What a Difference a Bra Makes


Wearing a beautiful bra can make you feel oh so sexy and I love the bras XDress carries. I have to admit, when I ordered my first one I was a bit nervous wondering what it would feel like and what would my love think but after getting my first one and wearing it we both agreed it was super sexy and exciting. 

Now there are 2 primary types of bras that XDress carries. A bralette, which is a pull-over your head or a clasp/hook and eye back which is more like a traditional bra. You might be wondering what the best type is for yourself and to be honest the answer is different for everyone.


I myself love the clasp back style the most. The Summer Satin Rose Bra or The Satin Underwire Bra I love because I really enjoy the experience of being able to do it up or have it undone (wink). With the Satin Underwire Bra I love the slight lift it gives creating a little bit of cute cleavage. 


The bralette style I love too because I find these fit a little more flush against my body and allows me to wear them under my dress shirts to work or on the weekends under a t-shirt. The Butterfly Bra is amazing to wear under a dress shirt and I found becomes almost like a second skin when the straps are adjusted properly. The best part too is no one can tell unless you let them have a glimpse. The Glistening Satin & Lace Bra feels amazing to wear with a t-shirt and feels amazing against your skin and if you’re not feeling the satin try The Rayon Bralette. Both of these are in high rotation during my weekends. You can even just wear them with a pair of leggings for a super cute look.


Now for those new to wearing a bra I would suggest trying a bralette first as you can gather them up and slide them down over your head like a t-shirt or cami. If you decide though you really want a clasp/hook and eye style then a tip I have until you get used to reaching back to do it up is to not put your arms into the straps and put the bra on backwards. This allows you to do up the hooks and then spin it around and slip your arms in the straps. Don't be afraid once it’s on to adjust your cleavage in the bra. You will find that it will sit better if you do. 


So what is your favorite bra to wear and why? I love to hear from you and I know XDress does too.


Until next time my friends please remember we deserve to feel sexy and we make the norms.


XD Blogger



Absolutely, bras make a huge difference! To me, it doesn’t truly feel like crossdressing without one. My favourite bra to wear is a simple pink triangle bra, where the fabric rests neatly on my flat chest and snugly against my nipples. And it has a clasp in the back, which I like because that’s more discreet under clothing than having to tie the two sides together in a knot, and it’s more adjustable than a bralette back.

I have yet to find such a bra anywhere, unfortunately (though I’ve found kinda similar ones on Amazon). The closest thing Xdress has is the bra from the 4-piece rhinestone set. All the other ones either have busy patterns, or a seam where the nipple might be, or they’re not meant for a flat chest at all, or they cover so much I might as well wear a crop top.

What’s the matter, Xdress? Are ya too fancy for a simple monochromatic triangle bra?

Jesse November 21, 2023

am unlined underwire nylon bra is best for me. Feels so good on my nipples

Greg July 11, 2022

Bras have become my favorite lingerie piece. I only wish XDress had more choices, especially with back clasp, underwire and band stabilizing bones under the arms to prevent muffin tops.
Pleas bring back a high waist shaper… one that I can pull out and overlap the bottom band of my bra. When I wear that combination with enhancers in my cups I feel very empowered! The firm hug is indescribable. Beyond amazing!

Don August 21, 2021

Thanks XD Blogger for starting this discussion. BTW, you are a fantastic lingerie model. For several years my lingerie collection consisted of only hip laced nylon tricot panties. However, as I increased my visits to lingerie departments, I observed that bras were both beautiful and sensual. This observation unleashed in me a very strong urge to complement my panty wardrobe with pretty color matching lace bras. My initial bra purchase was that of an underwire nylon bra in black which is my favorite color. It had lovely lace on the upper edges of the cups. I decided to buy it but was unsure as to what size. I resolved this question by selecting a bra which would be proportionate to my torso frame. Hence I bought a sexy looking 38b bra. After nervously purchasing my first bra, I rushed home with my heart pounding and went straight to my bedroom where I stuffed it with several pairs of my male nylon bikinis thus creating a female profile in the full length mirror. I was quite pleased that I appeared to be much more feminine than ever before as the bra accentuated my female shaped body. I really liked the way my bra fit snugly on my chest. Oh baby, it felt SOOO GOOD! As they say what happens when you put on panties for the first time, I was hooked big time! This experience prompted me to enlarge my lingerie collection by first buying a black garter belt and a pair of ultra sheer nylon stockings, thus opening the floodgates for the acquisition of more and more different kinds of sexy lingerie.

Roxanne January 06, 2021

XDress did it! They put the clasp on the back of their Cheeky Satin Bra! Love it! Thanks!

Scott November 04, 2020

Love the bra! But would like the clasp in the back! More feminine than pulling it over your head!

Scott September 23, 2020

Yes! What a difference a bra makes indeed!

I’d been a panty wearer for a very long time, and soon after my boyfriend and I met, he detected my deeply feminine streak In the first few weeks after we’d met and quickly become quite intimate, I’d always worn small men’s bikini briefs. Finally, though, knowing full well what he REALLY wanted (and what I hadn’t yet given him – wink, wink, nudge, nudge), I wore a man’s thong of purple silk. THAT really got him going, and yes, that afternoon, he got what he really wanted! Okay, we both wanted it! Giggle!

The next morning, I opened my email to find a message from him: “I loved the thong you wore yesterday. Babe, have you ever considered wearing panties?”

THAT really got ME going! So quickly from meeting a new man like me, gay but married, to becoming great friends, then on to finding comfort with each other as gay lovers, and now, this new man I met only weeks ago is encouraging me to explore and embrace my femininity with him? Could it get any better??

