Hello dear readers! It's long overdue that we discuss all the lovely benefits of dating an Xdresser, and what we bring to the table that other men do not. So let's get right into it.
First of all, it goes without saying that the men who xdress love to shop! This automatically makes us more enjoyable company than the men that just sit on a bench when they go to the mall / clothing stores with their significant other. For me, shopping is not only incredibly fun, it's also a form of stress relief. To unapologetically shop in the women's clothing section, alongside your wife or girlfriend is an experience that could only be described as euphoric. I have done this a number of times with my girlfriend and it is quite simply a very intimate experience to share together, especially when shopping for lingerie. Picking things out for each other, recommending items and just enjoying what is considered to be a feminine activity is something that can strengthen any relationship.
Next, xdressers are generally more empathetic compared to other men. We understand the amount of effort it takes to look pretty, what it takes to pull off an outfit and the difficulty in wearing heels on a night out. We also tend to be more in tune with our feminine side, which makes us able to convey our emotions in a much more sensitive way. For example, I recall being quite dismissive and having a "it's not a big deal" attitude when discussing problems before I became an Xdresser. However, my attitude could not be more opposite now when I have discussions. Coming from a place of love, understanding and compassion is my general guideline now. In short, I feel xdressing has made me a much better person for this reason alone.
Also, xdressers are just more fun to be around! The majority of people live in an all or nothing world, where they follow social constructs and guidelines as if their lives depend on it. The inherent courage it takes to even be a xdresser means we generally look at situations in life with a unique perspective. We are comfortable with standing out and breaking the norms, which takes a serious amount of gumption. One could argue we are more "manly" than your average jeans and t-shirt wearing man, as we do not fear criticism like those who try so hard to fit in. Bold is the perfect term for xdressers, because there is nothing more bold than a man in heels and lipstick that doesn't care if everyone is staring at them.
Lastly, an xdresser is an amazing lover! They will more often than not, devote more than the average man to a relationship, as we value intimacy and commitment above all else. At least, that's how it is for me. We also love spending time with our significant other doing all sorts of activities other men would scoff at. Such activities include mani/pedis, facials, massages, or any other essential self care activity! I am sure all of us here can attest to how incredible it is sharing these experiences with our SO and not feeling guilty for it. After all, what woman wouldn't want a man they can share almost every part of their lives with?
All in all, I truly think xdressing is wonderful thing. Embracing femininity is a balancing act that will vastly improve your relationships, as people begin to be drawn to your balanced and harmonious energy. So, what do you think? Has xdressing made you more fun? Have your relationships improved? Let me know in the comments!
-Nathan
20 comments
Jeffrey
What a story! So cool. You ve taken the conversation in a different but certainly interesting conversation. I d love to hear more but this is not the forum for it
Lol
Stevie
This is a great blog to chat about. Dating another XDresser. Yes, there is nothing better than dating another XDresser, or just having a gurls night out with someone who is into the lifestyle. I can not say that I dated steady with a XDresser, but I have been out many times, to parties and clubs, one on one, with another XD gurl. These dates were some of the best times I have had as a XDresser. But I would like to go one step further, and propose that dating men, or gentlemen callers, as I call them, is another XDresser lifestyle that is so rewarding and fulfilling. Meeting these gentlemen at parties and clubs was very exciting and thrilling. These men, are great admires of gurls like us, and enjoy the company of a sexy and well dressed XDresser. I have dated these men many times and never have I been disappointed. They are courteous, polite and generous. They are respectful and always brought me flowers. Amazing! Yes, it can be a bit challenging at times, doing dinner, movies and out in public, but I have always been confident in my looks, and these men simply enjoy the experience and company of self-confident XDress gurls like us. We can give them something they do not get elsewhere.
You should date a XDresser because they are more in tune with their feelings than others. We have more compassion and are better listeners and are not afraid of being vulnerable to others. We share a passion for femininity that helps boost your SO’s confidence as it does your own!
The fabrics have a calming effect on me! I often come home take off my male clothes and slip into something more comfortable so to speak. Although i wear panties every day when i get home i may want to relax in a bodysuit or bra panty set with stockings heels and silk robe
Definitely has an effect
My under dressing also gives me confidence during the day and even calms me down during a heated moment when I remember what I wearing underneath and the color of my nail polish on my toes 😉
Get ur lingerie on
Stevie
So happy for those who can share with SO
I agree very much with your blog. Being able to wear this stunning underwear had quite the effect on me. The soft fabric cannot be compared with my average underwear. I just love the way it fits and the way it lets me feel special. My wife very much appreciates me wearing the Xdress lingerie. For me it is super fun to browse through the website and it very liberating to be able to dress how I feel and to be able to share it with her. I am very happy I discovered Xdress and love all the lingerie I now have in my drawer!