By Musk
When did you first start wearing panties or lingerie and what motivated you to try it?
I think my first motivation was simply….why not. From there it was comfort and how turned on wearing it all made me, that feeling was an easy way to push deeper into lingerie. I followed what felt good for me.
How My Style Has Evolved
I think it was a natural progression, but I know I dip my toe into the idea of more feminine underwear early in my twenties, at the time I didn’t know of makers like XDress so I would just wear tiny g strings and the things I could find online. My first proper panties were a pair of women’s panties that came with a magazine I bought in France. That was 2016 and I was hooked. From there I found XDress, likely via Body Aware and knew I was ready for more panties. I think since I know so many of my guy friends from meeting on Twitter they’ve known all along that I enjoyed slutty underwear so they’ve only encouraged me going deeper and deeper into lingerie. I type this while wearing a tiny skirted sheet and lace thong a friend told me to buy.
What I Love Wearing (and Why)
These days I love a bra, I am wearing those more and more, and I’m getting more and more into crotchless things, especially for wearing with a cock cage! Lace is without question my favorite fabric, but sheer works too. I love the idea of coverage without being covered. I want to wear stockings and pantyhose more but I tend to forget about them or fear I’ll snag a run.
I live alone so I spend a lot of time alone so lingerie is how I start and end every day. I love the confidence and fun it provides oftentimes mundane of living alone in rural areas. I especially love working in my garden in the heat of summer in the smallest lingerie I can find.
Who Knows and How Open I Am
All of my guy friends know. Between in person, twitter, and Instagram they’ve all seen me in it. They know what I like and these days I know what they like and having that connection with my guys has been such a joy and reminder that we, as country bumpkin gays were never as alone as we feared we’d be.
Connecting With My Feminine Side
That’s a hard one to say, I love the juxtaposition of muscles and body hair with the feminine designs, especially with lace. I love the idea that you can be whoever you want. Especially if that means I can drive a tractor or work in my garden or on the farm while wearing lace. For me my love of lingerie and panties has come from writing my own rules about who I am rather than fitting the cookie cutter of the boxer wearing guy that lives on a farm in Kentucky. My farm life is farm more lace, mesh, and panty filled.
Why I Stepped Away From Traditional Men’s Underwear
Comfort is the biggest reason, I prefer as little coverage as possible but want support for the balls. Thongs have been my go to since high school. I used to love jocks but that has faded and thongs truly are my daily wear. I feel like the skinny jeans we were all wearing a decade ago was a big factor too, the less fabric the underwear had the less bunching you’d have in those skin tight jeans.
Advice for the Curious
Start where you’re comfortable and with what turns you on, for me that was smaller and smaller thongs and then into bodysuits, from there it has very much been a journey into a current love of bras and stockings. I’m dying for a corset next. I would also say start with cheaper pieces and work your way up. The great thing about panties is everyone wears underwear, why not make what you wear beneath your clothes fun, even if it’s your little secret.
Confidence, Expression, and Owning It
Oh I don’t give a hoot anymore, I used to have some level of shame connected to my love of underwear in general, but especially with lingerie, but now it is something most of my friends know about and encourage, and it has led to several of my friends opening up about how much they love lingerie too, which has been a fun new dynamic of our already very open friendships. I love that it is another bonding moment for me and my guys. We are continually sending each other links of what we each need next.
I love bodysuits and have for a long time, a leotard is typically what you’ll find me at home alone in. Cheeks out. I believe my first one came from XDress years ago.
What XDress Means to Me
For me XDress has been my favorite point for quality lingerie. I’m continually seeing what XDress is doing next and what is new. It is also the first place I send friends when they tell me they have interest in exploring lingerie and panties. When converting from women's to men’s sizing it is often hard or overwhelming to know what size to get, but XDress has standard sizing and that has made it all the easier. Body Aware is also my everyday go to underwear brand so it is nice having the two brands in the same family.
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16 comments
I was asked by a partner to wear womens panties when we went to bed together. I said no immediately because I was muscular and only liked mens gear and was toxic masculine. I liked this person so much I went to a book store and bought a pair of purple lace panties with a matching teddy. The reaction from my partner at that time was absolutely amazing. I had never felt so wanted and loved by someone I worshipped already. He made me feel feminized and I really liked it. I went from jockstraps wrestling singlets and fatigues to panties bra garter belt and nylons overnight. If you met me you would never believe I have over 8000 reward points in a year or so since I discovered Xdress. I luv how you show other mens points of views and there panty lingerie wearing journey. I want more. I have a difficult time putting together a complete lingerie set like panties bra garter nylons. I would love to see a page where your model is wearing the full outfit and can be bought as a set just adding the individual sizes for each piece. Just a thought. I really enjoy shopping at XDress. Please keep designing more.
This really hit home for me. What started as curiosity turned into something that is now just part of everyday life. I wear panties every day now and I honestly cannot imagine going back to regular men’s underwear full time. They make me feel feminine, comfortable, and just more connected to myself. It has helped me accept a side of me that I used to keep private. XDress has been a huge part of that because your styles are some of the best I have found. The panties fit great and always make me feel confident. I would love to see even more options, especially different cuts and colors. More bras too please because I know I would be buying those.
Thank you for posting this because it honestly made me feel seen. I started wearing lingerie a few years back and at first it was only at home, but now it is something I wear daily. It just feels right and has become part of who I am. I really love how feminine it makes me feel and it gives me this quiet confidence all day long. Even when nobody else knows, I know, and that feeling means a lot to me. XDress has become my go to because it feels like it is actually made for men who love this style. I keep coming back for more pieces. Really hoping you add more panties and bra styles soon because there is definitely a demand for it.
I really related to this story a lot. My journey started kind of the same way, just trying panties once in a while, but now I wear them every day and honestly it just feels normal now. I actually look forward to getting dressed in the morning because it makes me feel more like myself. There is something about wearing something feminine that just puts me in a better mood for the whole day. I used to think it was something I had to keep hidden, but now I have fully embraced it. XDress has been my favorite brand by far because the fit is just right and the styles always make me feel good. I just wish there were more panties to choose from because I would absolutely buy more. More bras would be amazing too since I love putting together a full look.
Proudly been wearing only panties for years now! Never going back. Love X-dress so much, I hope we can get some satin panties soon. Bring back the K222 and K224 in SOLID colors. No more prints.