Hi Hannah, how do you feel about masculine men who just love the lingerie aspect of this lifestyle? Or, men who wear women's clothing but still may want to keep their facial hair?
Lingerie is for EVERYONE, regardless of your gender identity and/or your physical features. Although lingerie is typically associated with femininity and it often enhances one's feeling of femininity, there's no rule that beautiful bras and stockings are just for people who identify as feminine. I think ANYONE and EVERYONE who wears ANYTHING that makes them feel AMAZING or BEAUTIFUL or SEXY is strong and confident, regardless if it's a nightie or a tuxedo or a little black dress.
And really, confidence is what makes someone sexy. Lingerie can help us with how we feel, but unless it helps us feel confident then the most beautiful bra and panty in the world doesn't really matter. It's the person who wears it that makes it sexy.
One thing I love about XDress is how inclusive their models are when it comes to their bodies. Yes, there are cute guys who have thin, lithe bodies, but there are also beautiful, muscular men who have arms that could crush a Honda Accord while wearing a merrywidow with clear platform heels AND they would look absolutely gorgeous doing it.
Don't think about your body or lingerie as masculine or feminine (unless you want to). Gender isn't and doesn't have to be either. I suppose it's more accurate to say to not let your body or how you feel or identity to limit what you wear. If the bra fits, then the bra was designed for you. Your panties don't care if you have the most amazing beard in the world.
Love, Hannah
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Scott u said it better than I could. I m trying to get to a professional makeover service. Thats on the bucket list.
I totally agree with this. I am as masculine as a man can be on the outside. But once I slip into a pair of super glossy stw or gloss seamless pantyhose, I become very feminine. I love pantyhose. Been wearing them since I can remember. I’m 54 now. I shave my body once a week and then I slip into my pantyhose and pick out one of my many xdress satin chemise to wear with my pantyhose. I feel amazing in pantyhose and satin. I also love wearing dresses and getting fully made up. Crossdressing helps me cope with life but it doesn’t change who I am. I like my masculine side and I love my feminine side. They both define who I am.
I love the comments! I agree. The definition of masculinity has changed and stayed the same! We can wear pretty undergarments and still maintain our masculinity! I do it every day. Grads mowed, fixing things, chopping wood, car maintenance, etc. pretty lingerie underneath!
YES it can b done
I have a beard and love wearing lingerie and nighties every chance I get. You do what makes you feel good. You can still be masculine and feminine at the same time! ❤️
Absolutely. I am as cis-male as can be. bearded and tall, happily married with grown kids. But satin on my skin is the only way I roll. Looong time XDress customer. And I am eager for the return of cheeky satin panties without heavy waistbands (looking at you here, Valentina), and maybe some new colors (teal? fuschia? tangerine?) – enough already with blue, red, and black. And while I’m thinking of it, why not an underwire bra with no cups – nipples are nice!