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I want to know if you have any good tips for corset wear? - Justin
Corsets are, in my opinion, the sexiest thing in the world. But they also require a lot of respect, discipline, and preparation. A corset, despite their sexiness, can cause damage if you are not wearing it properly.
A corset is meant to create a slimmer waist appearance thanks to the boning sewn inside of it which is used to shape one's torso. The key phrase here is 'appearance'. corset will not make you thinner, it creates a LOOK. It SHAPES your body, but more accurately it redistributes parts of you. Yes, you may have a smaller waist, but that part of your body went SOMEWHERE. It may be pushed down (or up, depending on how long your corset is) which can create a muffin top (or bottom) appearance. A corset is NOT going to take a 40 inch waist and magically reduce you in half.
Some of the danger in wearing a corset is the potential damage of your inner organs. This is rare but it happens. Listen to your body. When you are in pain, that is your body's way of saying I do not like this and we should address this, like now.
A true corset, as mentioned, requires respect, discipline, and preparation. Respecting a corset might sound a little silly, especially for a piece of sexy lingerie, but it's important to remember that, if worn improperly, it can be damaging. You may find yourself short of breath, for example. Discipline and preparation go hand in hand. If you are wearing a true corset, with strong boning, your body must get accustomed to it. This is called seasoning.
Seasoning takes time. Do not put on a corset and then pop out the door for the day. If you are not used to a corset, especially when you have it tightly cinched, you may find that breathing can be difficult and you may feel a little light headed. Instead, slip into your corset, tighten the cords, and then wear it for an hour. You should FEEL the corset, but it should not be causing PAIN. If you are in pain, take it off, loosen it, and try again. A true corset adapts to your body, not the other way around.
The first time I wore a proper corset, one with steel boning, I was amazed at how, well, powerful it was. I cinched it, and after an hour I gladly took it off. The next day, I wore it again and found I could wear it a little longer. I could cinch it a little tighter. It usually takes me a week or so to properly season a new corset. But after investing the time and patience, I can now wear my corset for over twelve hours without any discomfort.
Also! A corset is sexy to wear to bed, but please, never, ever sleep in one. Restricting your breathing is, well, BAD.
Corsets will, if worn properly, impact your posture and how you move, especially in the beginning. Going up and down stairs, getting in and out of a car, all will take a little more effort than you are used to.
If you are going to wear a corset, invest in a quality one. Key word here is INVEST, whether your time, money, and patience. This is not going to be a $30 corset-looking bodice, but rather something that can (and for me, is) an essential part of one's lingerie drawer(s).
Okay, let's move onto the fun stuff.
Corsets are fairly versatile and for the adventurous can be worn as outerwear. Paired with a cute skirt and heels? Sexy.
I tend to wear mine under my clothes as I like the curvier appearance it gives me and my outfits, particularly a dress, a more flattering fit. Many dresses and skirts are designed for a curvier figure, not only in how they look but also how they cling to one's body. A curvier body makes most dresses look and fit better.
But let's face it, when most people think of a corset, they are typically associated with intimacy, whether alone or with someone else. I love few things more than lacing up my corset and fastening black thigh high stockings to the garters. I tend to prefer underbust styles so pairing my corset with a matching bra and panty is a must.
Love,
Hannah
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6 comments
Corsets are difficult and uncomfortable, but they make us look more beautiful and sexy. I wear them occasionally. My man likes the way they make my body look.
Reading this blog and looking at the photos has made me think about trying a corset. I’ve worn a basque and love the look on myself, and the way it feels to wear. I am thinking that a corset might take things to another level. I’ve started looking at steel boned corsets, which don’t appear to available on xdress unfortunately. Have you got any recommendations of where to shop?
I too am a straight man who loves cross dressing and in particular wearing panties and nighties. I am very fortunate in that my beautiful wife is accepting of this although she doesn’t understand the desire that I have to dress as a woman at times. I just love being my best self and that usually is when I’m wearing feminine clothing and underwear, feeling pretty and gorgeous. Why should girls get to wear all the pretty panties, skirts and dresses? I love my wife so much for her understanding, I wish the general public could be more accepting and that I didn’t have to feel that I’m odd because I occasionally would love to go out dressed as a girl. I’m so glad that I’m not alone, even more grateful that I have been open and honest with my wife about how cross dressing makes me feel, but just wish other people could not be so judgemental of a guy who just wants to feel amazingly pretty sometimes. Debbie
Hannah, thankyou for your supportive blog. I’ve enjoyed buying lots of X-dress underwear which is what I wear under male clothes most days. Fortunately my wife is very accepting. It is though excellent to hear about others’ experiences and to know other people have the same interests and acceptance of this lifestyle choice. Please carry on with the posts.
Nice blog Hannah and very true! Be careful! Love corsets and they make you very sexy and stylish! But they can hurt you if not worn properly. Love the spics Hannah, very sexy!