Sitting here I was wondering how crossdressing is readily accepted today in society and to be honest, I am not even sure why we have to label it anymore. All too often we put labels on things to lock them into a category so that we can make statements about them like “I like to cross dress” or “You wouldn’t catch me dead crossdressing” or even “Crossdressers are just wrong." These labels in this modern day and age don’t hold any meaning. I like to think that as a society we have evolved enough to simply say as men “I like to wear bras” or “I like to wear lace panties” or “I like to wear stockings”. If we want to remove those labels, why not just say I like to dress to feel good?
Women now a days don’t really care as long as it looks good on us and we are feeling good for them, and more importantly for ourselves. If however, there are women that still cannot accept men wearing lingerie, then it's one more person to help understand and spread the word about crossdressing. Although, anyone is held to their own preferences and opinions, but perhaps the relationship may not be the same for the better or worse. As for guys who still cannot accept it, then I say they are most likely either locked in denial that they too want to try lingerie out, or they have been brainwashed into not allowing themselves to experience things they haven’t been taught.
XDress does an excellent job at making crossdressing for men just a way of life. By making the things guys want and by helping us to feel comfortable. With so many options to choose from in panties, bras, camisoles, and other lingerie/clothing items, it allows us to put on what feels good and right. I myself, really enjoy lace and satin. XDress has some excellent choices like the The Smooth Satin and Lace Bra and The Lace Brazil Brief. I could go on and on for hours about what I love about their products and which ones I enjoy and really want to try out.
So here is my question to you my friends. What do you really enjoy wearing (bras, stockings, panties, dresses etc.) and what would you like to see more of from XDress?
I know there are so many options, where do you even begin? Let me start off by stating I would love to see some more babydolls in lace or satin in solid colors. I would also love to see more thongs. This definitely makes for a fun conversation in the comments section, and it allows XDress to know where we would love to see them focus.
So before I let you go my friends, let me just say this. In today’s day and age I don’t think of myself as a crossdresser. I think of myself as a modern man who is comfortable in what I like and how I feel. If society still feels they need to label us as crossdressers then sign me up, because I am not going to change.
Until next time my friends!
XD Blogger
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As a gay man who doesn’t fully identify as a full man, or should I say Feminine, I enjoy the wearing of some female clothes like skirts, I can no longer stand wearing men’s swimwear anymore, I prefer to wear women’s swimwear, i.e. One-Pieces and Bikinis, Tops and Bottoms, So far I’ve been accepted into a swimming group here in Brisbane Australia as what I call myself, non binary, a non binary male and I’m able to wear a one-piece swimsuit for swimming training, not going into competitions, more for getting fit, however I’m sad to say that if I go to a normal beach or waterpark, what I wear in the water might not be appreciated or accepted because of their desire to keep their parks Family Orientated.
I also am looking forward to ordering your Bras and Undies to wear under my clothes, I’m even thinking of buying a pair of women’s Denim Shorts and maybe a shirt or hat to go with it, just to blend it in a bit.
Austin, your sorting sounds like great fun, but i am afraid my wife would pitch all my fun stuff! I experiment with all styles and cuts of underwear, and given the time of day, season of year, and weight of other fabrics i am wearing, i wear it all! Well, ok, maybe not all… … … Its been YEARS since i put on a jock strap! But loose boxers, boxer briefs, contoured briefs and bikinis, thongs, and yes, even (usually stretchy) women’s briefs and bikinis. lately i like snugger fits.
Just yesterday my wife asked about a recently purchase pair of panties hanging in the laundry room. She said “you have some just like mine!” She thinks i am weird, but I told her I just like the snugger fit, softer fabrics, and the feel of thinner material when compared to thicker material-ed options from the men’s department.
Thank you for your message and your courage to be yourself. I live in Utah and it’s a torrent of insecurity.
Back on track, i would like to see some black fetish/cute pink leather/lace punk-rock, edgy mashup. Mmmmmm. Sounds Hot ?donut?
I’m in my thirties now and have been wearing lingerie and dresses since i was sixteen. Why? That’s the burning question, innit? it never hurt anyone, so i never changed my habits and I’m proud to wear a culture crasher.
Love+Respect, Dylan.
I have loved wearing panties ever since the first time I tried a pair on. I’ve never thought of it as cross dressing and just love feeling cute, girly, pretty, sexy, naughty, desired, hot or whatever word I want to use at that moment I see my butt in something sexy. It’s about showing off my ass and feeling pretty. I’m bi sexual so as I experimented and grew panties has just become apart of me. Won’t date a guy or a girl who isn’t cool with me wearing what ever I want under my clothes or in the bedroom.
I would live to see more sets and bundles, lace and hot pink items.
I love this site!
I secretly have been harboring the suspicion that my wife has just kind of “put up with” my fascination with soft delicate beautiful panties on men but I recently proposed after 4 years of marriage that we go through each other’s panty drawer and get rid of anything that we didn’t absolutely love of each other’s, no judgements, complaints or veto power. We set a folding wall in between us so we couldn’t see which the other was keeping and which were “making the cut”. When it was all done we took the wall down and I was pleasantly surprised and shocked that many of the most lacy, pink, feminine pieces would be staying as well as some grills and polka dots and other’s!! She actually likes them! I really shouldn’t have been surprised since she picked a lot of them out but the nagging doubt that she was just indulging me would’t go away until now. You’re love may not instantly jump on board from day one because it is against social norms as of today but that’s not to say that people (especially ones that love) won’t see things from a different point of view once they see how happy it makes others and how beautiful something out of the ordinary can be.