wife planned out a role play to “push the envelop” as we say. We went to a town not too far from us and to a local shop that we know isn’t shopped in very much. The shop is a retro 70’s type store. I wore “regular” guy clothes but underneath I had on sexy white thigh highs, a lacy garter belt, and a pair of silky white bikini panties that were very sexy with lace at the waist and leg openings. We looked around for a while until the shop was just about to close and the only person there was the owner. We had been in before and maybe she recognized us but she felt comfortable with us being the only ones there. She asked if it was ok to hang the closed sign on the door she had things to finalize for the day. We said it was ok and did we need to leave? She said it was good for us to stay. I thought and later found it to be true that she was a woman with a kinky side. She kept checking out my and my wife’s physical features and especially my butt. I’ve always been told I have a really cute bottom. We found a short pleated skirt and a blouse to match and headed to the cash register without trying them on. The lady asked if this was all she could help us with. My wife said actually it’s not been tried on. She then held the outfit up to my chest and said, “Sweetie, I think this would look great on you!” I said I wasn’t for sure and my wife told me to go ahead and try it on. She then turned me around, gave my butt three spanks on each butt cheek, and with a firmer voice said, “Go!” The store owner was wide eyed and had a big grin. I came out of the dressing room to find my wife and the store owner looking me up and down. So, to give the picture, I’m standing in this store in front of my wife and a woman I don’t know wearing lacy top thigh highs and a matching garter belt that shows below the skirt, a sexy pair of silk and lace white bikini panties, and a school girl outfit. My wife asks the sales woman what she thought. She said I looked like a school girl looked good enough to spank. She went on to say that I was probably naughty and needed a good spanking. My wife agreed and two straight back chairs were brought out and they sat facing each other. I was directed to lay across their knees. I guess I’ll stop here telling this story’s details since it gets a little kinkier and would be a good bit longer but needless to say I had a very red bottom!

Randy August 30, 2019

I like the feeling I receive from panties/nylons & garter belts

Patrick grutkowski January 24, 2019

VS is catching on that we wear lingerie and with the social consciousness of the LGBT community its ok to tell them its for me and my experience even in the south has been positive

Stevie December 04, 2018

I love these stories. It gives me hope that maybe one day my spouse will participate in something like this with me. I would love to “push the envelope” in public a bit. Maybe not in my hometown but it works be so much fun. For now I just wear my sexy potatoes and occasionally bend over in the store so maybe someone else would see them.

JB December 04, 2018

i just recently went and visited my local VS , oh how I wish Fredericks was still open, and made it very clear to the sales associate that the teddy, tap pants and panties i was looking at were for me. Well five of the six were for me . the sixth i gifted to her and asked her pick out. She actually picked out a very sexy lilac purple one. I think I need to return and talk to her about actually being able to try stuff on.

kevin November 28, 2018

I would like to see more about your new items

Ignacio Archibeque November 18, 2018

Stevie, you are the coolest! We had some great time away and probably looked like a couple of teenagers, what with holding hands and kissing. She is the best! You are right – wearing matching panties (which we are doing today) is a wonderful form of intimacy. I am such a lucky gurl! Watch for my next blog – I would love to hear your thoughts.

Fond regards,

Angie October 31, 2018

Hi Angie
Glad you got some time off
You are a lucky girl/guy that your wife loves your femme side
Matching panties are so cool and so intimate
Rock on
Guys wear pant

Stevie October 30, 2018

Thank you all for your wonderful comments and stories – I love them! My wife and I were away on a vacation and just got back, so my apologies for not responding sooner. Some of you are as fortunate as me with wonderful significant others who embrace your femme side. While we were on vacation, we found matching panties in a lovely fabric. We hand washed them and hung them up to dry, and wore them the next day. What fun it is to have a GG that knows how to play!

Keep those comments coming – I love your stories!

Fond regards,

Angie October 29, 2018

my wife and I go shopping all the time together for thing for me and we start to get some thing on line now. but its a lot more fun in stores we go to a lot of the outlets too . and the good will stores are a real good place too i will go right to the lingerie dept and start looking for bras or panties. i have the best. we are retire and in are late 60s so we have a lot of fun days .all the time its the best donna

donna October 28, 2018

My adventure is shopping for panties and bras with another male friend. We’ve know one another for several years and we both wear panties. He wears bras almost everyday (lucky guy) and we both wear nighties to bed. We met on line and that eventually led to meeting in person as we live in the same area.

