What Do Women Think About Men’s Panties?

OK, what actually are men’s panties? Are we talking about the conventional boxer brief? Here at XDress, we don’t do boring and to us, men’s panties don’t have to be plain and simple. Men’s panties are fun, lacy, silky, and everything in between. So, what do women think about this? We’ve come to realize that so many women don’t care. Not only do they not care, they actually enjoy the quirkiness of it all. Women want to make their men happy and if her man is happy wearing a sexy lacy number, then why not? It’s time to break the typical rules on men’s panties, and here’s how:


1. Give Your Man Some Unique Gifts
We all know that gift giving is one of the most difficult things in life, the sheer panic and instant stress that happens as soon as one foot enters the shop. Even if you know the person really well, it can be so hard. A great idea would be to invest in some unique gifts for your man. A gift you know that no one else is going to give him. If you’re married, reenact your wedding night with a frilly garter for him. Not married? A bit of role play is always a bit of fun! There’s also the option to go for a bra for men. Yes, we know most women can’t wait to take off their bra at the end of a long working day, but many men love wearing them and a smooth satin bra is going to feel smooth against his chest. Whatever unique gift you decide on, you’re sure to both reap the benefits.


2. Have Fun
Lingerie isn’t just about something you stick under your clothes because you have to. It’s about having fun! If you’re a woman, do you have fun dressing up for your man in lace underwear? We bet the answer is yes. You feel good and you look great. You have fun. Switch it up a bit with some lace panties for men. Lace is arguably one of the best fabrics going, especially for underwear. It’s sexy, bold, daring, kinky and it’s for men and women! However, life doesn’t have to all be about lace; there are plenty of ways to have fun with your underwear. How about some funky socks and short shorts for men? Match it up with a leotard, or mix it up with your own combination of patterns, designs and fabrics (the more creative, the better). Whatever your style, remember to have fun and enjoy it!


3. Stop Listening to Others
People are opinionated. Whether that be the gobby bloke who lives at the end of the street, the media, or a work colleague, they just are. Whilst it’s true that everyone is entitled to their opinion, it doesn’t mean we all have to agree, or that their opinions should influence the way the rest of us think. If you’re a man who enjoys wearing underwear traditionally deemed as feminine, or you’re a woman who supports her male acquaintances who like to wear said panties, that’s great. At XDress, we fully support your decision to live your life the way you want to and like we said before, if you’re worried about what the females in society think, they’re a lot more open-minded than you probably originally anticipated. If you do come across someone spouting off a load of abuse, ignore them and continue to BE YOU. Plus, it’s none of their bloody business anyway!


We’d love to hear your thoughts on this. If you’re a woman, what are your thoughts on men’s panties? Would you let your boyfriend or husband wear lace underwear for men? If you’re a man, how does wearing these undies make you feel?


I am married 45 year old and have been wearing panties for 10 years.I wear thigh waist panties. I . love solids in pink, blue, purple and prefer satin with lace. They are so comfortable and feel so soft on my skin. They are just underwear. Women who don’t like it shouldn’t wear mens clothing that 70 percent of women wear or maybe even more. And yes, I buy them myself sometimes with the help of a sales lady.

Sean February 21, 2022

I am obsessed with seeing my husband in panties, bras, lingerie and little black dresses and skirts with stockings. It really brings out his vulnerable side and I love to play on it and the love making is epic.
Been doing it for 11 years now since before we got engaged and I don’t see it ever stopping any time soon. There is nothing girly about my man at all and I find him even more manly for being able to wear lingerie, heels and a dress and look fantastic as a woman. But then being able to slip in to jeans and a yard shirt to mow the lawn etc. But he will still be wearing sexy panties under the jeans because that’s the way I like it.
If I am super lucky, his panties will poke out the top of his jeans at times and give me a giggle as I watch him work

Stephanie July 31, 2021

Danielle, when you described your b/f, you were describing me in every thing you said, with the eceptions of big and tattoos. Yes, I do wear lace panties when “riding”! Silverdao, 4" lift.

Ron December 05, 2020

The feeling you get wearing panties has so much more sexual energy than regular underwear. Finding a woman that is open to it is easier than one might think. The first showing may be greeted with a strange glance but you are at your most vulnerable at that time and over time, the acceptance gains. Sometimes to the point where she will start buying items for you! Enjoy the experience and be brave to show it off! If she cant get her head around it, maybe she is not the one for you.

