Pillow Talk w/ Hannah: The Femme Desire!

There's no definitive or universal answer or reason why people like what they like.  Why do people like true crime podcasts?  Why do people like golf?  Why do people like tacos?  

No one knows.

And it doesn't matter.  We like what we like and there doesn't need to be (and there likely isn't one) a reason for our fondness towards it.

Why does everyone visiting this website love lingerie?  It might be how it looks, how it feels, and how it makes us feel.  

Since there is no reason that we can all agree on or identify with, perhaps it might be worth considering why we are pushed AWAY from "girl" things.

There's no biological or evolutionary reason men are prohibited from wearing pink or panties or skirts or sky-high stilettos.  Of course, not everyone likes to wear sky-high stilettos or other fun things, lol.  After all, the wrong shoe (or the wrong anything else) can be uncomfortable.  My point is that there's no reason anyone can't wear what they want.  "Girl" clothes are amazing.  Leggings are a godsend.  I believe that if a guy tried sleeping in a nightgown one time, they would wake up in one every single morning.  

We as humans wear what we wear for endless reasons.  A certain necktie makes us feel confident.  A certain eyeshadow brings out our eye color.  A t-shirt with our favorite sports team shows off our love for our hometown.  A killer black dress makes us feel sexy.  There are emotional and psychological connections to what we have in our closets.  Why a man likes to wear "girl clothes" can have countless reasons.  There is not, and never will be (and again, there doesn't need to be) an universally agreed upon reason why every man who crossdresses does what he does.

Since there's no reason why men can't wear what they want, my question is why DON'T more men crossdress?  Why do so many men (as far as we know) deny themselves the softness of "girl" jeans?  The comfort of leggings?  The freedom that only a skirt can bring?

I believe that more men wear "girl clothes" than they will ever admit.  I also believe that more men think about what it would be like to wear a dress than we will ever know.  

So, why don't they?  After all, girl clothes are cuter, softer, and more comfortable.  My anatomy, chromosomes, hormones, doesn't prevent me from being able to wear anything from a corset to nail polish.  The reason is that men aren't "supposed" to.  Boys wear blue, boys wear pants, and that's the end of that.  We are told to wear certain colors and certain items because that's how it's always been.  Which is stupid. "Tradition" feels like handcuffs sometimes.  

So, wear what you want.  There's no real reason not to.

Love, Hannah