The next time we met, I wore a hot pink all-lace boyshort (I still have the pictures). I couldn’t keep him off me! Didn’t want to! But shortly after, I decided to take my feminine expression to a new level, one that I had never explored on my own, and I didn’t ask his permission – I wanted to do this for me! I bought a white satin and lace bra and panty set, and completed my underwear ensemble with white lace-top backseam thigh-high stockings (I still have these pictures, too!)

Oh, goodness, but that man ravished and ravaged me for well over two hours! I had fully awakened and aroused the male beast in him, and I loved every minute! Since that night, bras have always been an important part of my underwear.

I love the bralettes and camis – they’re easy on, easy off, and they’re delightfully comfortable to sleep in with my man. But I adore the hook-and-loop back closure bras – definitely my favorite. Our lovely blogger is right – boys, put your back clasp bras on the way our women do: backwards – get the bra around you, secure the hook-and-loop closure in front where it’s convenient, then spin the bra around your torso until the cups are lusciously cradling your chest, and finish with getting your arms into the shoulder straps. Once your bra is properly in place, you can get on your garterskirt the same way!

Why put on a bra the way a woman does? To reinforce that deeply feminine that’s welling up inside you, desperately wanting to come out and make someone notice! Why do I love back-closure bras that make me put them on like a woman? Hey, I’m about to happily hop into bed with handsome, hung man I adore, and he’s going to penetrate and inseminate his lover (multiple times) as I eagerly and blissfully embrace my role as his surrogate female!

If I’m going to play the part of a woman, I’m going to play it all the way! Bras on, boys!

Nick June 28, 2018

I was cross-dressing for about 3yrs before I bought my first bra to see what it felt like to wear one & once I had it on, along with a pair of pink panties, a pair of black tights/pantyhose & my lemon dress. My dressing as a female felt a lot better, So I bought another six of them so that I could wear a different every day, when I dressed in my bedroom for an hour or two each day, as at that time that was the only place I could dress in my woman’s clothes. I now have a flat (condo) all to myself & while indoors I’m always fully dressed as a woman, as I prefer wearing my woman’s clothes to my male clothes.

paul May 13, 2018

Today was a great bra day
I wore the cotton bralette with blue lace thong
I wore a black t shirt over it with spirts jacket
With my new pedi i felt sexy and confident
I just wish i couldve worn my red suede sling back pumps but that will have to wait until i get home

Steff May 11, 2018

As a “Crossdresser,”…I wear My Bras and Panties 24/7, 365…I wear Nylons With my Garter Belt, Pantyhose, Sleep in a Nightgown…Wear Clip-On Earrings…Toes always painted (“Hot Pink”) right Now !!! “Love, Paul”

PaulaPlaytex May 05, 2018

the butterfly bra tops of the line. Feminine, sexy, very thin in the best way possible. I have pierced “you knows” and this bra accentuates them wonderfully. Sizing is great and affordable too!

Randi March 28, 2018

Women once burnt their bras to liberate themselves. I put mine on first thing in the morning to liberate myself from being a man. The bre really makes me feel so feminine, I love wearing them.
I prefer the clasp, as I do mine up reaching behind my back, then inserting my breast forms whenever I am wearing one with the pockets for them. Love my lady bumps, tee hee.
I use nipple suckers to ensure my nipples are sitting proud whenever I am not wearing the breastforms, they really show off under satin bras.
I do have bralettes as well and wear those whenever I want to ensure there are no straps showing.
After all girls, a bra is a bra.
Kisses Paula xoxoxoxo

Paula March 28, 2018

OMG. I love bras. They are so exquisitely feminine. I have been wearing panties since I was a teen. In my (well retired) older years now. I also experimented with bras as a teen and feel in love with how they made me feel. Over the years my desires for lingerie never faded. Do they ever. I hope not. I have worn bras to work on rare occasions. If my panties didn’t already make me feel feminine the bras pushed me over the top. Might as well admit I was probable wearing a garter belt and stockings as well. I got married and put the bras and garter belts away for the most part. She accepts my wearing panties, thankfully.

As to favoring bralettes over the clasp I am about 50/50. Slightly prefer the clasp as it feels so good to reach behind you and hook up my bra. However, the bralette is very functional and you are less likely to be spotted. Although I have been outed a few times wearing both. The clasp bra as a rule but once a bralette.

It is all fun and so exciting. I have never tired of wearing panties and bras as well as other women’s clothing.

Keri March 27, 2018

I love the hook clasp type
They give my chest a lift
Under the right clothes nonone can tell
I feel sexy in a bra
And i love being hugged all day
Thank you for reaching us(men who wear bras)

Steff March 24, 2018

I own most of your styles. I prefer the clasp hook style in the back. Makes me look and feel more feminine. I Wish you had more choices to pick from. But the bras I do have from Xdress I love. Wearing your bras have given me natural beautiful breast. And I love when my nipples protrude through the sexy silk.


Angelica March 23, 2018

Xdress is absolutely the best supplier of bras! I have the Normandy Lace Bra your model is wearing in the lead pic in black, plus the Glistening Satin & Lace in blue, the Lace & Satin Whisper Bralette in lavender, and a couple of others. Both the bralette and the traditional clasp bra have their advantages. With the bralette, you don’t have to worry about the straps sliding off your shoulders. On the other hand, the straps can easily become revealed with the wrong top. The traditional clasp bra won’s show the straps. What is my favorite? Both! Keep up the good work!

Angie March 23, 2018

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