It helps that we share many commonalities and love our feminine side. We joked about how women have no problem shopping for men things together but that it was so taboo for guys to do the same. Especially when it comes to things like panties and bras. Well, we decided to give it a try and wow it is exciting. People look but no one has ever said anything. I have to admit I was totally nervous and uncomfortable at least the first few times. He tends to get excited or aroused and says things out loud. Things like aren’t these panties cute, or do you like these Keri and more. He doesn’t just say these things quietly but loud enough for others to hear. It was more than a few times shopping before we looked at bras. We have shopped for other lingerie items and YES we have bought things. We always buy for each other. Again the first few times we went to different checkouts but we really wanted to buy together. Why not women do. Well we do that now and even though there are still some butterflies I love shopping with him.

I know most have never had this opportunity I suspect and maybe wouldn’t even dare try it. BUT, do it and you will love it.


Keri October 22, 2018

love the comments………….especially the ones where the guy’s wife is so acceptable to his cross-dressing. My wife found my fem clothes. Was really upset. Wanted nothing to do with my cross-dressing which I love.Need to find a women so accepts it.

Jack Harris October 22, 2018

Hi Angie
This blog is loaded!
Yes I have explored the fem dom in femme clothing and it was mund blowing. The domme said I m a natural submissive
As far as the other topics in this blog, no shopping but I have gone to nail salon for mani pedi with my wife and the techs now ask Her where is your husband?
I had a GF paint my toenails and we wore matching Victorias Secret Panties
She accepted my panties and toenail polish but no bras. She had no problems with my femme jeans sweaters but no bras. I was very close to her.
When i shop in person which is rare because most of my panties are from you guys i dont say they are dor me but i think the sizes give it away
Make up i do concealer and light foundation sometimes as well as my eyelashes
If you can find a willing partner it is a gold mine, you will become very close, intimate. Being accepted for who u are is pricelessand the fun is awesome.
When I told the GF about the panties i said they were manties. She said BS those are panties and I like them on you

Angie great blog topic

Stevie October 20, 2018

To be honest I haven’t found someone who would accept me. I want a girlfriend so badly that would just surprise me one day with lingerie. I love dressing up in lingerie and in any girls clothes. I dress myself and I am ok with it but it would be more fun to have a girlfriend to dress me up and paint my nails. Im not into the make-up scene yet. In the end I just want a woman to accept me and be my best friend to enjoy life and be able to go shopping and wear matching things.

Jay October 20, 2018

I love wearing lipstick when I go out with.The Cisco at the goodwill where I shop ask me if the shoes and skirt I was buying was for .the me .I had to tell her they were. She told me they ×ould look good on me thank you for your blog

sidney October 18, 2018

I LUV to go with my wife every month for a mani/pedi. My wife and nail tech pick out the colors for me. It usually coincides with an upcoming holiday. White during summer, yellow for Easter. Orange for Halloween, etc.
Thihis month I am wearing a dark grape on my toes with beautiful pink fingernails. It is soo much fun. The other customers in the salon love to see what is next. I wear a tight pair of capris and a t-back top that shows ‘just enough’ of my bra. The women always tell my wife: How lucky and fun her life must be. I can honesty say I have far more womenswear than boring men’s clothes. My wife is always buying me great sexy clothes.

Wanda October 18, 2018

Oh gee! I guess not sine I was 4-5-6 that my sister ( 10 years older than me) and her girlfriends would put makeup on me, that I have enjoyed a party! Well, I take that back, about 5 years ago when my mother last, a friend and his daughter stopped st my moms house and I gave his daughter some nail polish.her dad would not let her paint her nails, as they were going somewhere important, so I asked “ do you want to paint my toe nails?, and she did! But as far as a spouse or significant other, I have not had that pleasure. I have shopped for myself to the shock of a sales person.

Paul October 18, 2018

Yes, the wife and I play with lingerie wearing and buying. Many times when we are out panty shopping we will buy two identical pairs of panties and go through the line. I am larger than my wife so the panty sizes are different. Sometimes the sales clerk will realize this difference and ask my wife if she knew she picked up different sizes. My wife will say yes and then tell the cashier that the larger one is for him … then without a beat they both look at me. I usually just smile and ask if they don’t fit can I return them. Other times when shopping or checking out in line the wife will hold up a pair of panties and ask me if these are my size. Oh the fun and excitement is off the charts. Another game we play is showing our matching panties or stockings while out. Buying shoes or bending down together to examine something on the bottom shelf while making sure our panties are above pants waist and exposed. We also do lingerie only days around the house and if that means answering the door than you answer the door. We have a lot fun together with lingerie play and I am one lucky man to have found that special woman who enjoys it as much as I do.

Pauley October 18, 2018

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