Where Do You Draw the Line: Fetish Frontiers!

July 12, 2018 27 Comments

Where Do You Draw the Line: Fetish Frontiers!

Good day, dear readers, and thank you for your following of my blogs! You are the best! I got to thinking about the whole issue of fetish, and decided to look it up. It is defined as, “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.” Beyond that, there are fetishes that are ascribed magical powers.

 

Frankly, that is a beyond me. Getting back to the original definition (I’m not going into the voodoo definition) did you start crossdressing because of sexual arousal? Did you find wearing panties a bit thrilling? Do you still find it so, or has wearing panties become just the usual thing for you? How about bras? I find both panties and bras so thrilling to wear. Honestly, matching bras and panties from Xdress, along with their matching camisoles are just about the best in the world!

 

 

Anyway, getting back to the topic, do you find dressing in beautiful lingerie an arousing experience, or is it just a normal part of your day? Xdress has a number of things that may appeal to a fetish dresser, such as dresses, petticoats & tutus (I love the Dance the Polka Petticoat by the way), and skirts (check out the ballet skirt – way too cute!) The dresses especially suggest some form of role playing, and are definitely suited to fetish fun. Of course, there are some folks that go beyond this level to a frontier way beyond – the adult baby fetish. These are the folks that enjoy dressing as a baby, complete with diaper, bonnet, and teething ring or baby rattle, and wet their diapers. What do you think about that?

 

 

Getting back to the title of this blog, “Where do you draw the line?”, are you into fetish, or is dressing in lovely lingerie just a normal part of your life? What type of fetish goes from a “Hell, Yass!” to a “Hell, No!” for you? I’d love to hear your comments.


Fondest regards,


Angie (Guest Blogger)


27 Responses

Angie
Angie

August 16, 2018

Anna, Dave, and Stevie,

Thanks so much for your replies. Dave, you are so fortunate to have a lady such as yours. Don’t forget to celebrate her femininity as well! Anna (by the way I love your femme name). I feel your pain! Given that I wear a size 15 in women’s shoes, there isn’t a shoe store in the world that has my size. I have to go online to find shoes (love those Mary Jane’s !) and even then it is a throw of the dice as to whether or not they will fit. Stevie, thanks for being one of my constant readers. I’m working on another topic. Stay tuned!

Fond regards,
Angie

Anna
Anna

August 14, 2018

love all the comments wish I could try on women’s shoes in public without all the disapproving looks. love the feel of nylons panties bra and beautiful heels

Dave
Dave

August 04, 2018

My wife approves and even purchases lingerie for me

Stevie
Stevie

August 02, 2018

I forgot to say
Cant wait for the next topic
There are some older blogs that should be reposted i think they d make great conversation

Stevie
Stevie

August 02, 2018

Thank you Angie
And the other bloggers
It refreshing and freeing to be yourself!

Angie
Angie

August 01, 2018

Stevie and Phoenix, Thank so much for your posts. Phoenix, you are so blessed with a wife that fully engages with you and your love of nice lingerie. I’ve heard some horror stories on line of guys like us who don’t have supportive wives, and suffer greatly because of it. We are who we are, and to have a spouse that supports that is an incredible gift. Be sure to love up on that lady of yours, and don’t forget jewelry!

Stevie, I am so glad you feel that you have found a home at XD and now understand that you are far from alone in embracing your feminine self. Once you have discovered and accepted your inner woman, there is no way you can go back to the binary male. Sweetie, welcome to the sorority, and enjoy!

Fondly,
Angie

Stevie
Stevie

July 28, 2018

Hell all
This is a great place to get support and realize there is nothing wrong with you that there are other people like you
That there are women who accept men wearing lingerie
some people like hats some boxers briefs goatees tight jeans boot cuts straight t shirts only etc
We like lingerie panties bras stockings
They make us feel something
For some it’s feminine
For some its electricity
Some its naughty
For some the material just feels better
In any event i love this blog the lingerie and the interaction we have voicing our support and our opinions

men wear panties
Rock On!
Phoenix
Phoenix

July 27, 2018

I have found that it a mix of fetish and norm in my life. I am so greatful to have a supporting/adventurous wife. I absolutely love wearing panties, bras, and other lingerie. I am slowly working up to other clothing. We look at panties and lingerie almost everywhere. What started as a my desire for better quality fabric has quickly turned into a way of life. I happen to stumble on XD one night in a very random search of the internet and have been a so impressed with the options and styles. For a long time I kept these thoughts to myself. It wasn’t until I was telling my wife how bored I was with men boxer/boxer briefs and her telling me to buy a pair of panties to try on. From then the flood gates have been opened and I am happy beyond words. I read these blog post and I am comforted by the post and the comments. Thank you all for being exactly who/what I needed.