Scott October 09, 2020

It is a double standard and I understand why. Women want a manly man often I believe because there really isn’t many left in the world. I asked a friend that I have had off and on relationship with for years who always said she loved the way I talk and carry myself. So I asked her would she have thought different of me if when she first pulled my pants down and seen bikini underwear. Mind you I was slowly wondering what she would have thought if I started to wear ladies panties. The truth is I’ve never really worn panties but with my first wife I did have bikini and thong underwear. The bikini I had bought because they were super adorable and the thing was just so I could be freaky with my wife at the time in the bedroom. So back to my lady friend who ended up telling me she probably would have thought less of me, but then mentioned I should wear what I want and that some women get turned on by men in panties. But that’s not the way it works i would be judged by women negatively.

Manuel August 29, 2020

I am a 30 yr old woman and met my man 8 yrs ago, I’ve always been a little Kinky, my partner was straight, one night at a night club we had a few to many and I wispered that I just slipped out of my panties and my bra and because it was dark inside I said I wanted him to put my panties and bra on, he looked weird at me and said only if the single girl on her own comes over to our table, I said deal, I went over to her and asked her to join us she was drunk but came over, I wispered to him a deal is a deal, Sally who just joined us asked what was going on I said my partner made a deal to wear my panties and bra if you came over, after a while he slowly put them on, I quickly took a picture of him, he put his clothes back over the lingerie after 20 minutes. Sally noticed he was enjoying what he is wearing, so we asked Sally back to our place. On the way home I said stop and I got out and removed my long Black maxi skirt and purple blouse. Sally said to my man that seeing how wearing lingerie is turning you on then you need to dress properly, so put on the skirt and blouse. He got out removed his clothes and put on the skirt and blouse, he said what if police pull us over, I smiled and said that the chance, we got in the car and headed home. Sally said to Ryan there’s nothing wrong with guys who wear female clothing then she put her hand up his skirt and felt and said yes he is really turned on, now 20 yrs on I can’t keep him out of cross dressing.

Tasha May 04, 2020

I “ve been wearing panties for 5 years now.will never go back. They are way more comfortable than men’s.
I prefer all lace brief panties ,pink or blue.
Men wearing them is more common than one thinks. I am married and heterosexual. Who cares what you wear but the person who’s wearing them.
Who cares what society thinks. It’s not cross dressing. If it were then more women are cross dressers as many wear ,ens clothing without being judged.

Mike March 17, 2020

Love the comfort of high rise all lace pink panties. My wife doesn’t care. She shouldn’t as what makes me comfortable is all that counts.
I’ve see several men wearing panties in the gym locker room too.i guess it’s very common these day.
Who cares what we wear. Women wear men’s undies so who cares what we wear.
Wear what makes you comfortable.

Michael March 16, 2020

My wife wanted me to wear panties and bought me some. She loves the lace brief panties but not as much as I do.
They are so comfortable and I will always wear them. I have seen more men than you can believe at the gym shower room than you can believe wearing them. Guess it is very common these days and why not? Comfort is the thing and I don’t care what anyone thinks.

Mike December 31, 2019

I started wearing high waist panties several years ago after trying on a pair of my then girlfriend, now wife. I was immediately hooked on them because of the comfort.
I started buying my own and only wear panties now. She thinks they look sexy now even though it took her awhile to accept me wearing them.
She loves me in pink, red and blue silky lace. And yes, all the parts do fit.
It seems women I. The lingerie department are aware that at least half of their customers are men. They have always been helpful and accepting.
Women wear men’s pants, shirts and some men’s undies for some unknown reason, and, that’s ok by society. So what’s the difference as it is only material. Wear whats comfortable and makes you feel good.
Quit judging people.

Michael December 31, 2019

What can I say about wearing panties? I have been wearing them for many years. I probably have more panties then 10 women combined. I love the way they feel on, and makes me feel sexy. My wife loves me in them. She also shops for new ones for me.

