A Personal Journey Into Gender-Bending Fashion

May 08, 2017 11 Comments

A Personal Journey Into Gender-Bending Fashion

I would say that I am a pretty open-minded individual when it comes to fashion and lifestyle, but until recently had no experience of trying on clothing that would normally be labeled "feminine".  I am a young, somewhat introverted guy, so I rarely go out to big social venues, but I still enjoy having parties with a few good friends at my place to have fun, that kind of thing. If you were to ask me three years ago how I felt about cross-dressing, or even wearing something similar to women’s clothing or underwear. I would have flat-out said “No!”  Even though, underneath you could usually find me wearing an extra-small pair of Calvin Klein briefs. Just like several others growing up, I started out wearing loose boxers, never briefs, and never boxer-briefs (I could never stand wearing Hanes or Fruit of The Loom.)

 

During High School, I grew tired of boxers in search of something new, something sexier, something that I could buy and emulate as expensive, and that was a Costco pair of Calvin Klein briefs. I know what you’re thinking, but I had thought that I was the most attractive person in the world, and that everyone would want to have sex with me once they saw the words “Calvin Klein” going across the waistband of my underwear. I know I did every time I saw myself in the mirror. Over the years, I had transitioned into bolder colors and shorter cuts with my underwear, more briefs, some thongs, and a few bikinis. One year, I had even bought a pair of bikini string briefs. I would wear them to school or elsewhere, pulling up the strings, and bringing them up past my thighs to hear them snap was always a hot feeling for me.

 

 

All the while, I still had no interest in trying anything that couldn’t be considered masculine in some way. It’s not that I didn’t like anything with a feminine vibe, I was actually always fascinated by the variety in girl's panties, and maybe somewhat jealous of women's clothing options, since the accepted options for men were the drab choices of black, grey, or white, boxers or briefs. While jealousy was at play, I still wanted to accentuate my masculine features. Even though when I was younger I would wear boxers. I always felt more comfortable in something smaller and tighter, despite growing up with a mother who always bought my clothing in sizes that were three sizes too big. I’m a small guy, well sort-of. I’m 5’11 and about 130 pounds, but I’ve always been skinny compared to other people. So having small, yet tight clothing has always felt right for me.

 

It was Christmas of last year that someone special had gifted me a set of lingerie from XDress. At first, I was somewhat confused about the gift, since I had never worn such feminine pieces. However, my friend, who actually has a small underwear fetish, had given them to me thinking that they would look sexy and fitting on me. The first in the set was an extra-small, red lacy thong. I felt a little flustered pulling it out of the box. The next in the set was a black stretchy bodysuit, which I really liked because I had wanted a leotard or bodysuit of some kind for so long.

 

 

As soon as I tried it on, it accentuated my body and had lifted my small (but promising) butt. One of the more special things about the bodysuit is when you’re fully erect; it shows the silhouette of your goods just right. Lastly, in my Christmas gift was a pair of laser cut, floral, blue boy shorts. My friend had actually bought them a size too big for me, so now I just wear them around the house casually; it’s a good feeling for wanting to be stripped down but not being naked. This Christmas gift had shifted my entire spectrum for underwear, from beginnings as a boxer-wearing baby all the way to gender-bending eroticism.

 

 After all of those gifts, trying them on, taking them off. I was really using them to create a new personality for myself. Like I said before, even as a modern and open individual, I was never really interested in wearing feminine pieces. However, once I slipped them on, I noticed how good my body looked.  It gave me that extra little lift that I've been looking for, and seeing that foreign color really made my eyes pop. All of the reservations that I had went away. Now I’m beginning to see underwear and even clothing differently. At the “late” age of twenty-one. Inviting more genderless pieces into my wardrobe, accepting pieces that I don’t label at all - I just wear them. Sometimes you have to do just that, and not give yourself a self-acceptance speech, but simply put it on. For me, it’s not even really about what the piece is saying. It’s more about my gut feeling, really wanting to try something out-of-the-box and actually doing it without completely stepping out of my comfort zone.

 

 

Ultimately, it’s about taking the next step, embracing some different styles, trying on that pair of panties (Or even boxers, If that’s what you’re feeling), they might look good on you. I think a lot of us can agree that we’re seeing more and more transitions into feminine fashion; the rules are beginning to fade, even though some of us may never have even thought of it to begin with. Either way, its fun, its flirty, its one hundred percent OK, and this is coming from someone who once thought Wal-Mart bikinis were sexy and high fashion.


