Working in my field of human behavior and dynamics I have witnessed how people have dealt with the situation of the pandemic. We are all in this, the situation has remained the same, yet people have dealt with it so differently. Some people have been incredibly stressed due to the fact of the ongoing changes, and the uncertainty of it all. Some are stressed by the fact that we are unable to make a plan to move forward because those plans are ever-changing and they cannot see a clear vision into the future and therefore feel frustrated and stuck. Yet, I have also seen others embrace the change and uncertainty, and get a feeling of opportunity and fun, yes, I said fun. Now emotionally, it is taxing to see people go through the health concerns that come with the pandemic, and that is not fun. What I am talking about, is the fun that some people are having of creating new idea’s, looking at new opportunities, and feeling a sense of freedom that comes from stepping out of a routine, expanding their creative mind, and seeing the world from a sense of possibility rather than what is. How are you managing your stress?
As I sit and write this I am in my blue sleek satin nighty and matching satin and lace panties. I feel good just to be myself, and wear something that feels good, and with that reduces stress. So, when stress does hit, as it does for all of us, do you take the time to put on something that feels good, that engages that part of you where you feel yourself, and maybe even a little bit sexy? What if you put something on and your partner's eyes open wide and give you “the look”? What would that do for your stress level? Sometimes just slipping into something with lace and satin can help take away the stresses of the world. It doesn’t take away the external stressors, they will always be there, but it can melt away the stresses of your internal world. Feeling satin against your skin, and the feminine look and feel of lace can give you that little bit of relief that you are looking for when the rest of the world is going crazy. How about a matching bra and panty set from XDress, or maybe a sexy babydoll set, a garter, and stockings? Such simple things to do, and just maybe, it might help reduce the stress in your partner when they see you in it, and just maybe want to do the same. Who knows what that might lead to? My girlfriend has an outfit that she likes to see me in, so, on a Saturday afternoon, I slipped away and slipped into it for her, and the look on her face. Stress be gone!
So, for those of you who are going through stressful times, think about this. Maybe it just might help you destress your internal world. For those of you embracing the change and uncertainty, get creative, wear some bright colors. XDress has come up with some great color choices and lace and satin combinations that are guaranteed to brighten up your day, and maybe those around you. So, when you start to feel the stress coming on, what will you slip into? Love to hear your thoughts on what you are doing, or have done through the pandemic?
Be yourself, everyone else is taken!
WB
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I need a lower heel shoe as the high heel is very difficult for me to walk in.
Okay. I have had a shoe fetish for a long time. Here where I go shoe shopping, it is well known that I don’t need any help so don’t bother coming over to ask me questions. I know what I like and if I don’t see something I like I will come back another time. These are just my regular everyday guy shoes. So, when it was time for me to take the next step in my XDing and buy my 1st pair of heels, I did as I would do with my regular shoes with the exception that I look for what is sexy and what I would like to see on a woman. I have taken to a 6" platform sandal style heel and 6" wedges. I prefer to buy women’s cause they are cheaper in price and if I chose a man’s heel because they are made for a mans foot they are priced as so. As if they were a specially item and rare. Just cause they are made for a man doesn’t mean they need to be priced higher. There are way more styles & colors in women’s than men’s as well. I see this in clothing too. Hopefully one day this will level out price wise when it becomes more relaxed that men are wearing women’s sexy attire out in the public. I would suggest for the guy that wants to try out a pair of heels for the first time, start out with a pair of wedges. Much more surface space on the floor until one gets use to walking comfortably. Then move up to heels that they want to look sexy in. Thanks
I have always considered high heels an essential part of my dressing. Around the house I usually wear 4 inch heels. Since I am 6 feet tall wearing them helps to improve my posture. Let’s all hope that our day is coming very soon!!
Hello miss Michelle. If you see this message I would like to thank you for what you said about high shoes. I take it that will be the same with boots ? Lee. Xx
Nathan and Keri I envy you! My dream would be for acceptance for all clothing by any gender. I have a weakness for open toe stilettos especially with a well done pedi; whether I m wearing them or someone else. A nice pair of heels really sets off well fitting jeans or a pretty dress 👗. Our day is coming