The Games People Play

The Games People Play


Have you ever stepped out of the box in your gender fluid experience? I know, I know, you are already out of the box – but I mean... just a litter further? Have you ever gone bra shopping with your wife and when checking out at the register, have her hold the bra up to you and say, “Honey, this is going to look so cute on you!” Or the same with a cute pair of panties, or a skirt? Of course, it doesn’t have to be husband and wife….it could be, well, a guy with his guy. When my wife and I go shopping, I’m pretty sure the clerk is wise, as my wife is a tiny woman, and I’m either size XL or 1X, depending on the manufacturer. I’m pretty sure the clerk is wise enough to know the differences in sizes.


Or how about this one – have you ever had a makeup party with your significant other? My wife and I have had a lot of fun with this one. She’s introduced me to subtle fingernail polishes that give my nails a pearlescent glow, and I regularly wear frost pink on my toenails. My nail tech is totally okay with that, and even has complemented me on the color. (By the way, a trip to the nail salon with my wife is a heavenly girlfriend experience.) Next, my wife introduced me to foundation makeup and eye shadow. Have you ever had some fun that way? It can be amazing how the foundation can soften your complexion. How about lipstick? I found one that I can wear in public without being outed, but it’s a lot of fun knowing I have it on. To get the hang of makeup, you definitely want a GG as an advisor. As any woman will tell you, “Less is more.” Get some advice from a GG (genetic girl) so you don’t go out of the house looking like a drag queen (all due respect to drag queens, but most of us don’t want to get read).

Or, even a bit more boldly, how about dress up parties with you wearing a maid’s uniform and being submissive to your special person – wife, girlfriend, boyfriend? Xdress has some wonderful cosplay outfits if you are willing to take a little walk on the wild side. As long as we are on the topic, have you ever experimented with forced feminization/domination? I realize that probably isn’t for everyone, but it can be very fulfilling when you are feeling in your totally feminine self.


Those of you who regularly read my blogs (and thank you so much, dear readers) probably realize this blog is a bit out of my usual wheel-house, but hey, half the fun of crossdressing is playing those wonderful games with the person most dear to us. My wife and I have found that my crossdressing has enriched our relationship like nothing else could. What a unique experience it is to find the person that accepts you as you are, and the woman within you. I have online friends who have found not just wives and girlfriends that accept them, but also some wonderful friends who have found a male who treasures them. What lucky people we are!

So dear readers, tell me your thoughts, experiences and even desires you might have regarding this fun topic. I’d love to hear your thoughts.

Fond regards,


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Thank you all for your wonderful comments and stories – I love them! My wife and I were away on a vacation and just got back, so my apologies for not responding sooner. Some of you are as fortunate as me with wonderful significant others who embrace your femme side. While we were on vacation, we found matching panties in a lovely fabric. We hand washed them and hung them up to dry, and wore them the next day. What fun it is to have a GG that knows how to play!

Keep those comments coming – I love your stories!

Fond regards,


my wife and I go shopping all the time together for thing for me and we start to get some thing on line now. but its a lot more fun in stores we go to a lot of the outlets too . and the good will stores are a real good place too i will go right to the lingerie dept and start looking for bras or panties. i have the best. we are retire and in are late 60s so we have a lot of fun days .all the time its the best donna


My adventure is shopping for panties and bras with another male friend. We’ve know one another for several years and we both wear panties. He wears bras almost everyday (lucky guy) and we both wear nighties to bed. We met on line and that eventually led to meeting in person as we live in the same area.

It helps that we share many commonalities and love our feminine side. We joked about how women have no problem shopping for men things together but that it was so taboo for guys to do the same. Especially when it comes to things like panties and bras. Well, we decided to give it a try and wow it is exciting. People look but no one has ever said anything. I have to admit I was totally nervous and uncomfortable at least the first few times. He tends to get excited or aroused and says things out loud. Things like aren’t these panties cute, or do you like these Keri and more. He doesn’t just say these things quietly but loud enough for others to hear. It was more than a few times shopping before we looked at bras. We have shopped for other lingerie items and YES we have bought things. We always buy for each other. Again the first few times we went to different checkouts but we really wanted to buy together. Why not women do. Well we do that now and even though there are still some butterflies I love shopping with him.

I know most have never had this opportunity I suspect and maybe wouldn’t even dare try it. BUT, do it and you will love it.



love the comments………….especially the ones where the guy’s wife is so acceptable to his cross-dressing. My wife found my fem clothes. Was really upset. Wanted nothing to do with my cross-dressing which I love.Need to find a women so accepts it.

Jack Harris

Hi Angie
This blog is loaded!
Yes I have explored the fem dom in femme clothing and it was mund blowing. The domme said I m a natural submissive
As far as the other topics in this blog, no shopping but I have gone to nail salon for mani pedi with my wife and the techs now ask Her where is your husband?
I had a GF paint my toenails and we wore matching Victorias Secret Panties
She accepted my panties and toenail polish but no bras. She had no problems with my femme jeans sweaters but no bras. I was very close to her.
When i shop in person which is rare because most of my panties are from you guys i dont say they are dor me but i think the sizes give it away
Make up i do concealer and light foundation sometimes as well as my eyelashes
If you can find a willing partner it is a gold mine, you will become very close, intimate. Being accepted for who u are is pricelessand the fun is awesome.
When I told the GF about the panties i said they were manties. She said BS those are panties and I like them on you

Angie great blog topic


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