Richard December 18, 2019

I love to wear my cotton hanes her way panties on me it feels good to wear too

Ilovetowearhanesherwaycottonpanties June 18, 2019

I hated the feel of mens briefs. hate the thick bands,no elastic legs and the useless fly design on the front. Never would wear boxers. No support at all. Complained to my wife for years. Recently ordered some Jockey mens bikinis. They look just like womens panties. Was sent womens french cut cotton panties by mistake. Wore 3 of the pairs I got 3 days in a row not knowing. MY wife was doing laundry and realized they are the same panties she wears only a size bigger. She told me I was wearing womens panties. I was like damn, I wish they made mens like these. I asked her since I already have these do you mind if I keep wearing them. To my surprise she said not at all. She even offered to take me shopping to find other panties I may like. She said if I find panties comfortable then I should wear them. She is fine with it. We went shopping and bought a dozen pairs of different types and styles and colors. From feminine pinks and reds to darker blacks and greys. Love the feel of both the nylon and cotton. Panties may be cut for women but they support well for men and feel great. She loves the way they look on me and is happy I am now comfortable. She even had me throw out all my mens underwear. She even made a fun bet with me. If I work out and lose 10-15 lbs and fit into her size 6’s we can share one panty drawer and share panties. To me that would be fun and a little kinky fun to. So it isn’t taboo like I would have thought. I gained a lot of respect for my wife with this. She was judge mental and was supportive of this and even was more into it then me.

Greg F December 21, 2018

One of the things I like most about my panties is that they minimize my manhood. I love my wife, and only want her, but still it is the making small, and not the cock ring emphasizing of my my balls in panties that I’m looking for. Lacy femininity, while wanting my wife to want me. Panties compressing and controlling my so-frequent erections. This is what I’m looking for

Tony August 29, 2018

I am all for men wearing panties and bras if the man and their spouse enjoy having him wear them!

James July 17, 2018

I became a crossdresser some years ago and since then I have always cross-dressed until my first marriage. My first wife did not like the idea, so my dressing was left on the back burner. My marriage failed after 5 years so having got divorced, I went back to getting things I like dressing up in.

I met my second wife and having known her for over 6 month’s I ask her to move in with me. When she did, I went to work and said look around the house so you know where everything is. She did but I forgot about the case I had hidden that had all my panties bra’s suspender’s stockings, you name it I had it.

So she found this and after I got home from work and had my tea, she ask me if there was anything I wished to tell her. I said no, only that I had a bad day at work. She then came into the kitchen with my case. My heart sank as I thought that was it, she would be the second to leave me. Anyway she asked if I was seeing another women and I said no, they’re mine (confession time). After I told her about them she said she would like to see me in them so I went up stairs with her and put on all my gear. She looked at me dressed up and said I looked wonderful, and the rest is history.

I now get for every birthday and Christmas new pantie bras etc, and I wear panties all the time now, either lace silk satin frilly or French. I just love them and we have our fun and I’ll leave it at that.

Kevin July 17, 2018

Since 1990, I weared women panties. I have one hundred panties. I love and I wear everyday. Now, I try to wear bra

Reddy November 20, 2017

About 3 years into our relationship, my fella confessed to wear knickers. At first I was very shocked, but after a couple of weeks taking the situation on board, my feelings changed completely. The first time I actively embraced his panty wearing sexually was absolutely fantastic.

Stacey Lucas November 15, 2017

When I saw SR’s comments I agreed with his points. I was already married when I introduced my wife to the idea of my wearing panties. I had bought some pricey men’s nylon undies which she seemed to be okay with. She didn’t like the price though. That led to her making the suggestion one day while out shopping that I buy some less expensive women’s panties. The ice was broken and the game changed. I was now, with permission, wearing panties. Initially she bought, we bought, just white. That changed over the next several months and soon I was wearing pastels, prints and lace. I floated the idea of bras by her and camisoles. The bras were a definite NO but as long as the camis did not have lace they were okay. Her fear was I would be seen with lacey camisoles on somewhere or the lace would show through. I accepted the terms. By the time I had exclusively gone over the women’s panties she gave me a fabulous Christmas gift. She gave me my first nightie. Over the years she had accepted that I enjoyed crossdressing. Women’s shorts, select tops, sweaters and sneakers all became part of my wardrobe. The shorts etc; had to pass her unisex test. That test did loosen up as she became comfortable over the years. Now even my bath, perfumes and toiletries are all female products. In the end she accepted and I didn’t push. I actually think, I know, she enjoys having a husband/girlfriend.

Keri November 15, 2017

The best strategy if you’re single and you feel that you absolutely won’t be happy in a relationship unless your partner is understanding of your cross dressing is to be open about it from the beginning. Also, you’ll have to be honest about whether you’ll be happy with a partner that’s simply tolerant of your cross dressing, or you desire one that’s more supportive of it.

