What Got You Started?

August 20, 2018 67 Comments

What Got You Started?

Greetings, my dear readers. First I want to express my appreciation for your responses to my blog postings. It is so rewarding to know that there are so many of you that share this common experience with me that we call, loosely, “crossdressing”. Perhaps a better term is “gender fluid.” That pretty much works for me, as we all have a sense of who we are that is much broader than the confining role of the traditional binary male. I can’t imagine going back to being the macho male I once pretended to be (I say “pretended” because that was never who I really was) and wearing those heavy, scratchy underwear. Thinking about this fascinating journey of embracing the inner femme that we know ourselves to be, I started wondering about what got us all started on this journey.

 

 

I’ve read a lot of posts on various sites, regarding crossdressing folks like us, and have found there are many starting points. Some have sisters, and got started by exploring their sister’s panty drawer, or closet in search of the perfect skirt or dress. Others went foraging in their mom’s closet and dresser. Others didn’t have a sense of their femme self until later in life and lived, or do live, in fear of discovery by their wives. Others, the most fortunate of all, have a spouse that is totally okay with the feminine side of her husband or significant other, and lives happily in the gender fluid world with him.

 


So, I have a question for you: what got you started, and at what age? When did you first slip on that luscious pair of panties and know you were hooked – that this was a part of who you are? When did you first try on that first bra, or blouse, or skirt, and know that this was something you just had to do? We all had some starting point that led to where we are now, and I would love to hear your stories. By reading the blogs here at Xdress, surely by now you know you are far from alone in this fascinating world of the gender fluid; you are part of a virtual community here at Xdress.  Tell me your story – I would love to hear it!


Fondest regards,

Angie


67 Responses

Paul
Paul

November 03, 2019

I love stories about teenagers trying on their mother’s or sister’s panties and instantly becoming aroused. My sexuality emerged slowly and it never occurred to me to do anything like that. The first I knew about crossdressing, as a student in the 1960s, was from a book called ‘Sexual Deviation’ by Anthony Storr, a psychotherapist. He mentioned how some men liked to crossdress and pleasure themselves, often in front of a mirror. I realised at once that this would please me a lot! Storr reckoned that my condition was neurotic, and curable by psychotherapy. I knew I wasn’t ill and did not want to be ‘cured’.

Fast forward a few years. I had been married for a year and found myself alone in the house. I slipped on one of my wife’s nighties, then stood in front of a mirror and did what came naturally, with the greatest enjoyment. I was now officially a sexual deviant and it felt fantastic! From then on I was hooked. I relied on my wife’s wardrobe for some years. If she suspected anything, she never said so. (Many years later, she was dismayed to find part of my stash, but at least it didn’t include anything of hers!) Later I discovered other sources of my favourite garments, which helped me realise that there must be many others who shared my tastes. It would still be more than 20 years before the advent of that godsend Apres Noir/Xdress, which enabled so many of us to buy pretty things which fitted perfectly and did not show under our clothing, to say nothing of gorgeous babydolls in satin, chiffon and lace.

Brian
Brian

July 30, 2019

I wasn’t in my teens yet when I had the chance to cruise through my mothers underwear drawer. I did find some silk panties and tried them on. Not much transpired from this adventure and many years went by until the mid 80’s came around and then I noticed and felt the urge to try wearing again.
When the 80’s hit I was into the Rock band, Hair Bands in that day. I went to many concerts and took obvious note into what the girls were wearing and how super sexy I found the look to be. The super short, tight skirts, thigh highs, garter belts, heels and lets not forget the hair. As I arrived at the day of the concerts, my neck would get a workout from looking in so many different directions and skirt after skirt. Even though the skirts made me look, they mostly drew my attention directly at legs. I have a thing for sexy legs and I received some complements about mine growing up.
So, another 20 or so years later, the chance for myself to experience trying on skirts presented itself to me and I took it. I found a Black skirt at a yard sale while browsing and decided to add it to my other guy clothing I was buying, stuck it in between the clothes and asked how much. A few bucks was said and they never looked though the items and away I went straight home. My clothes couldn’t come off fast enough as I tried on my 1st skirt. It hugged my skin tight but it had plenty of stretch to the material. I was hooked from then on. Any chance I had and was alone I wore that skirt. If I didn’t have to take it off, I didn’t. I still have it today and is still one of my favorites.
Since that 1st day I tried on that skirt I have since accumulated much more clothing. Its grown to include, lingerie, panties, bra’s, tops, dresses, and now another big interest, Heels. I haven’t yet to be outdoors while dressed up, only inside, when I get home from work and shower up, I get into dress and I feel so much better. I absolutely feel much more comfortable in femme wear than in my regular clothes. I love it.

Pete
Pete

July 24, 2019

My earliest remembrance is wearing pale blue ruffled nylon swim briefs when I was very young (about 4 years old). I only had brothers so was not surrounded by much feminine, but I believe my mother always wanted a girl, so dressed me in girly clothes while she could get away with it. One or two photos of me in a baby dress survive. I suspect this is not all that unusual, and may be why many of us have a desire to wear panties and more. I did not start wearing panties by choice until I was much older, but I do remember as a child being fascinated by girls in dresses and getting a glimpse of white panties was heaven!

Tommy
Tommy

July 23, 2019

I remember very well: 1986, I was 6 years old and found one my older sisters’ tap dance outfits. It was a kelly-green satin leotard with white sequins on it, not a lot, but scattered around. The finishing touch was a short white tutu. This outfit was made for boys like me! Not really caring about anything, I put it on and started dancing around. No one saw this, but I wasn’t hiding it either with my bedroom door open. I stored the outfit in my closet, which no one seemed to notice either lol! Both my sisters and brother are considerably older than me, so its not like she was going to wear it again. Now that I think about it, I wonder if my siblings and parents DID see the outfit in my closet and put two and two together? Mind. Blown! I kept wearing that adorable little outfit for several years.

At 8, my only friend was a girl my age, Tina, down the road (I live in the sticks). We were playing one day when she wanted to have a tea party, but explained I couldn’t wear boys clothes, that we had to wear dresses. She got one out for me, and I took her seriously when she said “no boys clothes” by taking off my undies too. Inevitably her mom checked on us, and we explained how I ended up in a dress. This woman was SO accepting and so nice, she just said how sweet I looked, but not to wear any of Tina’s dresses again… without undies. Mrs. K was (is) an angel, I can NEVER forget what she did for me: the next time I came over (or somewhere around there), she called us up to Tina’s room where she had cookies and Kool-Aid for another “tea party.” She had laid out two dresses for us to wear, except one dress had little pink panties laid on top, and they had small white bows on the hips. They were for me! My very first panties, and (unlike most of us), they were my size :) She sent me to the bathroom where I removed every last piece of boy clothes, and slipped my panties on. I was physically excited, if you know what I mean, but also VERY emotionally excited, and I still feel my heart racing as I asked through the door if they were ready to see me. Something took over, and I twirled around for them a few times, and did some silly poses before Mrs. K helped me into the dress. That was the best tea party ever! Nearly every time I played with Tina from that day on I was dressed as a girl – sometimes just panties, sometimes head-to-toe full dress-up, sometimes Tina’s basic shorts and T’s. Mrs. K didn’t let me try a girls swimsuit, though. Sadly, Mrs. K and Tina moved away a year and a half later and with them went my panties and any chances of dressing like a girl, or so I thought.

