You should always give yourself permission to be fabulous! Being fabulous is different everybody. I do think the clothes we wear help with our self esteem and confidence which leads to our fabulous selves so wear what you want, when you want and how you want!
Dilipating all body hair from every wear.
that is the most fun in the world to build an xdress wardrobe. Starting with panties then baby dolls and learning how to apply makeup such as eyebrow makeup.Facial and body creams ,etc
Hi Charlie! Building your lingerie wardrobe is one of the most fun things you can do. What’s next on your wish list?
I picked out some satin corkscrew panties, a Greek god panty, and the butterfly panty. They didn’t disappoint. I look forward to building my lingerie wardrobe. Thanks for asking Hannah!
Hi Charlie! I’m so happy to hear that! What pretty panties did you pick out?
Thank you! Your right…no turning back!
I definitely did…will be ordering more panties and bras. Hannah thanks to you for a blog that does a great job articuting how I feel about wearing feminine stuff. What you outlined did a great job of saying what I feel about wearing feminine things. Thank you!
I’m all lingerie, I luv all of it, if it fits I’ll try it on. I own many pieces, bought, borrowed and found (taken) and it makes me feel good. I’m 59, hairy and lingerie turns me on, wife knows, she accepts but doesn’t really approve, but that ain’t stopping me.
Hi Steff! I agree! And there’s nothing wrong with that!
Hannah so tru
A silky nightgown just feels good and whats wrong with that ?
Thank you! I love the photo as well. ;) Coming out to anyone, especially your significant other, puts one in a very vulnerable position. When one opens up to someone, it’s a sign of trust. You are willing to reveal something about yourself to someone without knowing how they will react. Trust, in its many forms, can create a stronger bond between two people.
“There’s no connection between sexuality and clothing”. So true Hannah. What I wear or how I wear it does not reflect my sexuality. As a panty wearing male my wife finds me more attractive and intune with my self, my fem side, and even her – which makes for a much stronger and happy marriage. Whether you just wear lingerie or out wear or anything you have to be true to the self before you can share the self with others. By the way Hannah, love the new photo.
Hi Angie! Thank you! Too many people associate behavior, gender norms and sexuality with clothes. Nothing feels better than waking up in a nightgown or slipping on a pair of panties or the silkiness of a stocking on a smooth leg.
Hi Sidney! What is it about wearing a red dress that makes us feel so irresistible?
Hi Steffi! So glad to hear you have embraced yourself and how the love of lingerie is universal no matter how you identify.
I let myself feel guilty and ashamed of my love of feminine clothes for forty years. No more. As of last fall, I have been going out in pretty outfits that are appropriate to the seaso. I don’t need anyone’s permission or approval. If you don’t think I look nice in a yellow silk tea dress over a lace camisole while I am out shopping, then tough nuts to you. Say it loud, I’m skirted and I’m proud!
Very nice blog, Hanna. We are so on the same page. As you said, wanting to wear pretty, lacy things with bows is not about sexuality. It’s about who we are inside, and yes, it is fabulous! My wife likes to wear jeans, flannel shirts, and loves power tools. Does that make her gay? Absolutely not, and she can do the girly girl thing really well. Like you and me, she is gender fluid and loves it. Binary gender is so not a part of our home, and we love it! Thank you for your thoughtful blog which, I’m sure, speaks to the majority of our community.
Charlie, I’m excited for you in this, your first order of panties and cami. Once you put them on, there’s no turning back! Keri, as always, great reply. Don’t you just love a smooth, satiny nightie?
There is nothing like weaing a great pair of panties and a sexy bra with my Brest form under my red dress with thigh high with 4 in shoes. Fill free to be your shelf wear what makes you happy
Yes, this is not a phase you outgrow. Embrace and love who you are.
Thank you Sara!
Hi Charlie! I hope you had fun picking out your first set of panties!
I gave myself permission after accepting myself as a heterosexual male who loves feeling sexy in lingerie!
Gender fluid maybe but never wanting to be a woman
So once I figured myself out I accepted it and went with it
I m a full time underdresser, wearing bras in the winter and camis now in the spring
I cant live seeing my toes not painted
All that doesn’t have anything to do with my sexuality
I love women and everything about them
I m open enough to celebrate all the differences in the world
We re all different
Be accepting and open and love yourself and life
OMG Hannah. You are so right. Speaking as someone that has passed the “young” stage I can say you must give yourself permission. Stop fighting it. Does it really matter what society thinks or has conditioned us to believe? I say NO. I remember when women burned their bras in front of City Hall or some other public place. They did not want to be restricted by societal rules. In those days girdles went by the side and so did, in part, hose and garter belts as well as pantyhose to some degree. Maybe it is time for men to show up wearing panties, bras and stockings with garter belts en masse. Something needs to trigger a larger movement towards men having more and frankly much better options.
Unless you are already part of this community most or many guys have no idea how comfy a pair of panties can be. How wonderful it is to wake un in a pretty nightie. How fabulous slipping on a pair of panties and hooking up a bra can feel. I can honestly say I have given myself a lot of permission and I love feeling feminine.
A beautiful read! Thank you!