Angie
Angie

July 24, 2018

Stevie, Dave, and Aaron,

Thank you so much for your replies. Aaron, I so hear you about the rush that it is to wear panties under your power suit at work. Add a bra from Xdress, and it will make your day! So glad to hear that your wife is onboard with you. My wife being onboard has so enriched my life and our marriage. I can’t imagine a day without panties and matching bra! Stevie, you know what I’m talking about, as you are on the same page and Aaron and me. So cool to be in a meeting and think, “If you only knew.” Do you find it calming to dress en femme under all the macho stuff you have to deal with? I sure have.

Dave, I am so glad you have found an accepting community here at Xdress. I have met truly wonderful people here, as I know you will as well. We are all sisters under the skin, and it is so freeing to express who we are without societal condemnation. Dear sister, we are who we are, and you are so welcome to this sorority! (That and the beautiful lingerie.)

Fondly,
Angie

Dave
Dave

July 23, 2018

Angie, Stevie, thank you for your appreciation. I type from the heart and am honored to be a part of such a wonderfully embracing community – even if only thru comments and anonymously shared interests/behaviors. Looking forward to another wonderful blog post so I can stretch my mental boundaries. Fetishes, the concept of “gender”, expected social behaviors… Who would have thought I could find wonderful clothes, kind people, and mentally enlightening conversation all in the same place.

Stevie
Stevie

July 23, 2018

I too love the feeling of knowing i m wearing something sexy under my clothes
It makes my day go better

Stevie
Stevie

July 23, 2018

Aaron
So cool
Xdress also helped me expand my sexy undie wardrobe
The bra pantie sets are my fave
Its so cool your wife is on board
I too love knowing i have on my thingz and no one inthe office knows
We can be sexy too

Aaron
Aaron

July 20, 2018

Love your blog and all the people sharing their fetishes!
I came across Body Aware and Xdress about 10 years ago and never looked back. I was hunting for some sexier underwear than what the department stores sell and hit the jackpot! Thongs, satin, lace, bras, so much to choose from. So hard to pick a favourite. It feels badass walking the office all day wearing a pink satin thong or black lacey panties under my clothes!

My wife is on board too and every Christmas and birthday comes with more items from BA or XD. Even trips to the mall are sexy now. When we walk by Victoria Secret she suggests I pick out something for her and she will find something for me.
Recently I opened up to her about my fetishes of being dominated and she embraced it. I wish I would have brought it up to her years ago! She puts on her tall black boots and a black corset and dresses me appropriately, stockings, bra, panties, and of course a collar with handcuffs. There is nothing more erotic than being being spanked, dragged around the living room and called names, among other things that are probably not appropriate to post here haha!

Angie
Angie

July 19, 2018

Thank you all for your wonderful replies on this blog. What a diverse group we are! If anything, I think your posts confirm to all of us that we are not alone with our love of beautiful lingerie. Dave, I especially appreciated your very thoughtful post, and especially your statement, “For me there’s both the thrill of the taboo as well as the sensation of tension and fabrics that serve to contrast my own masculinity and awaken my inner gender dialogue.” Your comment about the “inner gender dialogue” so well captures what the whole crossdressing experience is about for me. Thank you for your insightful comments.

Fond regards,
Angie

Sindeez
Sindeez

July 19, 2018

I simply live wearing panties. I wear them 3 or 4 days a week, however, my wife is not very supportive. I kind of have to do it on the sly. So I guess it is a fetish however if I could wear them every day I would. I would also wear dresses, skirts, lingerie, jerks, and oh how I love wearing as cute one piece swimsuit

pantysue
pantysue

July 18, 2018

I wear panties every day! The feel of them is so much more comfortable than male underwear. It’s like the secret women keep from men, and sissies like me when it comes to getting pedicures…you have to wear panties and get a pedi to know life’s best!

