Hello dear readers! It's long overdue that we discuss all the lovely benefits of dating an Xdresser, and what we bring to the table that other men do not. So let's get right into it.
First of all, it goes without saying that the men who xdress love to shop! This automatically makes us more enjoyable company than the men that just sit on a bench when they go to the mall / clothing stores with their significant other. For me, shopping is not only incredibly fun, it's also a form of stress relief. To unapologetically shop in the women's clothing section, alongside your wife or girlfriend is an experience that could only be described as euphoric. I have done this a number of times with my girlfriend and it is quite simply a very intimate experience to share together, especially when shopping for lingerie. Picking things out for each other, recommending items and just enjoying what is considered to be a feminine activity is something that can strengthen any relationship.
Next, xdressers are generally more empathetic compared to other men. We understand the amount of effort it takes to look pretty, what it takes to pull off an outfit and the difficulty in wearing heels on a night out. We also tend to be more in tune with our feminine side, which makes us able to convey our emotions in a much more sensitive way. For example, I recall being quite dismissive and having a "it's not a big deal" attitude when discussing problems before I became an Xdresser. However, my attitude could not be more opposite now when I have discussions. Coming from a place of love, understanding and compassion is my general guideline now. In short, I feel xdressing has made me a much better person for this reason alone.
Also, xdressers are just more fun to be around! The majority of people live in an all or nothing world, where they follow social constructs and guidelines as if their lives depend on it. The inherent courage it takes to even be a xdresser means we generally look at situations in life with a unique perspective. We are comfortable with standing out and breaking the norms, which takes a serious amount of gumption. One could argue we are more "manly" than your average jeans and t-shirt wearing man, as we do not fear criticism like those who try so hard to fit in. Bold is the perfect term for xdressers, because there is nothing more bold than a man in heels and lipstick that doesn't care if everyone is staring at them.
Lastly, an xdresser is an amazing lover! They will more often than not, devote more than the average man to a relationship, as we value intimacy and commitment above all else. At least, that's how it is for me. We also love spending time with our significant other doing all sorts of activities other men would scoff at. Such activities include mani/pedis, facials, massages, or any other essential self care activity! I am sure all of us here can attest to how incredible it is sharing these experiences with our SO and not feeling guilty for it. After all, what woman wouldn't want a man they can share almost every part of their lives with?
All in all, I truly think xdressing is wonderful thing. Embracing femininity is a balancing act that will vastly improve your relationships, as people begin to be drawn to your balanced and harmonious energy. So, what do you think? Has xdressing made you more fun? Have your relationships improved? Let me know in the comments!
-Nathan
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OMG. I am so happy to have found your website. I live in the southern USA. X dressing is thought of here as strictly homosexual. Thanks to your blog I can now show others that that is not true I just love how my soul feel in ladies clothes. I am now very excited to purchase clothes from your store as they re mad to fit us men. No more of my package hanging out of the women’s undies Iv’e bought now because of your store I can look and feel even even better than before ….thanks so much.
Ams to each their own! I m in the dopamine rush camp lol
I have lots of stuff!
Get ur lingerie on
Stevie
I’ve been a XDer for probably 46 years out of my 54 I’ve been on this planet (I started when I was about 8, but it was unknowingly, I didn’t know what it meant, all I knew was that it felt good). Shopping in general however, BORES ME TO DEATH. Now the pedi/mani/spa sessions I could totally get into, that seems far less a waste of time to me than shopping does (plus it seems it generates much less waste than shopping does). I’m also not a wire thin narrow framed skinny little waif, so I’ve got that against me, which makes shopping in regular stores almost impossible for XD wear. It can be a little entertaining to see what’s on the rack, but it only lasts a few minutes for me. I’m also very anti-consumerism, anti “stuff”, anti accumulation of stuff just for the sake of accumulating stuff, so when I hear things like “it’s also a form of stress relief”, that to me sounds like the adrenaline or dopamine rush of buying something new, which over the course of a few hours dissipates and you’re back to your pre-rush state of mind, which inevitably leads to needing that next fix or rush again, lather rinse repeat. Maybe misinterpreting the true reason behind these supposed “anti stress properties” of shopping here, what I do know is consumerism is killing this planet. I have 3 pairs of heels, 2 dresses, 2 lingerie outfits. That’s it! Less is more.
:le plaisir de porté vos culottes, comment montré vos culottes devant un publique sur Paris ,y a t’il plan exhibe
Geez.. you’d think all this is true but, my boyfriend is the least patient or understanding guy I’ve ever known when it comes to shopping or getting ready. He likes to wear lingerie or at least that’s as much as he’s admitted to me so far and that’s only when we’re intimate. I wish he were more in tune. Lol!