At 10 I was in a summer camp, and a counselor befriended me much more than the others. His motivations were exactly what you’re probably assuming them to be right now, and the relationship two years. I’m over it, and don’t hate him anymore, and my life has moved on. As unfortunate as it was, and relevant to this topic, it was with him that I accepted that I’m a sissy boy. You name the clothing, I wore it. And it wasn’t small women’s clothes, but stuff made for me (I still have no idea how). I was also able to wear girls swimsuits (both one-piece and bikinis) at a local waterpark, and go out in public in full sissy outfits. For as much work it took me to get over the other parts of that relationship, I still count being a sissy boy as a good part of it.

When that time over and he was out of my life, I rejected being a sissy boy, and denied what I wanted, and needed, and how I felt. For 20 years I told myself I was not “that way,” and I was “normal.” At 33 years old, I began to slowly re-consider how I felt, and warmed up to being a sissy boy again. I even opened up to one of my sisters, who is so cool she bought me two pairs of panties because I was too scared to go into a store and buy them myself. Now I wear a mix of panties and some really cool double-seat briefs, like I wore back in the day! I have several sissy dresses, tons of regular girl clothes (shorts, jeans, T shirts, tights). I have a leotard and tutu! I even have Ariel (Little Mermaid) fleece footy pj’s for the winter :)

I’ve accepted who I an, and what I’ve always been: Tommy, Sissy Boy, and I don’t want to hide that again, ever :)

Dan
Dan

April 30, 2019

The way I found now much I loved xdressing was different. As a total sub I connected with a dom couple, she would dress me and they would use it to humiliate me both physically and mentally. I was paraded in front of their friends and made to wait on and service them. I was tied and punished, used and abused. The whole deal was exciting but the clothing made very, very excited. Now I wear panties and thigh top stockings all the time under my "street clothes, I don’t wear bras because my nipples are pierced and I want the jewelry to show tlhrough my feminine blouses. I like make up a lot but it takes practice, I also use perfume and lots of very feminine jewelry. I’m still a sub but now it is always as a bisexual crossing make who is dedicated to “female” atire. Love your site, please keep up your work, your support is invaluable.

Rich
Rich

April 20, 2019

Like many others, I had my start by raiding my mother’s dresser when I was about 12. One day each week, I had about a 2-hour safe “window” at home by myself after school, when she took my sister to her ballet class. I usually had just enough time to go through one drawer, pick some things to try on and then “model” them in front of her full-length mirror. I must have spent several of those days trying on her bras and panties, finding whatever I could to fill the bra cups – tennis balls, rolled-up socks, or who knows what! The next drawer was where she kept her camisoles, full slips and half-slips. It wasn’t until many years later that I got as far as wearing dresses, but when I did I made sure to remember to always go with a full slip. I could never get a half-slip to stay up! Then I got to the drawer where she had several babydoll nighties and matching bikini panties. After trying them on, I knew I’d spend every night wishing I could sleep in them instead of my flannel pajamas! I didn’t think of it at the time, but it would have been fitting if I could have worn the babydolls to bed, since they may have had something to do with my being born in the first place!

I don’t know about anyone else, but for me it was another drawer that held what made me long to discover my femme side, and that was the drawer where she kept her bathing suits. As early as around kindergarten age, anytime we went to the beach or to a pool, I had a secret longing to wear girls’ bikinis or one-piece styles. It probably started at a birthday party at someone’s pool when I saw the other kids’ moms in their bathing suits. I didn’t yet understand the progression of boys growing up to be men and girls growing up to be women, so I hoped I’d become a girl by the time I was their age. I probably thought wearing enough girly things would make me turn into one! I still had that hope when I tried on my mother’s bathing suits, starting with her turquoise crushed velvet bikini. In some ways it was like wearing a bra and panties, with the top having bra-style straps, but the feel of the material took the excitement to another level! We had a creek in the woods behind our house, and I so badly wanted to find a secluded spot where I could spend the whole day swimming and sunbathing as a girl! I never got enough nerve to try that, so I settled for a safer alternative, putting a towel on the floor, lying down on it, closing my eyes and imagining myself on a beach, having turned into one of the girls I’d seen on our past trips! I had to use a lot of imagination, but the bikini did its share to make the enjoyment real!

As much fun as I had trying on her bikini, it was wearing one of her one-piece bathing suits that introduced me to the girl inside me. It was an orange and yellow floral print, with three metal rings on each side holding it together. I had to fumble around a while before I figured out how to put it on, never having seen a woman do that! I held it by the straps and kept trying to step through the leg openings, but my foot kept getting caught in one of the slits between the metal rings. After a number of tries, I finally got both feet through the right places. As I got the rest of the way into the suit and slid the straps over my shoulders, I wasn’t ready for the jolt that went through my entire body. I was pretty sure that the bathing suit would fit me reasonably well, as her other items had, but when it molded itself around me like a second skin, all I could think was that I’d instantly turned into a girl as I’d wished for so long. In a way it was frightening, because I suddenly felt totally natural wearing something that was obviously made for a woman. I went to look at myself in the full length mirror and, after just two or three steps, realized that I was swishing my hips without any conscious effort. When I got to the mirror, I kept asking myself over and over if that was really me. The bikini gave me that feeling too, but the leg openings on the one-piece suit went much higher on my hips, and the seat seemed to shape my butt like a woman’s. To top it off, the molded cups, common on most women’s swimsuits at the time, gave me a full bustline. The worst part about taking it off was knowing that the next time I went swimming, I was going to have to wear boys’ trunks again, this time knowing how it felt to wear women’s bathing suits! I thought the Speedo suits that boys wear on swimming and diving teams would give me at least some of the same enjoyment, but they didn’t even come close!

