Recently I was invited to an XDress photoshoot which I have to say was an absolute blast, but it created a burning question I wanted to ask you! I have to know my friends, what do you think of men and women side by side wearing lingerie in photos?  Seeing a hot man like Michael in lingerie was truly something to behold, but I found it really went to the next level for me to see Aurora in lingerie next to Michael. I could picture myself and my love doing the same, which made it all the more personal and intimate. Does this also hold true for you?



In the media we are bombarded with women in lingerie, and seeing this on it's own doesn't really become anything special for me. However, when I see a guy in lingerie that’s a different story! I picture myself in the pieces they are wearing and it makes me think of what it would feel like for me. I am very much about the feel, look, and fit (XDress has the best fit!). Now, when you add in a woman into the picture, I instantly get flashed back to the exciting feeling of what it would be like to wear the lingerie for my love. I get that heart racing sensation when I am modeling something new for her. Am I alone in this feeling? What about two guys together in lingerie, does this also hold the same feeling for you?



I really hope you will share with me your thoughts on this cause, since the more we share the more we realize we are not alone. I know I would love to see more photos from XDress that show both men and women together in beautiful lingerie. I think it would also be sexy to feature women in a more masculine light and the man in a feminine manner (tastefully done as only XDress can do). Another would be to have a woman/man helping a man do up his bra or attach his garters. But again, these are just my thoughts. Tell me what you think?

Until next time my friends remember we define what is sexy and we deserve to feel sexy ourselves!


XD Blogger

Like What You're Reading?

Share it with your friends!



I wholeheartedly agree!
There is something wonderfully fresh about a man and a woman in your photo shoots!
As a happy XD customer I can relate to spending time with my wife wearing sexy outfits that “blur the gender norm”…and enjoy being photographed for the fun of it! There is freedom in the expression of a clearly masculine man (I’m 6’-0" and a very muscular 220 pounds) wearing paricularly feminine items suchas a bra and panties, or sexy stockings and garters. Having a woman alongside makes that expression even more pronounced and exciting, like you pics with Michael and Aurora together doing everyday stuff…and totally comfortable with it. That’s what it kind of comes down to, being comfortable with who we are and who we are with…artfully displayed by your XD couple. I vote yes, please keep it up!


I would like to see photos of masculine looking shaved men enjoying their lingerie together, doing everyday activities. Why not a lingerie house party just for men showcasing XDress lingerie. Men could be examining the items, showing them to each other, and modeling them. Say maybe 6-8 attendees and of course a gorgeous host attired in the most beautiful lingerie. Do a look book.


I couldn’t say it any bertter myself! I totally can relate to the pictures that get posted with a man and a woman in lingerie. This is how my relationship with my wife works. It is always exciting to get new clothes and model them for my wife. Please keep up the good work!


I guess that we, the outsiders to your industry, are also inundated with glamorous pictures of gorgeous women in scanty clothing and provocative poses. We are not as used to seeing men photographed in similar conditions. Maybe this is why my reaction to photos of a man and a woman, such as the ones illustrating this blog, is that I am less nonplussed at the man — he is just on a par with the woman. Alone, however, he is more striking. (The woman alone is obviously just what she is every time — another gorgeous — ho hum — model in glamorous — yawn — lingerie.) As a result, I had to look twice at your third photo to realize how truly sexy the man looked.

This is good news and bad news: the good news is that by having both genders present in a picture, you achieve more of an impression of equals. The bad news is that you continue to set an impossibly high standard for us male buyers of lingerie. There is no way we, in our mid-forties (or early seventies as far as I am concerned) with imperfect pecs and a four- (or even two-) pack instead of a six-pack and incipient baldness can look like that, anymore than the MILF next door looks like she stepped off the runway.

So how about it, people? How about running a pictorial/blog (not a whole catalog, of course) of some ordinary people for a change? And by all means, have them engaged in some innocuous activity such as a gal fastening a guy’s bra in the back, with another guy holding up a loose bra over his pecs as he is shown how this is done? Maybe I could be that last guy, the Lord knows that I need a lesson or two!

Tyri Hansen

I couldn’t put it any better than Dave and completely agree.


Leave a comment

Please note, comments need to be approved before they are published.