Sitting here I was wondering how crossdressing is readily accepted today in society and to be honest, I am not even sure why we have to label it anymore. All too often we put labels on things to lock them into a category so that we can make statements about them like “I like to cross dress” or “You wouldn’t catch me dead crossdressing” or even “Crossdressers are just wrong." These labels in this modern day and age don’t hold any meaning. I like to think that as a society we have evolved enough to simply say as men “I like to wear bras” or “I like to wear lace panties” or “I like to wear stockings”. If we want to remove those labels, why not just say I like to dress to feel good?
Women now a days don’t really care as long as it looks good on us and we are feeling good for them, and more importantly for ourselves. If however, there are women that still cannot accept men wearing lingerie, then it's one more person to help understand and spread the word about crossdressing. Although, anyone is held to their own preferences and opinions, but perhaps the relationship may not be the same for the better or worse. As for guys who still cannot accept it, then I say they are most likely either locked in denial that they too want to try lingerie out, or they have been brainwashed into not allowing themselves to experience things they haven’t been taught.
XDress does an excellent job at making crossdressing for men just a way of life. By making the things guys want and by helping us to feel comfortable. With so many options to choose from in panties, bras, camisoles, and other lingerie/clothing items, it allows us to put on what feels good and right. I myself, really enjoy lace and satin. XDress has some excellent choices like the The Smooth Satin and Lace Bra and The Lace Brazil Brief. I could go on and on for hours about what I love about their products and which ones I enjoy and really want to try out.
So here is my question to you my friends. What do you really enjoy wearing (bras, stockings, panties, dresses etc.) and what would you like to see more of from XDress?
I know there are so many options, where do you even begin? Let me start off by stating I would love to see some more babydolls in lace or satin in solid colors. I would also love to see more thongs. This definitely makes for a fun conversation in the comments section, and it allows XDress to know where we would love to see them focus.
So before I let you go my friends, let me just say this. In today’s day and age I don’t think of myself as a crossdresser. I think of myself as a modern man who is comfortable in what I like and how I feel. If society still feels they need to label us as crossdressers then sign me up, because I am not going to change.
Until next time my friends!
XD Blogger
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Thanks for the blog. The statement that crossdressing is readily accepted in society is way off the mark where I live. I live in the South, and if I were to go out in public in a nice skirt and blouse, I would be taking my life in my hands. Fortunately, I am blessed with a wife that not only accepts my femme side, but encourages it and has bought more of my skirts and blouses than I have. We are also fortunate to live in a fairly isolated area and have a lot of land, so I can freely stroll through the forest with no fear. The term “crossdresser” is a bit puzzling to me. If I am dressing in feminine clothing because I am expressing my feminine side, is it really CROSSdressing?
As far as products, I agree with Ivo – I’d like to see more thigh-hi stay up hose. I don’t mean the fetish kind. Just plain ordinary hose with a lace top. As far as colors, I like black and also nude.
Peace,
Angie
I forgot to mention I have gotten rid of all my body hair. I use a epilator and I love using body lotion and very feminine body sprays as well. I guess people are right I enjoy being very feminine
I really love wearing very feminine clothing such as panties and rompers etc. I always try and keep my figure as feminine
as possible. it seems as I get a little older I secretly love the comments that I am very effeminate. I love wearing make up
such as keeping my face soft and feminine. But not overly. I enjoy keeping my eyebrows feminine and wearing eyebrow make up. I wear nail polish on my toes and love to give my self pedicures etc. I really love xdress. clothes everything you have
I suppose there will always be labels. Crossdresser is one of a few that I have been called or given at times. As someone over 60 I have seen a much greater acceptance to this lifestyle. Sites like XDress have prospered as well as others. All for the better of course. As far as I am concerned slipping into my first pair of panties and putting on my first bra were all wonderful events. I really don’t mind the labels as long as they are not mean spirited. Like many others, I suspect, I have evolved in tastes and interests. Xdress is one of many that have helped that cause. As a younger person in my twenties I would have been very hesitant to admit that the model for this blog page is absolutely adorable. Today and for quite some time now I readily admit it. Looking at this model as well as other Xdress models stirs things in my panties. One of the list of reasons I will keep coming back. Keep up the good work.
I love silk undies . I would like to see more colors, and more boxer briefs, with lace.