It wasn’t until some time later, but I finally experienced the thrill of wearing women’s swimsuits to the pool at my apartment complex. I usually chose one-piece styles, since they were easier to find in my size than bikinis for one thing. Also, I found that one-piece swimsuits with soft-cup bras hold artificial breast forms better than most bikini tops do! I always tried to find swimsuits in floral print fabrics that would go with either red or fuschia toenails. Going to the pool was usually the way I topped off a day of cross-dressing. After going grocery shopping or running other errands in a cami top, mini-skirt and 6-inch heeled platform sandals, I’d get back to my apartment and change into one of my bathing suits. Since I didn’t want to get my wigs wet, and knew I couldn’t pass with my own hair, I usually wore flower-petal swim caps. With makeup and lipstick already on, the effect was complete. Whether I was swimming laps, doing aqua aerobics or relaxing on a float, I found that some time in the jacuzzi afterwards wound it up nicely. As for passing, I don’t know if I fooled “all of the people all of the time” or not, but to me it was all about imagining myself as a woman, feeling natural in a woman’s bathing suit, reliving the experience I had when I tried on my mother’s, and still waiting to see if enough dressing and acting like a woman will make one out of me!

Angie
Angie

March 19, 2019

Wow, what wonderful and varied responses this blog has given rise to! I’ve so enjoyed all your responses and stories. It seems there is one common theme – those of us who are destined to explore our femme side are hooked forever when we try on femme lingerie. I share with you that sense that once you put on that first pair of panties, it connects you with a part of yourself you may or may not have known was there. Thank you all for sharing your personal stories. They are all so enjoyable to read!

Fond regards,
Angie

Tim
Tim

February 27, 2019

I’ve always been a butt man so when I finally realized I wanted mine to look good also there were no thongs being made for men that I knew of. Now this was long ago. My wife bought me some women’s thongs and that’s where it took off. I started wearing them to work and always whenever I put on a tight pair of jeans. I really love how my ass looks wrapped in lace boyshorts, my new favorite. Just bought the Lace Brazil Brief in purple! Purple has always been my fav color. Normally always bought womens panties but usually a hole develops in the front. So excited to have a pair of lace panties w/ a pouch. I have several mens pouch panties but no lace ones and hoping these fit my butt perfectly!!
Needless to say, those first panties my wife bought me just started the whole process of me trying to have the cutest butt out there!!! Interesting when I read the blog this morning about to pouch or not. Surprised so many said no. For me though, its all about how my ass looks in my panties. Hope my order arrives before this weekend…

Marsh
Marsh

January 29, 2019

I am not a cross-dresser, yet! My wife likes me masculine. So, far I shave my legs, chest, and sex, and she lets me. I have chosen the sexiest men’s underwear I can find, and she lets me, so far. String bikinis are good as well are an imported thong. She objected to some lace panties. I really want to get some lace panties!

Yes, I have accepted that I am fully gay or nearly so. And, am trying to figure things out?

Sammy
Sammy

January 10, 2019

I started in early pubescently not knowing anything about sex except I liked girls, they have a calming effect on me. I started trying by trying a bra on in our home laundry. It was electrifying for me from head to toe. I felt warm and relaxed, all my problems went away. Still, to this day, I know something is causing me anxiety or distrust with my wife, out comes the bra. fake boobs a skirt and sweater. It’s become a form of anxiety treatment, feeling warm and secure in a bra and my private sanctuary.

Stevie
Stevie

January 08, 2019

Yaniv great story
As lve said before some women are into it and if they are its bliss on both sides

Yaniv
Yaniv

January 07, 2019

My lust for lingerie started at the age of 12. The trigger was stockings that blew my mind. The first time I wore my mother’s panties, stockings, robe and heels. Since adolescence I have been feeling less manly than the other boys/men around me… for years I was fighting against my inner feelings and lusts and felt shamed and even avoid intimacy with women.

In 2006 I met my beloved wife and few months after we started going out, she ordered herself a sexy corset that came with a black sheer thong… I wore it after few years of “abstinence”… i felt so sexy and knew that I must tell her… few hours later I asked to wear this thong.. she was shocked but after I wore it she was so turned on and everything is history… we’re together 13 years, got married and have 2 kids. During the last year I started to crossdress more and more and my wife supports me more and more. She love me as a man and also as her sissy… I hope to be less shy and to crossdress more and especially outside

Stevie
Stevie

January 06, 2019

Chrissy
I m no expert but trying to hide it is probably a bad idea. See if you can wearsome male lingerie thats not too obvious to get a feel for what she’d say!
But best is to be upfront and honest with her about your desires

The clothes here are fantastic
I dont look at wearing these items as crossdressing because they are mens garments with some femme styling. Women do it all the time wearing boyfriend style jeans and other male styled things

Chrissy Marsh
Chrissy Marsh

January 06, 2019

I recently discovered your blog. Have read most all of it. I enjoy your openess and breath of knowledge.

Some months ago I discovered my wife’s razor in the shower, started to shave my legs and everything else! My wife challenges me about my shaving but, so far she has accepted my excuses.

I wear some very brief and sheer bikinis to bed. My wife has not connected the bikinis with my shaving. Hope not! I want to get some cross dress items, but my wife wants me to stay masculine!

I was surprised when she told me, “See those women? They are gay!” Why? Because they are wearing the same rings! I would never notice this detail!! So, what is going on? Is my wife gay or does she just have sensitive gaydar?

Any thoughts?

Stevie
Stevie

January 04, 2019

Rhonda
I get what you ate saying
I m not gay or “femme” but i love women’s clothing and I love wearing pretty sexy stuff.
i really like the contrast of the male female

Jess
Jess

January 03, 2019

I had always enjoyed looking at all the women in panties featured in department store ads in the Sunday paper. Then one day I wanted to know what it felt like to wear a pair of satin panties. I then noticed that my older sister had a few pairs of pure satin panties. I couldn’t help myself and had to try them on. I immediately got so very excited. I couldn’t help but touch myself. Since then I have explored my lust for wearing panties everyday, at times cross dressing, and getting excited seeing other men wearing panties.

Rhonda
Rhonda

January 01, 2019

I can’t remember exactly when I started wanting to wear women’s clothing. My first attempts were with my older sister’s and cousins underwear. At first they did not have bras, but as they got started, so did I.
I have never tried to pass in public, has always been my personal secret.
Now I am blessed with a wife who accepts me as I am, and understands that I am not actually gay (although have had a couple of experiences) and not really a femm. I just like the style and feeling of female style clothing.
This site has been a real blessing, as finally I can get sexy clothes that fit me!

slipj
slipj

December 31, 2018

I was on holiday with my uncle, aunt and niece (who is year older than I am). We slept in an holiday house and shared a bedroom.