11 Responses

Martin
Martin

August 12, 2017

I am 62 years old and started wearing womens underwear 5 years ago. I’m definitely not going back to the boring boxers :)

Keri
Keri

July 15, 2017

I am a so called senior citizen and have worn panties most of my life. I can’t imagine wearing anything else after all of these years. What XDRESS has done is a wonderful thing for any man that has the desire to wear lingerie. Men have become more liberated than I ever dreamed was going to happen. I have loved bras since I was young but today thanks to XDress we can buy them made especially for men. I know men wear skirts and makeup these days. BUT, when will all the barriers fall and we will be allowed to wear what we want when we want?

anon
anon

July 04, 2017

i know the feeling wearing femine underwear first time i ordered from bodyaware i ordered yogaaware bodysuit in red then ordered the vaboom velvete bodysuit i was super scared for many years ordering them but i took courage i did when xdress released the show stopper bodysuit the colors neon pink neon yellow neon orange i wanted it but didnt know which color get so i got little naughty went with pink thong leotard i always wanted one but super scared shy wear it esp in femmine color. but soon i bought it put it on it felt sexy i even installed home gym in garage to workout in so i decides wear my pink thong leotard in my home gym but it shows too much skin esp the pouch shows all ur goods esp when u get erect shows ur bulge outline bigtime on showstopper bodysuit but those are my favorte outfits from bodyaware the leotards omg i never had courage to buy some till i orederd bodyaware . its sometimes intimidating wearing femine underwear but need get courage do so plus i want get a onepeice swimsuit from bodyaware . i have huge collection of leotards and wrestleing singlets . but i feel so sexy in them.

Chrissy
Chrissy

June 21, 2017

I love reading about other guys enjoying panties! I am an umpire and love the feeling of a bra and panties under my equipment.

Just feeling the material rubbing against my skin as I squat up and down 350 times a game. Also, I’m smiling about my yummy little secret underneath.

Keep it up gurls and guys!!

Ninah
Ninah

June 20, 2017

This is amazing ! I hope people will not see anything weird with a man wearing a sexy pair of undies with matching bralette. it’s sexy and a real turn on. I would request you switch to organic cotton more than satin. Men…. please give it a try.

Nathan
Nathan

June 16, 2017

Hi. I want Xdress to consider maybe switching to organic cottons, or maybe having a second line of clothing so people can have cheaper clothing. I am one who would greatly consider buying these clothes in organic material. I would feel more apt to buy. Love the clothing, good fits. Makes me feel more daring and gives me a chance to express myself.

Michael
Michael

May 29, 2017

I too think it’s unfair that women get so much variety in underwear. I’m glad a company like Xdress has come around to change that.

Natalie
Natalie

May 28, 2017

I think this is amazing and I hope one day that people don’t see anything weird or wrong with a man wearing a sexy satin pair of undies with matching bralette. I for one think it’s sexy and a real turn on. I would encourage any men to give it a try. Society has programmed us to be ashamed of anything that is not compliant to their views. To close I would like to congratulate you and you look amazing in your body suit!!! Love it

Roland
Roland

May 19, 2017

I too am an older gentleman that immensely likes the look and feel of traditionally women’s styles, material and colors. My wife loves to see me in pink and pastel panties. She is totally in board with me crossdressing. Society has made it difficult for guys to dress sexy like women do in lace and satin. For me it was just a matter of I am going to do what makes me feel good when it comes to what I wear. It’s really no one else’s business. Last weekend I tossed out all of my traditional male under wear and we are replacing them with panties that wife affectionately calls my “Fundies”.

Hank
Hank

May 16, 2017

So true
While I ve enjoyed cross dressing for years
I finally accepted itcas ok and I underdress everday now. I wear panties everday. I have Soma panties, Bodysware and xdress panties and bras. Its my thing my comfort my chouce. I like looking and feeling sexy. Im 50, professional white tie job ex football player in college but I like the way I look and feel in my sexy underwear! I add some slim boitcut jeans from the women’s side and I on my way on weekends. I have stealth panties for the gym!
Thanks for the blog
Love the clithes here!
Hank

Verdi
Verdi

May 15, 2017

Love that story. Thank you for sharing it, and keep doing your thing.

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