Do you find wearing something femme relaxes you? After a stressful day, I find that a matching set from XDress takes the stress away.
Oh my God yes. One trillion percent. If I am having a stressful day, I countdown the hours until I will be in bed wearing something cute. Lately my favorite XDress items are the Daydream Chemise and matching panties. I have been traveling for work a lot lately and I always make sure I have different lingerie for each night that I am in my hotel room.
It's not always just lingerie, though. Sometimes (like at this very moment) it's a pair of black leggings, a femme tank top, and a long, duster style cardigan. Femme clothes are just softer and cozier.
But why wait until the stressful day is over? If I know a day is going to be terrible or long or both then I'll wear a matching cami and panty or a bodysuit from XDress.
Of course, we shouldn't ignore the wonderful and peaceful feeling of waking up in something femme. Theeeeee best mornings are when I wake and I have my coffee still wearing my nightgown. The feel of soft satin is always amazing but stretching out a few more minutes this way each morning is divine.
Another thing to consider is why limit yourself to stressful days? Why not treat yourself to an evening of beautiful lingerie after you just killed it at work? Why not wear a cute bra and matching panty set on a Friday simply because it's Friday? Maybe a thong bodysuit and thigh high stockings under your suit will give you the confidence you need for that presentation you are giving to the board of directors that day?
...Upon reflection it's clear that EVERY moment of the day is better with femme clothes, lol.
Love, Hannah
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There’s nothing better than wearing lingerie, I sleep in nighty’s every night wake up and put on a pair of panties and matching bra and have my coffee. I can’t wait for summer so I can wear my summer dresses or bikini bottom to sun bathe in.
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Oh yes
One of my top 5 reasons for crossdressing is the stress relief i get from wearing bras panties and stockings. I too countdown to lingerie lounge time especially when i m under a lot of stress.
Dress on my lovelies