After she had a shower she came back in the bedroom ad started to get ready for bed. As she was standing in her undies I could not help getting an erection. She got cross and said It is wrong to get hot over family members. After being a bit ashamed I said it was her silk undies that made me hot. She relaxed and we went to bed. After a few days of me getting an erection and her obviously enjoying it she asked if I had ever touched a pair of panties and she grabbed a pair form her suitcase. She gave it to me and I got really embarrassed. She said it was fine and that I should try it on to see how soft it feels. So I did and slept in it that night. I have never stopped wearing panties since.

When ever I see my niece she still always asks me If I still like it.

Leo
Leo

November 25, 2018

OMG! I really love this site!

I started out wearing my wife’s panties when we first got married in 1991! She has never known about my fetish either! She always wore some of the cutest panties and usually had “upskirt” incidents that just made me wild! (So were others that saw her amazing thighs and, well you know the skinny!) I still wear panties as often as I can. She and I split up a few years ago and that is when I got more and more into x-dressing. I typically don’t go out of the house but I really enjoy the feel of women’s clothing, especially lingerie. My current girlfriend buys me cute panties and has me wear them often! She love looking at me in them, however, she has not seen me in a dress, skirt, blouse, etc. Recently, a guy at the golf course noticed I was wearing panties, (I thought I was alone!). He complimented my and we have actually gotten really close! He has “taught” me some stuff and we go out on occasions, me fully dressed! I love my girlfriend but I really enjoy the additional rewards of dressing in pretty lingerie.

Gail
Gail

November 24, 2018

I started wearing panties (mothers at about 10 y/o. I went full time when I was 13. Mother caught me in her pink vf panties and ask if I would like to wear pink VF panties, Yes. she went to town and got me several of pink VF panties. I wore them until I went into the Military. Then I met this lady that later would become my wife She would let me wear her panties. VS with lace on the legs When we got married we were both were wearing panties. We moved into this apt house . One of the tenants that we got to know was a beautiful sexy woman, 13 Y/o son and father. Evelyn would wear pink or white sheer baby- doll pjs with a pad to cover her ? Ken would wear a pink or white sheer baby doll with sheer panties, John would wear black sheer baby-doll with sheer panties Ken would come to our apt every day after school, He would go home change clothes into sheer baby-doll. some times with one of his mothers bra and some times a pair of black or white 5 inch mules He sure was sexy. I

Stevie
Stevie

November 23, 2018

Dear Carla
I feel ya
If only we could be ourselves in front of the ones we love
For all at the beginning of a relationship its much better to tell the partner as early as possible at the time yku feel appropriate
That way you dont have to hide

Carla
Carla

November 08, 2018

I seen this blog and read through some of them and decided I had to share my story.
Years ago, my cousin came over and she had on some black shiny looking knee high boots. They caught my eye and I just had to sneak them on. Omgosh….they felt amazing! That was start. My curiosity then started to get the best of me so around 17, I started sneaking in panties to wear when I wasn’t playing sports.
In my early 20’s, while my ex-wife was away at work, I tried on her corset with stockings and feel in love with the sexy feeling. No, she had no idea I was crossdressing.
Now with my current wife, she only knows I have worn her panties a time or two but she has no idea I have heels, mini skirt, tops, bras, panties and several pairs of leggings. I would wear anytime if she would ask, but I know for a fact she is not a supporter of my secret desires of dressing. Am I gay, no. I absolutely love the feeling I get when I am dressed up….and I don’t have to be completely passable to feel like I want to feel. I wish but I know it’s not a happening thing for me.
Thanks for listening!

Pauley
Pauley

October 30, 2018

It started for me one Christmas when a present for my sister had my name on it. When I unwrapped and opened the box it was a pair of panties and training bra. Anyway, everyone started laughing at the mistake and we all had fun about it until someone said well I guess it was your gift so you can do what you want it. Well at that moment I said that they just might be my size. Than in a laughing manner I heard someone say try them on. Well after a few I did retreat to my bedroom and tried them on. The erection I got when I slipped the panties on was no Joke and they did fit very nice. I looked at myself in the mirror and knew at that moment that my tighty whiteys days were over. Anyway, when my little excitement went down I put my clothes on and went back out for Christmas. My sister asked if they fit and I said yes … they are mine now. They wanted to see so I showed the bra and the top of my new Christmas panties. I didn’t wear the bra again but wore the panties out. Anyway, to make a long story short, since that time I have worn only boys/male bikini and string bikini underwear or panties. Today I wear only fem panties and would not have it any other way thanks to XD .. and to think this all started from a Christmas present mistake.

Jack Harris
Jack Harris

October 22, 2018

can not quite remember, but I was young……………..used to wear my mother’s bra & panties. As I got older I was really into it…..when I traveled on business…………I had or shopped for femme clothes and “dress” up and play with myself. it was so hot.

John
John

October 16, 2018

I got started quite yong 7 or 8 I remember the day very well I was in the laundry room with my mother, she pulled out a pair of orange satin panties with lace trimming on the legs, they were so shiny, she folded them and placed them on the the pile of clothes I new were one of my older sisters, I wanted to feel them so badly, I sat there have mesmerized as I tried to continue to play, my mother finally left the room, I quickly snatched up the smooth garment rubbing it on my face, remembering where I was I looked around and quickly stuffed them in my pocket and ran up to my room, closing the door behind me, I retrieved them from my pocket and again rubbed them on my face, the feeling was exquisite, I had to try them on, I dropped my pants pulling my tighty whitys down with them, I slowly stepped into them, they felt amazing I wore them for two days, when they got soiled I would just put them back in the hamper and searc for a new pair, sometimes having to sneak into my sisters room and grab a pair, this went on until my sisters moved out, by then I was driving and could go buy my own, wow what an experience that was, but that’s a story for another day, needless to say I was hooked, and now have very understanding wife who not only accepts my feminine side but helps me pick out things and often surprises me with a special purchase.

Melissa
Melissa

October 08, 2018

I started at about 16. Sneaking my moms nylon panties and hose. Excited me. I remember when I was 5 or 6 my aunts dressed me up and went on about what a pretty girl I was. Fast forward to when I was about 44 and worked at post office. I had packages from bigalslingerie delivered to po box. Every item that came, gogo boots. Panties. Lingerie. Bought panties and sexy clothes at lane bryant. Since then have dressed in private at home or on single trips. Wife has found panties. Old fashioned so wouldn’t accept so I still have to be a gurl in private. I have been told I have pretty fem features and luv to makeup and dress. Haven’t been brave enough to go out dressed

Dave
Dave

October 08, 2018

I first became curious upon seeing panties on the side of the road as a kid (about 7 or 8). This was back in the mid 90’s and what I saw was a hanes small scallop trimmed purple bikini panty. When I finally decided to try them on I didn’t just try them right then and there though. I went into the bathroom and got some detergent then hand washed them. After I rung it out, I decided to hang them in my closet hidden so no one would see them. But I couldn’t resist. I slipped them on and I instantly loved how they fit. I liked them so much I danced around my room in them. One of the purest times of my childhood when sex wasn’t even a thought in my mind. I did however like the clothes girls wore but didn’t know why.

