This morning after grabbing a quick shower I went to my dresser to pick out my panties/underwear for my day at work. After riffling through the contents of the drawer for 5 minutes looking for the perfect pair from XDress to start my day off feeling sexy (today it was the Glistening Satin Tanga) it came to my attention that my daily wear panties are mostly pouches while my leisure or fun panties are not. It got me to thinking to myself is this common for a lot of men? For me a pouch allows me to keep my package neatly contained and slightly forward and I am guessing for those of you really endowed (average here) this would be of benefit too. I always found that non pouches left my boys feeling loose and out of control unless I was excited. For those that are below average in the twig front I often wondered if pouches would be a hindrance. Would things stay in or would you be constantly be adjusting to keep things right (Yes these are the things that dance through my mind when picking out underwear).
When it comes to romantic times with my love though I find I really enjoy the non-pouch (standard front) panties as it forces my package to strain against the fabric which both my love and I find sexy (It feels great too!). An example of this is the Invisible Pleasure Brief (which will become anyone’s fast favorite if you try it). So I thought I would ask you my friends what are you favourite style to wear and why? Is it a pouch or standard front?
What I also wondered about on my drive to work is what would be the best style to wear if you were tucking. For this I would imagine a standard front would be best but if anyone could shed some light on it for me I am sure there are some that would be most grateful.
Now I want to share a secret with you my friends, I would like to try chastity sometime (gasps I know) but I want to make sure I am informed as to what the best style of underwear to wear is and what device should I get. More research is required on this front and I think I remember seeing some devices on Epic Leopard. I would imagine that while wearing a device a pouch would be most comfortable but again this is only my guess. Maybe at a later date I can shed more light on this.
I hope my friends that everyone enjoyed the brief glimpse into the things that just pop into my head randomly and how I find myself being always curious to the various styling of panties. The panties from XDress sure help me feel sexy and paired with the perfect cami or bra I am unstoppable in my day to day activities.
Stay sexy my friends and remember we define what is the norm, not society!
XD Blogger
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Well, seeing ladies’ fashion, I used to think that they have such good options. Why don’t we have those? I must say, I really liked these designs. I have seen lots of designs such as mens gstring, mens sheer underwear, etc which are very fascinating. They have such sexy and erotic designs.
Well to each his own but I started wearing or dressing because it was womens things and I was fascinated by them.. the things and the women. So underwear with a pouch is exactly that underwear. I wa ant to wear panties so no pouch.
That being said, I do own many pairs with a pouch for a couple of reasons. First of all some of the designs are sexy and they look good on the models so okay I will try it.
Second. When we are going out or to a family function whatever you get the point. I am still closeted so I wear the mens attempt at panties at those times. One big plus about the pouch. Because there is no construction on my junk I believe as does my wife. My erections are way more intense and honestly, bigger than when I have been tucked or even just confined all night or day. So there you go pros on both sides.
For me the fetish started and is based on womens clothing. It turned me on and still does because it is taboo. Coo coo ca choo.
To pouch or not to pouch? Great question!
Firstly, thank you for your wonderful blog entries, Hannah! Thought-provoking and always arousing!
I love the panties here on XD, and have several. In many situations an accommodating pouch can be the better choice for us men who love our femininity yet possess moderate endowment. My boyfriend would argue that point, though – “No babe, you’re well above average!” Fortunately, he’s significantly and quite delightfully larger than me in that department, but I digress!
There are just some activities where a man needs the equipment corralled and controlled, and panties with a pouch gets the job done. Motorcycling (yes, I wear a bra and panties under my riding gear), working out, hiking, and in general, any moderate to strenuous physical activity. But when it comes to everyday going-to-the-office wear, light chores around the house, quiet time with him, or sharing his bed, I don’t want a pouch. I have lots of thongs, bikini briefs, boyshorts, cheekies, and hipsters that I’ve bought from women’s underwear and lingerie stores. I love the panties for men – they’re great in the right situation – but I dearly love wearing women’s panties!
Why no pouch? Easy answer. I’m fascinated by the psychology of sex, of attraction, of arousal. In the relationship my boyfriend and I share, my, um, “male equipment” has no penetrative role. He’s the bold, aggressive, handsome, hung (yes, much bigger than I), 100% masculine alpha male, and the penetrative role is his. Wearing no-pouch panties when I’m with him reminds me of my place; having very little room in my flat-front women’s panties reinforces that bright line in our gay relationship: that I am ever and always the feminine, and he is only and undoubtedly the masculine. Wearing women’s panties, for me, is like an emotional emasculation. Panties, and bras, strip me of my masculinity, while at the same time ratifying and amplifying my femininity! I absolutely ADORE that state of being, and he loves it when I’m in full feminine flower!
Now, male chastity? That’s a subject and a further state of being that I would love to explore! And my boyfriend has expressed a profound desire to “lock me up!” More to come!
I love the lace thongs my boyfriend wears. They are high waisted and the cut is more vertical than most panties. Very femme! I just wish you made a similar cut with a front pouch……..I know I would buy every color and fabric!