Let's Femme it Up!

Let's Femme it Up!

Happy New Year everyone! We all watch the ball drop and kiss our SO and make resolutions for the New Year!  It’s often that these resolutions include a weight loss goal or an exercise regiment or a dry our period after the inebriated Holiday Season. Of course there are many other resolutions that we may come up with as well and they will, of course, vary from person to person.

So to begin 2023, I thought it would be nice to share my resolution: Femme it up more often!  And this leads me to what I have done in the past, what I do in the present and what I will do in the future.

The past has been mostly hiding my femme side. Sure, I would wear the Satin Polka Dot panties from XDress under my work clothes. Or wear the Couture Satin Romper with hosiery under my work clothes. Maybe even a Blossom Underwire Bra underneath it all. The point is, it was always hidden and always discreet.  And that is okay for all of us as we all have a different comfort level with what we wear and when.  Do what makes you happy is what I tell myself.

Now, with 2023 here and a new year upon us, I decided to make my femme a little more intense and expressive.  My SO likes my choice of undergarments and supports me in what I do.  In 2023, she offered to help select various items that she would like to see me in.  Having always been the panty wearing type, or at least for the past 15 years, I was happy she accepted my desire to wear panties and bra’s and am happier now that she is game to go further.

For starters, she likes the “down time” like a Netflix binge or sports game to be super flirty and casual.  She bought me the Couture Satin Lounge Pants and a Strapping Bra Harness.  I wear them lounging around and feel super sexy in them, especially with the Panty Strap Harness.  A great way to lounge in the afternoon! 

Of course, that is for lounging but she also wants me to venture out all dolled up.  I am not ordinarily a passable femme but when she does my make up and puts me in my Couture Satin Merrywidow, matching Couture Satin & Lace Cheeksters, white nylons, black pumps and the Satin Wrap Dress, I am super femme and actually passable. She of course is likely getting all the looks as she is drop dead gorgeous but I love the way I look and now that I am “out” in femme clothes, I am liberated!

Of course you can always do this in private and I am sure some of you do as this desire to wear panties is not new and certainly not uncommon in this audience.  So whatever your resolutions are, I hope they include XDress and their wonderful product offering!

Stay sexy!


Like What You're Reading?

Share it with your friends!



Barry! This is the group, lol. I think we all thought men couldn’t wear bold colors or look pretty! Well guess what? We can!! I love feeling pretty. I thought he made me gay. Nothing wrong with that but it was confusing to me when I wasn’t attracted to women. Well now i m not worried about that! I wear what I like! And thats bra and panty sets! Mmmm! Thank u xdress! I also keep my feet pedicured and manicured!
Get ur lingerie on!
I did


My femme side is something that has always been deeply repressed, and growing up in a rural area made it something to keep hidden. As a masculine gay man this was never encouraged, to say the least. Over the years I have worn colored nylon underwear, but nothing on the frilly side. I love the prettiness of pastel colors, and shiny nylon sports clothing are gorgeous on sexy men. I love men in bright skin-tight wrestling singlets also. Finally, I have decided to buy and wear the sexy men’s lingerie that I have been afraid of for so many years. Yes, afraid. Younger gay men are so lucky today not knowing the horrors of homophobia in years past. There is still plenty of that still, but society is more accepting today. So, I have made the plunge and bought some very pretty and sexy men’s lingerie for myself to wear, and I love it! Xdress makes such awesome men’s wear to be as pretty as as woman yet styled to fit a man. I love wearing my panties, and I look forward to the bras and chemise I ordered. It brings out my femme side, and I love looking pretty, even though it may be done descreetly at home. Though I am not into full drag, I am now happy and comfortable wearing real men’s lingerie. I makes me happy, so who should care? I wonder what may come next. There must be groups for gay men to share their love of pretty men’s lingerie out there to join and follow.


Ian- I shave my legs and pits and just said I hated the hair. It’s gross. My SO accepted it pretty easily.


Anon go slow! Introduce neutral styles first! Or sit her down and tell her! It depends on ur relationship
Wish u luck 🍀


I want to femme it up more often. I dress up secretively but really want to be open with my wife about it. I’ve just ordered the pink satin Merrywidow with matching panties and can’t wait to get them on. I was prompted to buy the outfit because of your customer John, who was kind enough to share his pictures and show us that normal guys can look great in such feminine lingerie. I’d like to see Xdress use more customer photos so we can see what ‘real’ men look like in your wonderful underwear – in my opinion John looks even better than your model wearing the pink Merrywidow and I’m hoping to look even half as good when my parcel arrives.


Leave a comment

Please note, comments need to be approved before they are published.