Steve LeProhon
Steve LeProhon

October 03, 2018

Loved reading the comments and I’m going to share mine soon. I’m 63 years young and I have been dressing and playing with female attire for 50 plus years. A number of girls helped and a wife of 20 years had a great time. My current so is younger and ever more supportive. She did find this app. I will have the how it started story soon. A little bit began in mom’s beauty parlors. Thank you for the form to read about other people like me and a place to tell them about me.

Stevie
Stevie

October 02, 2018

Nathan
What a great reveal
This is the place to let it all out with support and no judgement
We are all alike and different so to speak
Lots of us dont desire sex change but lots of us do
Some of us like you love the feel of the clothes
So welcome feel free to post on all the topics
Angie is great

Nathan
Nathan

October 02, 2018

For me it started at a younger age like mostly everyone else here. I lived with 2 sisters and my mom for most of my childhood, and although my dad lived with us too, he worked very often. Needless to say I was raised by females. The first time I ever dressed up was around age 8 or 9, a silky blue dress my sister had in a box with a few other clothes she didn’t wear often. I immediately felt excited, and had a strong desire to keep doing it. From then on, I would take every opportunity to wear my sisters clothes whenever they were out of the house. Panties, skirts, dresses, blouses, hosiery, shoes, you name it. I loved the feeling of soft, delicate clothing. For me, it has always been about that feeling, as I never had the desire to be a girl, or wear makeup etc. This continued on through middle and high school. Occasionally dressing up was always a huge relief for me. I always felt like it was wrong, but I couldn’t fight the desire. I got together with my current girlfriend at age 16, and for the first year or so of being together I never would dress up for fear of her finding out. Then I couldn’t repress the urge any longer, and would dress up in her clothes every now and again in secret. Around age 19, I revealed to my girlfriend I enjoyed wearing pantyhose, and explained it as something that was purely exciting to me. She was accepting of this, but that is as far as it went for the next 2 years. I was afraid of revealing that I wasn’t only interested in pantyhose. At age 21, I finally told her everything. This was actually less than a month ago. I plan to marry this woman, and because of websites like this, I had the courage to tell her everything. After all if you marry someone, they should know everything about you. At first she was hesitant, asking the typical questions about whether I’m gay, want to be a woman, etc. After the talk, she told me she is okay with it, but didn’t want to see me in it. However, after about a week she said she was okay with seeing me in those clothes. I now wear panties, pantyhose, and a bra under my work clothes everyday, and fully dress up at least once a week. I started shaving my legs as well, and plan to wax or sugar them in the future. I still feel nervous dressing up in front of her, but that is simply because it is still new. With time, it will only get better. I feel this has brought us closer together, and I am beyond appreciative of websites like this. That not only sell clothes designed to satisfy my needs, but also give a platform to share my experience instead of having to hold it in.

Angie
Angie

September 30, 2018

Don, you are so fortunate to have a lady like mine – she’s with your expression of the inner femme, and what a blessing! If she limits you to panties, bra, and camisoles when you go out, you are indeed a fortunate gurl.

Stevie, you touched on something my wife and I do and thoroughly enjoy as girfriends – going to get manicures and pedicures together. We love it. We go to a nail salon that is crossdresser friendly, and they have no problem putting polish on my toenails. (Frost pink is my absolute favorite.) Also, monthly pedicures are great for nail health. One caution – in the winter, it’s best to not wear polish. I got a nail fungus on a big toenail. My nail tech told me that the nails need to be exposed to air when wearing polish, and winter is the time that nail fungus is the biggest problem, due to keeping the feet covered at all times. Thanks to my podiatrist, I got rid of the fungus, but it took 10 months for the medicine to clear it up. Just a word to the wise, one sister to another.

Fond regards,
Angie

Sam
Sam

September 30, 2018

In eighth grade when I was at my aunts house I took one of her black bras and panties. It was one of my earliest feelings of sexual liberation. I didn’t do any other crossdressing until almost 25 years later when I tried my girlfriends underwear on. Since then I have tried more and more but it still has taken me a long time to accept that I am a cross dresser, even if it is only in the bedroom.I still have more to explore but figure this is a lifetime journey.

Stevie
Stevie

September 26, 2018

Don
Great story. I too got home early put my moms and sisters clothes on. I too had 4 girls in house
I have expanded my wardrobe
My SO knows but shes not as liberal about my house wear as yours is
I do wear panties and bras sets that i wear under my regular clothes
My SO does tolerate my toes being polished we ve even had pedi together
Stevie

Don
Don

September 25, 2018

My sister would dress me in her underwear when I was 6ish. I enjoyed the feeling of her satin panties. She also dressed me in here ballet tutu. As a teen, there were more ladies in the house than men. I would get home early and put their clothes on wearing them until they got home. Later, I would sneak my ex’s panties on. I was divorced and while on my own would buy women’s clothes to wear around my house. Over the last few years I introduced my wife to my love of sexy men’s lingerie. I went slowly pushing the envelope little by little. I can wear anything around the house but when we are out she limits me to bras, panties and camisoles which is okay by me. She loves taking my picture as I show off anything new. We have quite a collection!

Angie
Angie

September 24, 2018

Daniel – good for you! It’s so nice to hear from one of our elder statesmen (states women?). There are no age or racial barriers to this wonderful thing we call crossdressing. Thanks for your post!

Fond regards,
Angie

Daniel
Daniel

September 22, 2018

I’m 71 years old and have worn panties and lingerie since I was about 12. My first panties was about 7 as I was at grandma’s and fell in a puddle. My gran put me in a cousins panties . I liked the silky feeling. Still do. I wear them 24\7.

Angie
Angie

September 17, 2018

Dave – don’t worry about being long-winded. I loved your story, and you can be as long-winded as you wish as far as I’m concerned.
Fond regards,
Angie

stevie
stevie

September 14, 2018

thanks dave
this has become my go to site to get feedback on the issues of xdressing and male lingerie
I find it informative supportive and enlightening. to Keri we should be able to enjoy wearing whatever we want and expressing ourselves in the way we want
stevie

Dave
Dave

September 13, 2018

Angie, Stevie, and all the others, I know my responses are often long-winded and tend to veer off topic but I would like to say thank you. I am not struggling with any issues, have a supportive wife, and know my sexual/life preferences, but I also know that many others do not share that luxury. I applaud everyone’s efforts to be supportive and positive (even if only thru strict comment moderation though I like to think not) and always look forward to reading more from the community. It’s the thought provoking questions and genuine love I feel here that keeps me coming back for both clothing and food for thought. As always, cheers to the spectrum and the myriad of individuals it brings.

