Hi Hannah, how do you feel about masculine men who just love the lingerie aspect of this lifestyle? Or, men who wear women's clothing but still may want to keep their facial hair?
Lingerie is for EVERYONE, regardless of your gender identity and/or your physical features. Although lingerie is typically associated with femininity and it often enhances one's feeling of femininity, there's no rule that beautiful bras and stockings are just for people who identify as feminine. I think ANYONE and EVERYONE who wears ANYTHING that makes them feel AMAZING or BEAUTIFUL or SEXY is strong and confident, regardless if it's a nightie or a tuxedo or a little black dress.
And really, confidence is what makes someone sexy. Lingerie can help us with how we feel, but unless it helps us feel confident then the most beautiful bra and panty in the world doesn't really matter. It's the person who wears it that makes it sexy.
One thing I love about XDress is how inclusive their models are when it comes to their bodies. Yes, there are cute guys who have thin, lithe bodies, but there are also beautiful, muscular men who have arms that could crush a Honda Accord while wearing a merrywidow with clear platform heels AND they would look absolutely gorgeous doing it.
Don't think about your body or lingerie as masculine or feminine (unless you want to). Gender isn't and doesn't have to be either. I suppose it's more accurate to say to not let your body or how you feel or identity to limit what you wear. If the bra fits, then the bra was designed for you. Your panties don't care if you have the most amazing beard in the world.
Love, Hannah
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8 comments
Of course you can! Why shouldn’t you be? It’s a choice you make on how you feel. If you like panties and are a man, no big deal. You can take it as masculine if you want to. There are too many stereotypes around this subject that just because you wear panties means you can’t love football or YFC fighting. Of course you can! You can be gay and like these sports too. Embrace what makes you happy! If that involves wearing panties, then all the better!!!!
I was waiting for this to come up. I struggled with the why for years. I explored all aspects of gender. After therapy I realized
1. Wearing lingerie turns me on
2. I m not interested in transitioning
3. It makes me feel sexy
Cant wait to hear the comments
Stevie
As a man who enjoys wearing lingerie, l am in total agreement with Hannah. It makes me, and so many others, feel attractive, sexy and very confident. It’s a great feeling.