For men that have been in long term relationships, I’d advise easing your lady into the idea. Keep in mind that after years together, your wife feels that she truly knows you so anything you do that demonstrates the opposite will be unsettling to her. Lots of TLC and reassurance will go a long way.

My trick with new sexual partners has always been to jokingly try to put on their underwear in bed just to test their reaction. It’s pretty easy to tell who’s a hard “no” to the idea, and who is open minded, and you can still save some face with the women that are against the idea by playing it off as only a joke. Just be aware that a lot of women that are open to it will still need to get some nervous laughter out of their system.

Sometimes the idea just needs to grow on them. I dated one woman that was tolerant, but unenthusiastic at first. She’d always giggle and tell me I was silly for wearing them. After a few weeks of seeing her, I happened to be staying over at her place on a day I was wearing boxers. She was actually disappointed that I wasn’t in panties, and got me a pair of her boy shorts to put on!

SR November 13, 2017

Dear All,

This site is amazing along with bodyaware. The way i see it..underwear is just underwear. Wether its boxer briefs or a string bikini or a thong. Calvin Klein makes thongs for guys..so does xdress and bodyaware. I just so happen to like our thongs amd bikinis more. My girlfriend absolutely loves every 50+ pairs of “panties” that i have. We call call them manties. Or panties. Or just plain ol underwear. Because thats what they are. I don’t see it as a fetish or taboo. We both see it as a different style of underwear that I choose to like and wear. Im bisexual, ive never came across any boyfriend or girlfriend who has never liked my undies. They are sexy! Ive learned to not hide my unique underwear Style but in fact to not hide them at all as everyone else does with their underwear garments. Because they are just underwear!

Vince November 03, 2017

@JM: yes, I kind of made it up but it’s a fair guess at least in my part of the world. The women I’ve talked to are mainly in their 30’s, and many are seamstresses or some fashion-related “something” as is my wife. Which makes me wonder even more – how could you not like these clothes on men!? I’ve had a very long talk with my wife about this and not once but several times and she is strictly against it, the same position from other women (and there are a lot of them). There were couple of women though who said “rather not” so that is like the 5% range :)). My wife mentioned about it to my mother-in-law that there’s actually lace and stockings for men to which MIL said – oh no that’s sooo gay!! So that tells me – unless women are ready to change, nothing will change for men. Those women who actually love this move are either malfunctioning or a God’s miracle for the male society, and thank you for that! At least I’m not blessed with this and most likely the whole northen Europe is the same. It has had some media coverage also in my area and if you read through hundreds of comments it becomes clear – women want to kill you should you dare to wear these clothes.

Ivo October 31, 2017

Crotchless panties, yes or no? Myself I love them, bought two pair once satin and lace, a green n black and a red n black pair. My wife and I had sex wearing these, each wearing a pair. Let me tell you, some of the best sex ever, a hj, a bj and intercourse. The material rubbing on my cock kept me going. But I too love to just wear one with my junk out hanging and swinging, and showing off too.

Dean October 30, 2017

Mens panties can be expensive, womens panties less expensive. Is this a reason to buy from womens lingerie? Both can and are cute, sexy, and soft and comfy to wear. Is it more of fun and a turn on to wear womens panties and lingerie, I know it is for me. I started young taking my mother’s things, dressing and playing then returning them till next session. I am a str8 man (59) but, I like to look and get ideas. Y’all tell what is your self pleasure time is like. I am right now drinking coffee wearing wifes boyshort byline panty, teehee I’m so naughty.

Dean October 30, 2017

So here I am in a bit of a pickle, I have been secretly wearing in private for my fun and self pleasure. I was wearing and playing yesterday and I took some pics, well I decided to talk and share pics with wife, well it seems not a smart move. She is a little mad or disappointed in me. I continued today doing the same, found two pair of my MIL`s I didn’t know of they would fit but they did, some I took some very erotic pics. So for two days now wearing and taking pics and playing with myself. I have told my wife that there is something else I want to talk to her about. I want to get some nighties, a babydoll, sheer or satin, or a chemise. I want us to have matching ones to maybe take the sting out, I just know she will freak. It scares me alot and maybe she won’t go along. I love the one nighty sold here on xdress, something like it with a gstring panty, I would be hard all the time. I love the items on this site too.

Dean October 27, 2017

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