Luvsatin
Luvsatin

September 13, 2018

The first time I wore panties I was in my early 20’s.
After a very intimate occurrence with my first wife I was hunting around in dark for my underwear and happened upon hers. They were a satin high cut style.
What started as a joke I put them on and I soon realized that I really loved the softness and fit. I showed her and she loved it!
Many times after that we would enjoy a nice evening with me wearing a pair of her panties. She even bought me some of my own.
I’m now remarried and my wife knows of my cross dressing. I wear panties 24/7 and never plan on changing that. My wife says she enjoys my gender fluid clothing choices.

Angie
Angie

September 07, 2018

Thank you Stevie for your kind words, and I agree that this site is very liberating (and supportive) for those of us who are courageous enough to accept who we are! Xdress is indeed a safe haven for us!

Fondly,
Angie

Stevie
Stevie

September 07, 2018

Thanks Angie
I love this blog it is therapeutic for me.
The topics a great and the support is liberating.

Angie
Angie

September 04, 2018

Hi Robert G,

I am so very sorry you experienced the abuse you did by the hand of your step father. Fortunately, you did not lose your sense of your femme self and remained true to who you know yourself to be. Stevie, as always, you hit the nail on the head when you told Robert G. to be prepared to answer two common questions. I think almost all of us have had to field those questions with our wives or significant others: “Are you gay?” and “Do you want to be a woman?” According to research, the very large majority of us respond with “No” and “No”. We just know that there is more to us than the traditional male as defined by our society. Stevie wisely steered you to some internet resources before talking to your wife. You might also read my blog here at Xdress at https://xdress.com/blogs/news/getting-the-wife-onboard

I would encourage you to do your research on the internet before talking to your wife. There are some very helpful articles. As I said in the blog referenced above, there are some very good articles on the internet and some that are….well, not so good. You’ll be able to tell which is which, I am sure. Good luck to you, dear sister, and welcome to our sorority!

PS. to Stevie: thanks for being a constant reader – you are the best!

Fondly,
Angie

Stevie
Stevie

September 01, 2018

Dear Robert
What a difficult start
First thank you for sharing
do not fear u r not alone
You have friends here
You like me and others are not attracted to men but we live femme clothing
So what some people like biker clothing jeans t shirt suits whatever that’s the FREEDOM of being you
Read good material
This is a great site
Read living with crossdressing
My husband betty

Good luck and go slow with your wife make sure you ate ready to answer the gay question and the transition question
Stevie

Robert G
Robert G

August 31, 2018

I started crossdressing when I was in the 4th grade when I had to wear my sister’s panties cuz I had no clean underwear. I remember she deliberately picked a pair that had bows and lace and pink I remember how much I liked wearing them. So after I continued getting her panties then bra’s by the time I was in 6th grade I was starting to mess with make up and fully dressing up.

But then I got caught by my step dad and I will never forget the beating I received. He pulled his belt and beat me till I was bleeding. I had to stay in my room for several days. He searched my room and took anything he felt was feminine so I didn’t dress up for about the next year and a half.

When my mom left him I started sneaking again little at a time and by the time I was a teenager and in High School I was buying my own stuff and by then I was shaving my legs. I know I do not prefer to be with men but I do enjoy dressing up. For a year-and-a-half I did live as a female. However I decided that really wasn’t what I wanted and I preferred dressing up just once in a while. I love my wife with all my heart so now I need to start breaking it to her about what I like. I have not dressed up since we have been together but I know I am desiring it very much, but scared, and not sure what to do.

Stevie
Stevie

August 29, 2018

Once again great job Angie
I love this site
Like i ve always said if its made for us its not xdressing

Angie
Angie

August 29, 2018

Thank you all for your wonderful stories. It is fascinating to hear how you all got started. Stevie – thanks for your comment – shame should not be a part of our vocabulary, regarding our gender fluid selves. It is simply who we are, and we harm no one by having the courage to be honest with ourselves about who we truly are.

Fond regards,
Angie

Chris
Chris

August 28, 2018

At about six years old or so I remember liking to look at catalogs we had Sears JCPenny etc. I liked looking at the panties and I remember at about age twelve i tried on my older sisters panties and I was immediately aroused. That was the last time trying panties on for fear of getting caught (very religious family). That was until about eight years ago I came across bodyaware.com website and bought the TLC Brief, the closest thing to a panty I dare wear being married with older kids. My wife didn’t think anything about them other than she liked them so I replaced all my fruit of the loom briefs. Six months ago I went back to their website to find out they’ve been discontinued. That’s when I came across xdress.com and saw all the sexy panties for men and couldn’t resist buying a few pairs and wearing them in private without my wife knowing and it felt so great so I bought more and a couple of bras. One night shortly after, I told my wife that I have always been fascinated with women’s panties and bras and bought some that were made for men and since the panties are made for men I think I feel it’s ok for me to wear them. In fact I was wearing a pair of panties and a bra under my sweatshirt and sweatpants.and she wasn’t to sure what to think. I assured her that I wasn’t gay and that a lot of straight men have the same fetish. She needed time to think she said and I said ok, I need to go to bed so I laid up there pretending to sleep when she came to bed and she started to feel the front of my T-shirt and she knew i was wearing a bra then she put her hand under my sweatpants and could feel my panties. She than put her hand up my shirt and couldn’t stop playing with my bra and started kissing me and that’s when I took my T-shirt and sweatpants off and she was all over me and we all know what happened after that. Since then she’s been just fine with me wearing panties. However I don’t wear a bra that often since its summer and I don’t want someone to see a bra line under my T-shirt. I feel so much better nowadays to be open with her and myself about my fetish, and for any other guy reading this that hasn’t wanted to tell there girl, just wait till the right time and and be upfront and honest. And tell her THEY’RE MADE FOR MEN SO SHE CANT WEAR THEM!😊😊😊

Stevie
Stevie

August 28, 2018

Amber
DO NOT BE ASHAMED!
Look at all of us who xdress
It’s different its NOT something to be ashamed
Some people like feet breasts butts etc some like being tied up
You like crossdressing AND you feel complete doint it
Its not wrong ITS you!
Also read book Living with Crossdressing it talks about balance of male and female

Liam
Liam

August 27, 2018

Hi, great blog and a great website.
For me it was my sisters, they started dressing me in girly clothes when I was extremely young, when I got to about 10 years old my parents made them stop, so I started stealing their clothes in secret, I wore their knickers, dress and skirts mainly, then I met my girlfriend (now fiancé) and shared with her my desires to wear feminine clothes, she straight away wanted to see so she threw me a thong and told me to put it on, since then she’s bought me tonnes of clothes and we like to both dress up in sexy lingerie for bed and sometimes just for fun.

