Have you ever stepped out of the box in your gender fluid experience? I know, I know, you are already out of the box – but I mean... just a litter further? Have you ever gone bra shopping with your wife and when checking out at the register, have her hold the bra up to you and say, “Honey, this is going to look so cute on you!” Or the same with a cute pair of panties, or a skirt? Of course, it doesn’t have to be husband and wife….it could be, well, a guy with his guy. When my wife and I go shopping, I’m pretty sure the clerk is wise, as my wife is a tiny woman, and I’m either size XL or 1X, depending on the manufacturer. I’m pretty sure the clerk is wise enough to know the differences in sizes.
Or how about this one – have you ever had a makeup party with your significant other? My wife and I have had a lot of fun with this one. She’s introduced me to subtle fingernail polishes that give my nails a pearlescent glow, and I regularly wear frost pink on my toenails. My nail tech is totally okay with that, and even has complemented me on the color. (By the way, a trip to the nail salon with my wife is a heavenly girlfriend experience.) Next, my wife introduced me to foundation makeup and eye shadow. Have you ever had some fun that way? It can be amazing how the foundation can soften your complexion. How about lipstick? I found one that I can wear in public without being outed, but it’s a lot of fun knowing I have it on. To get the hang of makeup, you definitely want a GG as an advisor. As any woman will tell you, “Less is more.” Get some advice from a GG (genetic girl) so you don’t go out of the house looking like a drag queen (all due respect to drag queens, but most of us don’t want to get read).
Or, even a bit more boldly, how about dress up parties with you wearing a maid’s uniform and being submissive to your special person – wife, girlfriend, boyfriend? Xdress has some wonderful cosplay outfits if you are willing to take a little walk on the wild side. As long as we are on the topic, have you ever experimented with forced feminization/domination? I realize that probably isn’t for everyone, but it can be very fulfilling when you are feeling in your totally feminine self.
Those of you who regularly read my blogs (and thank you so much, dear readers) probably realize this blog is a bit out of my usual wheel-house, but hey, half the fun of crossdressing is playing those wonderful games with the person most dear to us. My wife and I have found that my crossdressing has enriched our relationship like nothing else could. What a unique experience it is to find the person that accepts you as you are, and the woman within you. I have online friends who have found not just wives and girlfriends that accept them, but also some wonderful friends who have found a male who treasures them. What lucky people we are!
So dear readers, tell me your thoughts, experiences and even desires you might have regarding this fun topic. I’d love to hear your thoughts.
Fond regards,
Angie
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To be honest I haven’t found someone who would accept me. I want a girlfriend so badly that would just surprise me one day with lingerie. I love dressing up in lingerie and in any girls clothes. I dress myself and I am ok with it but it would be more fun to have a girlfriend to dress me up and paint my nails. Im not into the make-up scene yet. In the end I just want a woman to accept me and be my best friend to enjoy life and be able to go shopping and wear matching things.
I love wearing lipstick when I go out with.The Cisco at the goodwill where I shop ask me if the shoes and skirt I was buying was for .the me .I had to tell her they were. She told me they ×ould look good on me thank you for your blog
I LUV to go with my wife every month for a mani/pedi. My wife and nail tech pick out the colors for me. It usually coincides with an upcoming holiday. White during summer, yellow for Easter. Orange for Halloween, etc.
Thihis month I am wearing a dark grape on my toes with beautiful pink fingernails. It is soo much fun. The other customers in the salon love to see what is next. I wear a tight pair of capris and a t-back top that shows ‘just enough’ of my bra. The women always tell my wife: How lucky and fun her life must be. I can honesty say I have far more womenswear than boring men’s clothes. My wife is always buying me great sexy clothes.
Oh gee! I guess not sine I was 4-5-6 that my sister ( 10 years older than me) and her girlfriends would put makeup on me, that I have enjoyed a party! Well, I take that back, about 5 years ago when my mother last, a friend and his daughter stopped st my moms house and I gave his daughter some nail polish.her dad would not let her paint her nails, as they were going somewhere important, so I asked “ do you want to paint my toe nails?, and she did! But as far as a spouse or significant other, I have not had that pleasure. I have shopped for myself to the shock of a sales person.
Yes, the wife and I play with lingerie wearing and buying. Many times when we are out panty shopping we will buy two identical pairs of panties and go through the line. I am larger than my wife so the panty sizes are different. Sometimes the sales clerk will realize this difference and ask my wife if she knew she picked up different sizes. My wife will say yes and then tell the cashier that the larger one is for him … then without a beat they both look at me. I usually just smile and ask if they don’t fit can I return them. Other times when shopping or checking out in line the wife will hold up a pair of panties and ask me if these are my size. Oh the fun and excitement is off the charts. Another game we play is showing our matching panties or stockings while out. Buying shoes or bending down together to examine something on the bottom shelf while making sure our panties are above pants waist and exposed. We also do lingerie only days around the house and if that means answering the door than you answer the door. We have a lot fun together with lingerie play and I am one lucky man to have found that special woman who enjoys it as much as I do.