Lisa Anne*
Lisa Anne*

July 17, 2018

I have worn panties for years when I get home from work or out on weekends. My wife in the past few years has become accepting and helps me shop for women’s clothing or on the Xdress website. I have quite a few pairs of heels, flats, and Lularoe dresses, leggings and shirts. I wouldn’t classify it as a fetish for me but more of a relaxation from everyday stresses. I love pretty things! Oh and she has also let me experiment with make up as well!! 😍

Stevie
Stevie

July 17, 2018

Dave
I loved your post
It hit home
What a great blog this is to discuss various issues about the way we dress

Dave
Dave

July 17, 2018

There is definitely something to be said about a “kink” personality and sexual blueprint – as long as you have the courage and support to explore it fully. Whether it is a power thing (domination or just reverse normal), clothing-based, or any other combination of emotional or physical kink, being able to tune in to what turns your sexuality or identity on is a powerful journey to undertake.
Many people fall into the trap of shame and guilt when it comes to a fetish. The up side is you get a wonderfully powerful trigger to excite and enliven you; the down side is that, especially if it is not understood by others, it can lead to being closeted in shame. Personally, I’ve enjoyed the stages of unwrapping my fetish with my wife – that of wearing panties – but it is still an ongoing process. The more I uncover and reveal to her, the more I realize I have also hidden from myself. What started out as quickly trying a pair on, turned into openly sleeping in – and walking around the house in – first my wife’s panties, then my own. For me there’s both the thrill of the taboo as well as the sensation of tension and fabrics that serve to contrast my own masculinity and awaken my inner gender dialogue.
Discovering and divulging my fetish/kink has been a wonderfully freeing journey that has transformed me from someone hiding my passions behind shame, to someone who shares my Xdress wishlist with my wife and openly talks about what to put on after a shower. It began as a fetish, and turned in to a comfortable part of my identity. Luckily, there’s always another layer down the fetish rabbit hole to explore…

Jamee
Jamee

July 17, 2018

I’ve cross-dressed for many years but only found and enjoyed XDRESS recently. The term fetish definitely applies to me and it’s also reality. It is validation to be pretty on the outside for what I feel on the inside. In the last few years I’ve enhanced my breasts by taking hormones so that my bra has more to hold in the lace and satin. It’s very rewarding to feel feminine in lingerie and show off to my loving and supportive wife!
Thanks for all the cool clothes that you make available

Stevie
Stevie

July 16, 2018

Both
I definitely have a foot fetish and shoe fetish and live to crossdress for fun
However
Now that ive accepted myself i wear what i want when i want
Panties bras stockings nail polish on my toes
Femme jeans and tops
So much fun and look so much better
Love my murse too (wink)

Penny
Penny

July 16, 2018

since I met my partner She requires me to wear panties and a bra all of my waking hours. At home I wear women’s clothes and heels. I have women’s wedge heeled tennis shoes that I wear out. Our relationship is the same as two women with her the dominate and yes it is sexually stimulating for both of us. i defiantly have a shoe fetish especially wedge heeled sandals and pumps. Thank you for the Blog.

Paul
Paul

July 16, 2018

It is as common place for me to go to my drawer and choose a pair of panties, a camisole or bra, and nylons, as it is was years ago for me to go to my drawer and pick out a pair of boxers, undershirt, and socks. Though I do get a thrill wearing something sexy for my spouse.
But all in all, wearing lingerie, for me, is the norm!

Jack
Jack

July 16, 2018

I only wear panties…everyday. Nitegowns all the time for sleeping, basically long and slinky. Wife is very supportive for this.

Dean
Dean

July 16, 2018

I dress in lingerie only, it’s a arousal and fun for me. I started young, moms and sisters things, cause I was curious about the different and beautiful things. I am now 59 and the amount of different styles is very appealing. Thank you xdress for making and bringing out beautiful things for us to wear and feel sexy.

jamie
jamie

July 16, 2018

I wear stockings and panties (or no underwear) to work everyday and I have a private collection of a full female wardrobe. My prized possessions are my 4 pairs of louboutins with minimum 5in heel. I try on loads of women’s clothes and heels in stores and they all remember me and treat me so well. On occasion I have dressed head to toe as a woman, most recently in black patent So Kate Louboutins, thigh high patterned stockings, black panties and push up bra and a navy silk a-line mini dress. I walked into one of my favourite shoe stores and tried on a pair of 5in thigh high black boots. I was checking myself out in the mirror and I looked so hot. Nobody saw me but I quickly switched back to my louboutins and got out of there! So I guess you could say I take it pretty far sometimes.

sidney
sidney

July 13, 2018

I find it very thilling when I am dressed in my panties bras a very nice pair of thigh high with a pair of 4 in heel ..that is when life is not good!!!!!!!!!thank0 you for blog

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