Holly Michelle
Holly Michelle

August 27, 2018

I am sorry I got cut off. I remember when I was younger when we were dressing up for Halloween and my friends told me I should have been a girl. I loved that compliment. I have no male panties. I wear nighties and nightshirts.I always wear baby dolls. I guess I should have been a girl. I love experimenting with makeup. I am really becoming quite good at applying it..I love buying clothes at xdress. I use a dilapator once a month all over my body and I shave my privates 2-3 times a week.

Holly Michelle
Holly Michelle

August 27, 2018

I have been xdressing for most of life I started with panties then leotards tights and dresses. I have always worn toe nail polish and I love doing my eyes and my brows I think I am more fem than male. I

sydney
sydney

August 26, 2018

I like your blog .I started at 9 with my sister pantyhose .i.sore them to sleep in .Over the year I crossdress of and on getting more then just pantyhose i’’m. with a lady who want me share my love for cross dressing with her thank sydney

Amber Larkin
Amber Larkin

August 26, 2018

For me, it started at about 6 years old or possibly even earlier as I can’t remember a time when it wasn’t something I thought about. I had no sisters and my only opportunity was to try my Mothers clothing. I have always felt more like a girl than a guy. I have always hated wearing masculine clothing and “dressed up” at every opportunity I had. My entire life I have always felt like a woman and even watching TV commercials for female items like clothing or makeup or any type of beauty products always make me long to live fulltime in complete female mode. I got a job that is considered very masculine that I loved but always dreamed of being able to do it while in fem mode. I got married to a fantastic wife who I shared my secret with. She went along with it for years but never showed as much enthusiasm for it like I have and over the past 20 years or so, we haven’t done anything like that anymore. I keep my pretty things hidden and while she still occasionally talks about it, that’s as far as it ever goes anymore. I am at my happiest while dressed up and have no idea how to pursue it further than I have. Only when “dressed up” in feminine things and with pretty makeup on (done delicately, not garish like a drag queen) do I feel “right”. I would love to go shopping while dressed up and be able to try clothing on while shopping. I have considered that it is possible I’m a TS and Bi, but I am terrified of losing my marriage over it. The clothing doesn’t even have to be lacy dresses and skirts, just obviously female items. Only when I put on panties, bra, garter belt with stockings and a pretty outfit do I truly feel like myself. It has been the greatest experience of my life while at the same time leaving me guilt-ridden, ashamed and scared I will never live out my dream of doing it full time. If anyone has been in this type of situation and figured out a better way, I would love to hear about how you accomplished your dream. Being “dressed up” isn’t just a sexual thing, it is just what makes me feel like my true being.

rocquelle
rocquelle

August 26, 2018

Started in 3rd grade, had to wear tights in a school play and really liked it.Progressed from there wearing moms clothes. Married now, wife knows and allows me to wear panties most of the time. Want to take it a lot further. I do have my own clothes and want to share my feminine side with wife.

Stevie
Stevie

August 24, 2018

A common theme tjought certainly not the only one
Is the early onset of fascination with panties (the closest thing to a womans physical womanhood by the way)
Guilt
Shame
Excitement
Occasionally 50:50 a wife a girl friend will understand and some even participate

Dave
Dave

August 24, 2018

As with pretty much everyone here, my fascination started young and in secret. My mother left my father, sisters and I to go start a new family when I was barely school age and I think that led to my having to figure out the societal contrast of “masculine” and “feminine” on my own. My sisters were never particularly “girly” and, with only my single father to take them shopping, their clothes were strictly utilitarian. I’d see pictures in catalogues and be mesmerized by the womanly shapes and textures on the pages but had no way to experiment. Fast forward to my early teens when my mother re-entered my life for a time and I would sneak through her drawers looking for something to try on. Fast forward again to my first girlfriends from whom I would request a pair of panties to keep at my place. While they did serve as a memento of the relationship, they spent more time on me than in my drawer. I would only use the articles for self-gratification at home. I would (as was written also experienced by others) go through periods of guilt/purge and toss everything out only to have to recompile later when the urge overwhelmed me.
When my wife and I first started dating, I threw out a shoebox full of panties. Of course, she saw the box in the trash and discovered my stash. At the time, my decision was to claim they were souvenirs of lovers past and I was purging them for the relationship to start fresh. After months however, I came clean that I used them for gratification and sometimes tried them on. Surprisingly, that admission was better received than the lie I’d tried to cover with. Still, I went panty-less for years – trying on my wife’s panties in secret and stealing her discarded pairs from the trash to squirrel away. Now, partially thanks to XDress and partially due to our in-depth personal discussions about the nature of masculine/feminine gender roles, she is accepting and complimentary about my desire to wear a myriad of underwear. I have my everyday pairs, then I have my “sexytime” pairs for intimate encounters. I still wear boxer briefs mixed in depending on my activities but all told, my wardrobe runs the gamut from prim and proper to downright scandalous and I love the contrast.
Longwinded I know but I appreciate the platform to divulge my never-before-discussed activities even if only to myself. Thank you XDress and thank you Angie.

Kerstin
Kerstin

August 23, 2018

I started experimenting with women’s clothing when I was 6 years old. I would sneak into my mothers bedroom and try on her bra and girdle and would wonder what caused me to desire wearing her undies. I was very confused but wanted to continue trying on any feminine piece of clothing I could find. Naturally through the years much was suppressed but there was something that excited me about panties and bras and the desire to wear them when ever I had a chance. In my early twenties i started purchasing my own panties, bras, and nighties, this progressed into dresses, shoes, wigs and makeup. I would have the guilt complex and purge everything, then I would start over again when I had the urge to dress up, many dollars went in the trash do to the guilt complex and purging. Fast forward to marriage and raising a family, I suppressed everything as much as I could but had some panties and nighties I kept in the attic for some dress up time when I was alone. Divorce took a toll on me and I lived alone for 10 years dressing more and more accumulating a beautiful wardrobe of dresses, bras, panties, shoes, makeup, and nighties. Enter my new girl friend who I fell in love with. I went to a transformation salon and had a makeover and photo shoot, while i was being made up the woman asked if my girlfriend knew and I replied no. She asked if I am going to tell her and i replied I am scared to, well she convinced me to open up and tell her, and now the rest is history! My new wife has taken me shopping and bought my nighties, panties dresses, skirts, tops,shoes,and nail polish. We even went to MAC and had them find the right foundation for my skin. I now wear panties everyday and go to bed every night in a nightie! I have my own dresser filled with panties, bras, jewelry, and stockings! Going for manis and pedis together is so much fun, I love the pampering. I am now guilt free, and happier than ever.

