We all love the XDress site and likely frequently shop here for our undies of choice but I often wonder how it began for you?
Of course when we were younger, our mom’s likely picked out our undies as part of our growing up. We did not have much of a say in that period of our lives as we were way to young to even know what options may be out there and likely did not care as we were being potty trained!
As we grew older, we had a bit more of a say in the underwear of choice and for me that was around 13 when I choose to move away from the tighty whiteys or Y-Fronts (as they were known) and into boxers. Not sure why boxers were the “in” thing back then but they were more comfortable than the tighty whiteys and seemed to be more popular. Anyway, I went with it and enjoyed it for many years. Of course, at this time, I was aware of women’s underwear and all the great designs and fabrics it came in but did not wear it but did try on.
Moving forward, living on my own and dating a very cool woman, I was wearing more daring undies but in men’s cuts. Sexier underwear than boxers or tighty whiteys but still in the male section of the department stores. Bikini cuts and thongs and boxer briefs in mostly cotton that felt sexier than boxers and certainly fit better and accentuated the male attributes better. These were fun and flirty but lacked the fabrics that women’s underwear offered.
Women’s underwear was always an intriguing option and I would wear my girlfriend’s panties from time to time and she was always so turned on by me wearing them that it made it a fun foreplay exercise. The way that satin feels on your privates is an exhilarating feeling! It was by chance that I grew the courage to finally wear panties under my street clothes and the first time was awesome! I remember it like yesterday. A green satin pair that she left behind before heading to work, I put them on and went to work myself and called her when I got there to tell her what I was doing. She was thrilled! I was excited all day from the feeling of satin and the thrill of wearing panties! The little bow on the front of panties is the defining piece of the undergarment!
Anyway, I would then begin to dip my toe into wearing panties more frequently but often kept wearing the traditional men’s underwear day to day. The panty days were “special” days. The women’s styles were great but lacked the support or space needed for the male genitalia which made them a bit uncomfortable. Still felt great and very sexy!
Then I found XDress. A very great offering of male panties in women’s styles and designed for males. Although I still wear men’s boxer briefs from time to time, my daily choice is typically from the XDress offering. The styles and fabrics are amazing and they are super sexy! They make you look great and they come in so many styles and varieties that you can find what you will like. For me, my go to is satin. Very sexy and flirty and flattering. Each pair has the bow that defines the femme style and I just love them!
So, that is my journey and I am interested in yours. When did you start wearing panties? When did you find XDress? Do you have any recommendations for new XDress styles and prints and cuts? I know I’d like to see a spandex or Lycra offering in a bikini or thong. Maybe a “kisses” print on white satin? The crew at XDress does a great job so I am sure they would be open to ideas!
Scott
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Wow! Overwhelming response for my blog and I so much appreciate all the feedback! Love to hear the support for all of us who wear and hope it helps the ones on the sideline who are thinking of trying! Jump in! The water is perfect! Thanks XDress for great products and a very supportive community!
This blog is great!
My question is
Does it begin innately or is it environment? Or combination? Are we a strict gender binary or non binary? What i like about the current narrative is that i can love wearing lingerie and still b a man without being gay or trans
For me it began with a foot fetish!
Stevie
Ah! How did it begin? I am unable to say. What I am currently aware of, and now have the requisite vocabulary to express it, is that for as I long as I can recall, there’s been a “feminine” energy about me, within me. Since pre puberty. And for decades I ignored, repressed, suppressed it, hid it and hid from it. Only in these recent years have I begun to not only embrace this femininity but explore it and uncover it. Xdress has been an integral part of this enlightening and invigorating journey. In fact, as I write this, under my lounging attire, I’m wearing the Xdress eco rib cami (please bring it back 😘). My journey now is into “beyond the gender binary “. Thank you. For the exquisite lingerie (especially lace thongs with bowtie on front), for the blogs and for each of your comments. 💕💃
David that was rhetorical! I know u hear us and thanks for the blog
Xdress do u hear us? The new bras are purr-fect!!! They fit us sooooo well! Especially for that 40-42 that needs a A cup! Hard to find elsewhere!!! And the fabric is devine!
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Xdress owner (David) comments: Sure Stevie, I hear you all and thank you for participating so regularly in our blogs. I read the comments and reviews personally and take on board all suggestions. We are very much customer lead and hope to create the sort of pretty items that bring a little happiness to our wonderful and supportive customers, many of whom have been with us for 25 years+!