I meant to write this a while ago… If you feel that being a sissy (or feminization) is not for you after trying the fennel tea for a bit, you can drink clear green tea and it will gently restore your testosterone levels. Almost everything will get back to normal after a while (male sex drive, endurance, strength etc.).

I’m not sure where to add this but in terms of working out to achieve your ideal body weight… I mentioned before about eating light in the morning and then not again until early afternoon. In addition, if you are going biking (morning is ideal because you’ve already been fasting through the night and this forces your body to burn fat reserves) its a good idea to have a protein after your workout to tone your muscles. A lot people like the convenience of a protein supplement but what they don’t realize is that almost all of the protein supplements on the market are synthetic and as such they are not particularly good for you. The only one I’ve heard of that is not synthetic is called ‘go pro matrix’ (or something like that). Otherwise, you could eat tofu or something containing high quality protein from regular food. I’m not suggesting that everyone has to have the perfect body but there are a plethora of health benefits from getting in shape. Not to mention, you will look really good in lingerie! For a feminine figure you can do hatha yoga, cardio etc. And if you prefer the more masculine look you can do weights, the smaller the number of reps with the larger the weights the faster you will build muscle mass. Good health and good wishes!

Note to moderator… If you feel any of this isn’t worth posting feel free to remove entirely, edit etc. I’m just passing on some of the things I’ve learned about this whole process that might help others.

There is one other thing… When you start to explore feminizing your body with herbs (or conventional means) you have to somehow decide whether you wish to maintain a more masculine physic or pursue a more feminine figure. I think there is a threshold where you can still go into ‘Sissy mode’ but once you have permanent breast development for example, you are probably going to be a full time sissy, or ladyboy, or femboy or however you wish to describe it. These changes are not reversible. Its hard not to feel a bit feminine when you shower each morning and you can feel that things are different. Or when you see yourself in the mirror and you look womanly without your shirt. You know? So that’s for each person to decide how little or how much they wish to pursue sissification. You might find that with developing breasts they are sore and a bra from xdress would be a big help just so nothing is rubbing or touching them. So that would determine your clothing options too.

Hi Jen, Sure! Someone edited my post a little and that’s probably for the best.

Fennel tea is something that people who cross dressed many (think hundreds) of years ago used. It seems to block testosterone while having a lot of phytoestrogens. Its a very powerful and feminizing herb for guys. That’s why I recommend going slow and seeing how you adjust. I wouldn’t take too much because its just too many changes too fast – ouch! You can use it gently over a period of months to get the desired effects (this would amount to about one cup a day). If you’re not one hundred percent certain you wish to do surgery etc., then best to take care of your manhood and take breaks from any kind of herbal or conventional supplements (a few weeks off after a week or two on etc.). You’ll know when you feel like things are okay.

For clothes lately, I’m partial to your Valentina collection as well as your Anna lace Panty. Its a bit hard to wear panties under clothes all day only because there are elastics and so on that can bunch things up a bit. For that reason, a nightie, a robe or something like that is particularly comfy! I would love it if you had a nice stretchy lace boxer! My favourite thing to wear would be a cute white blouse with a deep v neck and a nice silver grey pencil skirt with some xdress panties underneath (maybe some thigh highs etc. too). Thank you for everything!

David, why fennel tea, does it have hormones in it? And also please tell us about what you wear when in sissy mode.

I would highly recommend a cup (or two but start slow) of fennel tea each morning if you’re going to embark on the path to becoming a sissy. Its not expensive and you will see some subtle feminizing in your body that will help open you up to being more feminine full time. If you’re lucky, your nipples will enlarge (not to mention your breasts), your booty will soften and become more rounded and your waist will decrease. Further, your body hair and facial hair will thin or stop growing entirely. At this point, you can enjoy, permanent, full time feminine physical, emotional and mental characteristics. This will really help you open your body and mind to being a sissy. The more masculine and hot men are, the more turned on you will become and the more available you will make yourself and that’s the number one goal of being a sissy! Your sexual orientation will adjust as your body changes (which is super fun!). You don’t have to drink this tea every day. You can take a break and assess the changes and then start again (don’t worry, your booty curves and breasts will stay!). Give your testes a chance to recover (i.e., take a break for a few weeks now and then) so you can remain fertile and healthy down there for women as well (if they aren’t too busy cuckholding you!) PS if you’re serious about getting your ideal body, weight loss might be on your list too. All you have to do is one; stop eating junk food and two; eat one or two pieces of fruit in the morning for breakfast and then don’t eat again until you are fairly hungry (around one or two in the afternoon). You will lose weight at a good pace and you’ll get a lots of attention as you achieve your ideal body weight. Yoga and any kind of gentle endurance exercise will help too. Ideally, do this exercise after you’ve eating fruit only (or protein). If you wish to take a protein supplement to help stay toned that’s best taken in the morning.

I love wearing woman’s underwear and I’m turned on looking at these hot guys in lace! I’m certainly bisexual but watching a hard man trying to pop out of a mesh thong really gets me going. I think guys should experiment with lace and satin. And even bras feel good on my nipples and a thongs feel nice too.. Any sexy lingerie is sexy whether a guy or girl wears it.

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Yes, I am a sissy. I absolutely love wearing panties and other garments that are traditionally worn by women. I tend to keep my body silky smooth and slender so that my panties fit just right. Sometimes I wear a bra or skirt and other times I go biking wearing a cute thong under my soft leggings. I am also a sissy naturist. I love feeling other men gaze at my soft slender figure and I love it when they express interest. More and more, I’m working up the courage to become fully bisexual and embrace everything that a sissy lifestyle has to offer (almost there;). I am so happy to have found Bodyaware and Xdress. I can honestly say, it all started here. I often look forward to the next beautiful pair of panties or sexy bathing suite coming in the mail! Thank you for your amazing support and beautiful products!

If I could be a sissy for a day, I think I would start the night before. Wash up and jump into a pair of XDress Satin Brazil panties in black and the matching bra. I would wake up refreshed and shower and shave and get made up. Put on my black stockings, Red Satin/Lace Hipster panties, lace bra in red and red garter. I would enjoy my coffee this way and relax around the house til around 10am. Then finish dressing with a frilly silk blouse and nave pencil skirt with navy pumps. The blouse would be a little transparent and enough to show off my red bra just a little. I would wear a brunette wig with shoulder length hair. Topped off in a pony tail and Wayfarer Ray Bans. I would head to the shops and walk around. Not certain of what I was looking for but admiring the windows and the latest fall fashions. I would text my SO and have her meet me for lunch. A sidewalk bistro with a good wine selection and salads. We would laugh and talk and flirt. The afternoon would include a mani/pedi together and another cocktail before heading home for dinner. Dinner would be air fried salmon over arugula salad and a nice wine. We would have each other for desert. Me taking care of her before she takes care of me in sissy fashion and a strap on.

I am a sissy in private. I love wearing panties, thongs mostly. I have a lady Doc. so I wear them there. I have nylons, garter belts, wigs, and, Mary jane heels. I walk around with them always, outside under my man clothes. Inside I am always practicing my woman thing. One of these days I will let go. But for now I will just thank X-Dress for making quality pretty lingerie for men like me. Thank you very much.

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If u mean submissive xdresser then yes
I read a book called
Help I think I m a Sissy
Helped me define myself
Being a Sissy can be a lot of fun!