Stevie
Stevie

August 23, 2018

Michael
Great story
Must have been lots of fun and then to have acceptance
Great for you that your wife participates

Michael (Madelyn)
Michael (Madelyn)

August 22, 2018

First off, I chose my femme name from a high school classmate who was tall for a girl & slim like me. I always complimented her on how well she dressed. Madelyn dressed with such feminine class & style, & I would always compliment her on how well she dressed, but deep down inside I wished I was dressed like her. How did it all start? I lived in a double block home in a small village in northeast PA. I had two older cousin living next door who were 6 & 8 years older than I. Both their parents worked so they were home alone. During the summer months, on rainy days, back in the early to mid 60’s, the radio & 45 rpm’s were the entertainment of the day. I would be with them listening to music & they would teach me to dance. I was 11/12 at the time. The younger one always had aspirations to be a cosmetologist. I had somewhat longer hair for a boy back then that could manufacture a short ponytail. Younger cousin began playing/styling my hair in girlish styles. next came the make-up. Things progressed to being dressed in the younger’s dresses, skirts, blouses, since she was slim & time like me & I fit her clothes perfectly. On the second or third occasions the older cousin stated that if they were going to dress me as a girl, I also had to wear girl underwear. OMG, those first nylons panties were pure heaven. I was immediately hooked. A bra & slip were all part of dressing as well. This would last most of the afternoon till it was time for their parents to begin returning from work. These, oh so special dress-up times for me, lasted two summer vacations from school. Then they graduated & began working & higher education & sadly came to an end. My younger cousin did gives me some panties. I do believe she knew how excited the made me. Well, time marched on & I did continue the joy & excitement of lingerie. Then, WHAM, the internet. Chatrooms, Meetup groups, chatting with other gurls, dressing with others & eventually going out in public. I have a modest wardrobe at present. When I do shop I oft time wonder, ‘Would Madelyn purchase this?’ I am married, my wife & I play in lingerie in the bedroom but I don’t see it going beyond that since we are in our mid-60’s. But I am pleased that my wife has accepted this feminine side of me & enjoys it as much. Sadly, I never did stop to thank my cousins for introducing me to my feminine side & the joys of xdressing. Perhaps some day I will. Thank you Angie for allowing me to tell, “How I got Started”.
Dean
Dean

August 22, 2018

I started young, saw lingerie in magazines, then started taking mom’s and sisters things to play and wear. I hid things under my bed and at night would wear them and started my self love (masturbate) history. I still wear and play in the bedroom by myself all things lingerie, I should add I am married and straight but my love for lingerie and feeling sexy carry on.

Terry
Terry

August 22, 2018

Started in my early 40’s by trying on now ex wife bras and panties hope start cross dressing when I goi out

Stevie
Stevie

August 22, 2018

FMG and GTW
read your replies
One of the things I think we xdressers often fail to relay to others is that dressing is also FUN!

Keri (Scottsdale)
Keri (Scottsdale)

August 22, 2018

I have worn panties almost my entire life. I am one of the older guys here. There are probably four milestones in my crossdressing life. The first was probably 10 or 11ish when the high school girl that took care of my sister and I used to dress me as a twin to my sister and take us for walks. My sister was older and we were close to the same size. It only happened a few times and I always pretended to not want to but the truth is even back then I loved it. The second milestone was around 13 I guess. I started wearing my sisters panties Then I tried the bras. OMG I loved them both. I immediately became a pantyboy. Throughout school and as a young adult I wore panties as often as I could. The older I got the more I wore them. The third milestone occurred after I was married. I was wearing mens nylon undies as I never thought my wife would understand or accept. They were pricey. One day she surprised me by recommending some women’s nylon panties that were on sale. She didn’t have to encourage me. That day I became a full time pantyboy and have never looked back. I like bras but do not wear them as she would never accept that. I do now and then wear camis (plain), and other women’s things that can pass as unisex. The fourth was around 20 years ago when I entered the Internet age. Like so many others I looked for other guys wearing panties. OMG, we are so many I realized. How wonderful. My sexuality really came into focus (something I had suppressed). I liked what I saw and a lot. I was alone looking at these men but somewhat embarrassed. Things were quite excited in my panties. I liked looking at others this way. Today I admit to being very bi with a preference to feminine looking men. Oh well my story and a long time to figure things out I guess.

Thank you XDress for making it easier for others today. I am all for men being able to enjoy their feminine side in whatever form it takes.

GTW
GTW

August 22, 2018

I first started when I was about 13. I found my oldest sister’s girdle and bra in the hamper and wonder what it would feel like! I have two older sisters and no brothers. It felt so sexy! Naturally I stuffed the bra with socks!. So after that anytime everybody was out of the house I would rummage through her drawers and try on all of it! Including the slips! I do not have a desire to become a transgender but love dressing up in the underwear! About 14 I even got dressed in the bra and girdle and put on her terry robe and out a towel around my head and answered the front door to pay the paperboy! I was so nervous and excited when I handed him the money! I even tried her dress on and it was exciting! Now almost every day I wear my panties from xDress and love them! I have also bought a bra and wig from you and look forward to expanding my collection and hope fully go out dressed as a woman!

fmg
fmg

August 21, 2018

I got started wearing girly clothes years ago now I have more girly clothes then male clothes as I write this I in a white bra and pink panties. I am clean shaven all over and when I out working I wear my panties and bra under my male clothes. I have a lady that own a store who helps me pick out sexy clothes to wear. For that I help her at her place where I was dress in a sexy maid outfit. The other ladies love me and I even had one that wanted to take me home to clean her place. My lady friend said to go and do that for her, so I did.

stevie
stevie

August 20, 2018

well for me it actually started with shoes
I saw a pair of peep toe pumps on a woman and wanted to emulate it because it turned me on. I was 8.
I progressed from that to stockings then panties then bras
this continued until college then I would only do it at home when I came home for breaks
then the stress of life (married 30s children) I restarted found the internet and said to myself lets go all the way to full dressing to try to pass
I was terrible at it but after much introspection have accepted my love of lingerie and the look of mixing genders male and female
soft lingerie and the male form
I have no desire to transition but now accept that I am fluid loving to mix the 2 genders
I love my heels and nail polish panties and bras
I wear femme jeans and panties everyday

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