Hi Hannah, do you think there are a perfect number of panties? How many is too many? Or not enough? When I discovered the joy of X-Dress I soon decided I needed 7 pairs just to see me through a week. Then over the months I told myself it maybe needed to stretch to about 10, just cover 2 weeks. Suddenly I find I have a collection of 21 pairs of panties (something I never imagined I would say!), whilst my 8 pairs of pants gather dust in a lower drawer. I just don't know if this a lot or not! I would love to know your thoughts, John x
Can a sky have too many rainbows?
Can a garden have too many flowers?
Can a drawer have too many panties?
Of course, the answer is no.
You determine how many panties you need with your heart, not based on some arbitrary number. The wonderful thing about panties and lingerie is discovering what you like. There are SO many options in terms of material and style and color. Perhaps you like mesh thongs, perhaps pink cotton panties are more your style... you won't know until you try everything (but could anything be more fun??).
But there is something to keep in mind that many of us experience which can be dangerous... THE PINK FOG.
This is a term that is used to describe being infatuated by this new world. We fall in love with panties HARD and FAST. Before we know it our wardrobe is filled with stilettos and panties and stockings and all sorts of wonderful and beautiful items. We visit Xdress.com and before we know it we have 9 panties in our cart when we really only planned on buying one cute thong. This happens to me all the time, lol. The Pink Fog is when we are so caught up in our love for panties or anything else that we might not be using our best judgement. It's very common to spend more on panties than we should (in a fiscally financial sense) and before we realize it we've spent half of our rent money on lingerie.
The Pink Fog can also be attributed to other behaviors, such as lying to our partners. Many of us have partners that support or at least accept this side of us. If there is tension that our dressing causes it's not always crossdressing itself that does this. Rather it's the actions that are associated with it. For example, destroying your monthly budget on panties is very likely going to be a topic of discussion (putting it lightly) between you and your partner. Not necessarily because you bought panties, but because you were financially irresponsible and your actions are going to impact your significant other. Panties were not the problem, your spending was.
Have fun, but beware the fog.
Love, Hannah
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9 comments
Too many panties are barely enough! John says he started with 7 thats kinda one a day routine. You need way more! Yes day to day comfortable wearing, 2 weeks worth or you’ll be forever washing them to have spares. Then there’s sexy ones for those nights in (wink wink) and of course you need several specials for nights out… thongs, tangas, sheer, lacey and pretty patterned ones. Not to mention cotton, silk and nylon. I’m happy to have the choice of several pairs of each style to match my mood and occasion.
I love panties and I can never have to many!!
Hi all,
I have a lot of panties, bras, garters and stockings, corsets, etc. My wife knows about my kink for lingerie and is slowly coming to terms with it.
When I look to buy something and tell her, she doesn’t get upset with me because of finances but the fact that I am adding more to collection.
I’m not sure if she has fully come to terms with my new kink. I think she is worried about my sexuality.
I have certainly suffered from the pink fog many times over the past few years. Just recently had an episode and brought loads of nylon to add to my already extensive collection. In the past I have had pink fog for dresses, makeup, lingerie, jewellery etc. Got so much stuff. Fortunately I am single so do not have issues with a partner. However I occasionally have slight feelings of guilt over my pink fog purchases, which is only natural but they soon pass. I do tell myself I do not need anymore stuff except occasionally replenishing makeup etc. But when you see something that ‘tickles you’ it is very hard not to purchase it. I do try to resist but usually temptation gets the better of me.
I do have to say I have definitely had pink fog to many times in the last few years as I have explored wearing lingerie every day under my normal clothes